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Topic: Guy Going To The Army.
riseagainst__X's photo
Thu 10/11/07 02:13 PM
I am in love.
And I mean it.
His name's Kyle, and my feelings for him have been growing stronger and stronger. He doesn't know how I feel...

He told me earlier tonight that he was leaving with the Army in 2months.

Im seriously scared.
You hear on the news about death, destruction, tragedy and loss, and I'm afraid that when he gets shipped out to Iraw, or Afghanistan, that he won't come back....

He's my life-line and he's always been there for me, I don't know what I'd do without him.

I don't know what to do brokenheart

shadow_princess's photo
Thu 10/11/07 02:21 PM
all you can do is pray and trust he knows what hes doing i know those fears well...my boyfriend has been in iraq for months but its what they're trained for so if that time comes just pray and let him know you are behind him

riseagainst__X's photo
Thu 10/11/07 02:22 PM
Cheers

xXx

freeonthree's photo
Thu 10/11/07 07:35 PM
Tell him how you feel !

willy_cents's photo
Thu 10/11/07 07:37 PM
definitely tell him how you feel...straight out. He will need that knowlege when he is whereever he ends up...besides, why wait to tell him if you feel that way anyhow?

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/11/07 07:42 PM
I agree w/Shadow. Give him to God and His angels. Remember He is bigger than all of the middle east anyway. He's got it. :wink:

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Thu 10/11/07 07:43 PM
..his forte, he needs your support, friendship and love. So be positive and stay positive for him always. Thoughts are powerful

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Thu 10/11/07 07:45 PM
I hope he will be safe and come home to you soon.flowerforyou :smile:

Fade2Black's photo
Thu 10/11/07 07:48 PM
I agree .. being positive for him is HUGE!!! doesn't hurt for you either :tongue:

seanusmc26's photo
Thu 10/11/07 08:03 PM
i am a disabled vet(Marine) and spent over 3 1/2 in combat (Afghanistan etc...) you have to be strong for him. if you love him dont tell him unless u know you can deal with the fact he could die ,,,,thats is hard for you ..but think how hard it is for him... he needs to keep his head in the game...remember where he is goin...

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/11/07 08:27 PM
Sean is right what ever road you take just support him 100% it's a hard cruel world for them they need the support beyond anything.


But............ if it was me I say tell him girl there is nothing worse than the feeling of really liking someone and something happens and you never told them been there done that and it is a hard price to paybigsmile

seanusmc26's photo
Thu 10/11/07 09:35 PM
but txsgal that is selfish,you thing about what you would miss out on..you sit at home where it is safe..WE PUT OUR LIVES ON THE LINE EVERY SECOND OF THE DAY.that is all it takes for you to lose your life..LOVE HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART!!!but does his mind need to be on a beautiful girl or those that are tring to kill him...you cant be selfish with someone else life on the line...

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Fri 10/12/07 12:57 AM
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glitterybee's photo
Fri 10/12/07 12:59 AM
How is that selfish?! To tell someone you love them and let them know they will be returning home to a girl who cares after all they've been through, that is not selfish. He is going to be homesick and lonely at some point, there's no avoiding that. What would be selfish is if she never said anything and something tragic happened to him. I'm sure he would want to know.

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Fri 10/12/07 01:13 AM
Tell your guy how you feel. Now the hard part, don't give him a guilt trip. Guy has plenty on his mind.Just be honest and let him be who he is. And tell him you love him if and when he leaves.

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Fri 10/12/07 01:17 AM
Because Glitter, we don't all come home. Some of us are given the a life of being crippled. We are not the same when we come "home".

glitterybee's photo
Fri 10/12/07 01:23 AM
Didn't I already allude to that? Believe me, I know its rough. My brother's training in the Navy SEALS and my last two serious relationships were men from the military. Just expressing her feelings can do a lot of good...besides I didn't say guilt him into anything did I?

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Fri 10/12/07 01:54 AM
Grllllllllllll you cant help who you love but do know that you may have heartbreak whether he comes back or not.........alot of men are not the same when they come back!!flowerforyou

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Fri 10/12/07 08:46 AM
say good byeohwell

trustingfate's photo
Sat 10/13/07 11:15 AM
Be his sholder to lean on, and his ray of laughter in the dark...be there for him...that should be enough to tell him how you feel anyway, no words are truely necissary sometimes.

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