Good Day my friends of Mingle2, I want to say thanks and keep spilling the beans for me on my topics, its greatly appreciated & gaining new " Opinion Minions" is always a great thing to me. Lets get to the meat n' the potatoes on another topic of mines. I want to give you a scenario, let's say you at your career or job, you making great income for yourself, & you seem to be living the life, you have your friends in your corner, you are popular at work. You climbed the success ladder rather nicely, you have a husband or wife at home along with kids that depends on you daily. you got the dog, the big house with the white picket fence, you invited to luncheons with corporate elites & ect. Here's where it get crazy, your boss one day come out and make an announcement we have a new addition to our team today people her name is (Lets name her Jenna). Okay, Jenna is blonde, attractive with sexiness and her swag is enticing to you but she going to be your new boss under your superior boss. One day you are working as usual not thinking of anything out the blue, your new boss approaches you with a desire in her eyes, & first ask you about you? Then it goes to well I think that we should have lunch together. Okay you go to lunch its all innocent, no pun intended. So you at lunch you & her, you share more about who you are and your career plans for yourself, she decides to play "footsies" under the table , flirting with you. She asks you "do you find me attractive?' Of course you do picture Heather Locklear or Anna Nicole Smith is your new boss. Then she gives you a deal that some men & women wouldn't refuse. She gives you a proposition, "How bad do you want that new position at the company & your pay raise?" Mind you, you have a family to support, a mortgage, investments to protect, your reputation to uphold. She tells you " I can give you as much money you desire & I can assure you that higher position will be yours if you spend one passionate night with me"." I want to have my way with you ". "If you refuse I will destroy you at the company". " I will file sexual harassment, you will be demoted possibly fired, take a huge pay cut, and take it a step further and tell your wife you had an affair with me...so you loose your family and your creditability with them"." So what's your answer?". Now folks what would you do in a situation like that, before you answer this is not based on me but a scenario I came up with. Would you do?, top further your career & pay? Would you do it, this is a way to have sex with a hot chick with power? Would you do it because its easy? Would you not do it because you don't want to lose your family, your credit with friends & colleagues? Would you not do it because its against company policy? or would you not doing it because it just plain wrong! I want to sip on your steaming hot tea on this one . Tell me how would you handle a indecent proposal like this one? Keep in mind I made this up[ but there's people male & female face this everyday where they workforce? so lets have a little fun with this one, later!

<<<<SOME people cannot be coerced.

I would not do it and would even quit the job to get a way from a woman like that.

I would,,, be flattered all the way to the bank

what can be done if we BOTH file harassment against each other

and if she is the BOSS,, she is actually more in violation of such laws,,

OP layoff the Mary Jane

I won't do it...I had kind of similar experience when I was 19 yrs. old with my married Boss. I didn't accept and quit my job.

I'll wait for the abridged version ... or at least the one with paragraphs ..

It's not a well thought out scenario.

If I don't have sex with her, she reports me for sexual harassment, and tells my wife I had sex with her.
All without proof, all within a company that I've worked at longer, in which she is new, plus I have to assume my wife will accept her word (without proof) over mine?

If I do have sex with her, I give her evidence she can use to report me for sexual harassment, and to prove to my wife I had sex with her.


Why would I have sex with her?
Because she verbally agrees to forward my career and financial security?

Of which I have absolutely no guarantee she will actually do?
I have absolutely no means to enforce her fulfilling it?
And if I try she can easily just use the first blackmail condition, with proof now, to get out of it?


It's a bad scenario.


I would wonder what I did in my life to lose my mental faculties to be in a position to have a boss as stupid as she is who is making the proposal.

If I was stupid enough to have a boss that stupid then more than likely I would simply react to my fear and do whatever she told me to do because I'd be too cowardly and stupid to do anything else.

It would depend whether the new boss was hot :P Actually, I wouldn't. It's not worth it. I'd walk away with my sanity in tact. She can keep her ugly physchotic thoughts to herself. . I'd leave my job, before she sacked me.

That's My Girl Ms. Harmony

Really, you would be flattered? but would you have the affair?

Cajunman

I respect your honesty, think I wouldn't do it I would have too much to lose. somebody said without proof no one will never know. I don't know maybe she crafty. maybe she knows powerful people like her dad have powerful judges or police chiefs eats at her house regularly.

friendly_woman

you would if your boss was hot....lol okay! I respect your honesty

No way
Values to high. If i can't do it the hard work way then its time to move on

to soulfie

yes you right baby girl

Maria

good for you Maria,

Annie

good for you too ! wow everyone has mixed feelings about this ...keep it coming

I would quietly get another job, resign my current one w/o the sexy new boss knowing, hit dat, and laugh at her

i thought the same!
i can't bear reading stuff with no sentences/paragraphs etc

rebelarcher,

yeah I would do the same, beauty can't buy you your worth. what I would do is set her up like keep a secret recorder on me and plant small cameras around even try some other tricks up my sleeve.