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Topic: Multiple marriages and divorces
MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Thu 10/11/07 09:57 AM
laugh JK

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Thu 10/11/07 09:59 AM
Wow what a heated topic...can't believe how many times I have seen that F-word thrown around either.

Ok my opinion is this, I think everyone sees things differently. I have been married once and divorced once. I think everyone can make mistakes and love is most deffinately blind. I, however, would NOT be with someone who has been married a bunch of times. Its just not for me, I would wonder if they knew how to be in a relationship.
I would wonder if they would know how to be committed. I think people run on different "red flags." I say, to each their own. This is how I feel and no-one has to agree with what I think. I guess the question is this...if you knew someone couldn't make a committment...would you marry them? If you knew someone was an alcoholic..would you marry them?? How about an abusive mate? An eating disorder?? A manic depressant?? See, we all have to draw the line some where.
My opinion is...I want someone that hasn't been divorced more then twice. To me, it makes me wonder why they can't make a marriage work. I am sure that sometimes it is out of their control....but, we all have certain criterias that we want our mate to meet. If they don't...you just move on!!

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Fri 10/12/07 01:16 AM
Good input unsure...I liked what you wrote here, the purpose of the question.

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