i agree w beats, there are too many people who think theyre opinion on how a relationship should be is the way everyone thinks it should be. theres something wrong with u if youve been divorced more than once theres something wrong w/ u if you never been maaried, theres some something wrong w u if ur bi, or gay, or a crossdresser, or poly.

Wed 10/10/07 12:35 PM
gypsy wanted stats, so i gave them to her, because housewife thinks that she has all the answers, and if not, she'll just make fun of people. ... that is the best she has to offer. no links, no data, no proof, just well this is what i think and if you don't agree than hahahaha i'll make fun of you...

its boring and infantile :)

Hmmmmmmmmmm housewife???? Now that is funny!!!!

But again unless we all listen to you, because you are YOU, you must be right!!!!!

Yes.......youre posts are boring and infantile.......

Maybe you should post a boring housewife post......and then put a link to it next time.........since you have none!

Kid: I had to ask, what's wrong with you? hahahaha

lbl

not every one really wants what they say they want

i am learning this the hard way

i answer a lot of threads here and get negative feed back
for my view on occasion

and sometimes get outright attacked as well



and those are really hard to decipher

to much work for me altho i do understand how

good luck

and

may much good come your way

repost

i am going to have to agree w/singing's two posts

just because they have been in two failed marriages

does not mean the failing was there fault
maybe the spouse cheats for the sake of cheating

or they become someone that has changed and no
longer feels they can stay in the relationship with you

and what does divorce mean a legal termination of a legal marriage

what about the people that just live together for a few years
and go there own ways

and done this multiple times and say no i never been divorced

a technically true statement but would you trust them
if you found this out

and just because someone did not get along w/someone else does not mean they will not get along with you

but hey what do i know

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and for the record married 12 yrs and divorced once she remarried 3 weeks later to the father of her son i was trying
to adopt

long term significant other for 8 yrs and she got religion
and left after cheating

so i guess i am high risk according to most of the posts on
this thread even tho i have never cheated on nor struck anyone

lilwabbit: sorry i wasn't directing it at you...
i've just noticed a little trend here in the forum threads with a few people.

their only grace is belittling or judging others, and i've decided that i'm going to target them. because they don't get to hurt innocent people. at all.

as soon as they can show that they're so much more mighty and better than anyone else on this dating site, then they can go ahead and judge them, pick on them, mock them, insult them, and belittle them. but if i see it?

they're bait.

period..

that is offensive.

I've seen people on here that are really decent and everyone, from what i can gather is either lonely looking for friends, or looking for a life long partner, and there is nothing wrong with that...

however, those few that feel its ok to cross examin and play judge and jury, haven't met anyone like me before... i don't scare,and i don't back down, and i don't care if they want my fcuking address, i'll give it to them cuz the're internet keyboard warriors that only can find validation by insulting and putting down others while pretending to be spiritual, and so caring...

its bullsiht and i can smell it 1000 paces out.

Im about to take a shower.......gotta get ready for work!!!

case and point:
the best she can do is insult...
that is ALL she has... nothing else...
its just lame.. and pathetic...
and the act of a weak person

ooopsy.......disagree with living and we are attacking and insulting.......hmmmmmmmmmm intersting

I will now sit back and tell you......you are right...yes you are always right.......would you like a martini honey???

i alwaYS THOUGHT WE WERE TRYING TO SEE OTHERS VEIWS ON ISSUES TO GIVE OURSELVES SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT, BUT IMA FIND A NEW TOPIC I GUESS BEFORE I GET MY HEAD BIT OFF IN HERE. sorry my daughter hit caps locks

c'mon gypsy...
you have suck a big fcuking mouth... splatter your life on teh forums for the scrutiny of the masses...

do you have the balls to do that or does your power only extend to mocking and belittling other people?

your kind is all over the internet...
weak, and lonely and only happy if they're putting other people down....

try me out, see how you fare... see if you can actually hurt my feelings or belittle me, cuz you're not even fit to lick my spit off the sidewalk with how you insult and put people down here and woah amazingly enough its always men?
go figure eh?

obviously you have some issues with men you need to resolve instead of just slamming them all the time....

i would suggest handling this by email

and send a link to mike matt or van

before it gets to far out of hand

just a thought

Whoever you directing that crap to LivingByBeats leave it out of this post...don't care for all these dramas

I don't know. I hope it's not fatal though!
I've heard married people live longer for some reason. Do they try to outlive the other just out of spite?

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1) Do not attack/slam/insult others. You can discuss the message or topic, but not the messenger - NO EXCEPTIONS. If you are attacked by another user, and you reciprocate, YOU will also be subject to the same consequences. Defending yourself, defending a friend, etc. are NOT excuses. Violations of this rule are taken very seriously and may result in being banned without warning!

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would hate to see anyone disappeer

hey buddy why the hell don't you just shut up as you are removing all doubt.....

When you are presented with an opinion that differs with yours your response is to swear...how many times have you been married not like at all!

My bad!

Sorry!

kidatheart70 - you will be fine mate, bad people live longer too hahaha

i jst get hot when people think that they have a right to make judgments on other people... about whether they're good or bad as people becuase of whatever has happened in their lives, or poor choices they might have made previously....

just blows my mind that anyone looking for a partner could think that they have that right...

its wrong man... fully...
and i apologize for bringing it into this thread, but i don't apologize for being angry about it, because quite simply my anger is right and good on this topic.

its really easy for a lot of folks to be brave with a keyboard and mouse... while they're shaking like leaves inside their skin....

it doesn't matter if a person hasn't ever been married.
if they've been married once.
if they've been married 10 times.

it only matters if you are meeting that person do you care for them and accept them for who they are, as they are at the time that you meet them.....
if not? then realize that it is you who cannot reconcile it and it has ZERO bearing on the other person, and it is something that you yourself will not have in your life.

it is wholly and completely wrong to look down on another human being in anyway shape or form to validate your own baggage.

period.

we are still trying to figure out if you were married.....your profile says never.....then you say in a thread you were married.....make up your mind??? Which were you???