just pointing it out







wrong, I have no hangups about race, as I believe in the individual, not the collective like most of your people ( by people I mean leftist)




again that depends, preference due to attraction vs indoctrination isn't the same thing.

First. If one has a hangup about even the DISCUSSION of a thing, one has a hangup about that thing.

Second. ATTRACTION is about asthetics, individuals in any race have too many ASTHETICS to lay the attraction solely on their RACE.

I have no hang ups about race or even discussing it



I honestly dont know what you mean by that? SMH.

I think youre saying attraction is about aesthetics? and I would respond for some

I dont know what that means that individual in any race have too many aesthetics ?

I believe in the old saying "beauty is the eye of the beholder" and not everyone can agree to what is beauty to them.

I can find many women of all races that believe Ryan Gosling is a hunk, and I can find many women of all races that will disagree he is a hunk.

My point is some will base it on preference and some will base it indoctrination .

okay. well RACE based indoctrination, or RACE EXCLUSIVE preference, is RACIST.

ahhh damn you almost had it... sigh

at least you are acknowledging indoctrination

preference you are still hung up on and that is fine, that is your view and opinion.

You agree that difference races have different features right?

I think we have different things we 'identify' different races by. But they all have individuals with a healthy cross section of shared features.

Exactly what I was saying Ms. H. To exclude, or include, someone on the basis of race is racism. To say "I am not a racist, but I ""prefer"", or ""only"", (insert racial "preference" here), is hypocrisy to the utmost.

no, because Ive never seen a black person with blue eyes and blonde hair.

Ive never seen a full Caucasian with afro hair

Ive never a Chinese person with dark skin like an african

we have different features and different things that attract us




Ive already address this with Miss harmony, there is a difference between attraction vs discrimination enforced by indoctrination.

I guess when anyone is rejected they can always use the Racism excuse to justify it

Whatever happen to " hey Im not interested in you" there was no justifying it , it was simple.

now people want a explanation of why they were rejected and racism seems to be the best choice or other ism, ageism, classim, anti fatism, blah blah blah.

God I miss the old days sometimes.

I agree.

oh. so we are going to distinguish 'full' percentage of a race? Do you believe that is what people mean? because few people in USA are FULL black you know? they most have some type of mixture in their ancestry ,and yet census and jail statistics count them as 'black'.

they can use ANY reason they believe is relevant actually.

Id say 'racism' would be relevant only if one knows (by the person's admission for example) that they have excluded from their options ANYONE of a certain race. That person is not speaking about whether an INDIVIDUAL attracts them anymore, they are lumping ALL INDIVIDUALS together based only on their ancestry(race).

so because a person preference is not their race it makes them racists?

God I miss the old days where racists actually said they were racist because they were actually racist, now if one doesn't date whoever and its another race they are now considered racists .

So, if I don't date women, does that make me a sexist?

sigh..

once again, what I TYPED was IF a person EXCLUDES a whole group of people based SOLELY on race, that is racist.

If one has a 'preference' that does not involve exclusion. I prefer butter pecan ice cream, which is different than saying I would never have vanilla.

if it makes you feel any better, I think most in the USA are racist, its in the correlations caused by the images and associations we are immersed in every day. I dont think all racism is the same. Some is based only in ignorance or lack of exposure, while others are based on ego or sense of superiority, and yet others on hate.

and no, I dont consider it racist if some ONE doesnt date another ONE. I do consider it racist if some ONE wont date ANY ONE that is a member of a certain race.

Yes. That is a sexist requirement. And SO WHAT? So am I. we exclude a whole group based on their SEX. thats SEXIST.

you know you make a comparison that involves food or whatever is really silly right?

you dont marry or date food, the fact that I hate Ethiopian coffee.doesn't make me a racist against Ethiopian coffee. or Ethiopians, Im a coffee snob, I like Colombian coffee, Jamaican blue gold coffee and Hawaii Kona Coffee, im not planing on marrying them or dating them

Some people just dont want to date darker skinned people because its not appealing to them, just some dont want to date those with their eyes slanted, some dont want to date because they are not attracted to pale skin.

yes some are bigots but so what? Ive met people that doesn't date a certain race and its boiled down to attraction, I know this woman I play baseball in the summer with she has Indian friends but will never date an Indian guy because she isn't attracted to them, but she has Indian friends and they all understand, none of them thinks she is racist

but according to you she is racist?

come on.

I guess that I'm sexist and a homophobe because I DON'T WANT TO DATE MAN PERIOD.

yes. People can even have RACIST tendencies towards their own race. Its pretty simple. RACE BASED EXCLUSION (whatever the topic) is RACIST, unless it is mentioned as part of a race based STUDY of some type.

I am not attracted to PALE skin, which may be associated with white people, but I AM attracted to a pretty smile, broad shoulders, and a LIST of other things that many white people ALSO have. so to exclude the WHOLE Race is RACIST as there is no unique asthetics on anyones 'attractive' list that does not exist in people from all races in

Nope.
It just means you do not prefer the same gender regarding dating.

so you are trying to tell us you're not racist? is that what you're telling us?

And I know Caucasian women that wouldn't date a black man, but would if Shemar Moore asked them out

I know black men that wouldn't date a white woman but would make an exception for Megan Fox

Ive known Indian women that wouldn't date a Chinese guy but would jet li

so does that mean they mostly racists or 90% or whatever number one comes up with?