Sorry, I get sassy sometimes.

Oh, you just made me remember a blind date with a Russian man. He didn’t speak enough english to know if I liked him or not though.

I have to object though. My Russian date was exceedingly handsome. Swoon worthy.

What a tease!

There is nothing more beautiful than two people who love each other with passion ..personally I adore the exotic melting pot of culture and individuality .. to all of humanity under the one sun one love is my guiding beacon

I support interracial relationships but I’m personally not interested in dating someone who isn’t white and / or who isn’t Westearn looking ( European or North-American ).
I am not attracted to black men, turkish people, north-african people and Asian people. I have only ever been attracted to Caucasian people.

Attraction isn’t something that should be explained or defended. It just is.
I mean, I can’t force my brains to be attracted to someone if I’m not.
I respect everyone. I respect interracial relationships.
I’m just only attracted to caucasian looking white people and only very few asians.
I don’t see how that makes me a bad person if I have never been attracted to black people? I respect everyone the same no matter what skin color. It’s just that my attraction cannot be defended. It just is.

I find women from all races beautiful.
Not all women of course, but when they please my eyes, I couldn't give a bliip about where they come from or what race they are.
Maybe I'm weird.

for the politically correct regressive left it does

for rightist like me, it doesn't, nor do I care about who is attracted to whom.

Leftist will call you a racist for exclusion as she put it, Im just waiting to see what she says

Im just going to sit back and grab the popcorn

hey...I quit doing that a few weeks ago...

I dont really think there is any topic beyond 'explaining'

And as I have said, it is different to be or not be attractive to some ONE (individual) than some RACE (billions of individuals)

I also never said that racist or sexist dating choice is either good or bad, just that its RACIST(exluding an entire race of billions of individuals) or SEXIST(excluding an entire sex of billions of individuals)


My attraction just is as well. that is true for everyone. but what I ahve learned is that people are individuals and not their entire race when it comes to their features.





THIS white guy is 'attractive' to me



this white guy not so much

and there are many many others who are in the 'white' guy basket that dont look like either of them, so to decide arbitrarily nobody in that 'white' basket is attractive is a racist based barrier/presumption

and you wonder why your country is divided? politically , racially etc.

You obviously have a different definition of racism, sexism etc from those on the right.


You may believe you're being fastidious, but in truth you are not, you're giving me one of those pontification Ive heard from the left ever since I discovered the forums a few years ago.

In the age of P.C today who would have thought that Racism and Sexism are polysemantic?

wow.

when you've described peoples action they take or choices they make you are essentially "labeling " them

whether you are talking about the USA or not, people live in this world too, dont they deserve to be included in your logic?

yes, smart people SOMETIMES make dumb choices

sane people, under the right situations, can do crazy things.

like I said, labeling an action is different than putting a label on a person, because people and their actions have many layers.

So I dont label people racist, although I will define an action as racist

and the USA reference is not about 'deserving', its about being relevant to what was asked and what I happen to have the most experience about, being born and RAISED in the USA.

like what? give us some examples.




again , double bubble bumper talk, what is the difference between me saying " hey Brenda is a murderer" or saying "Brenda why did you murder that person?"

what is the difference?

the difference is putting people in boxes by individual actions, when they commit too many options to fit neatly in only one box.

AS I said, smart people (who NORMALLY make smart choices) can make mistakes and do something dumb sometimes.

we are more than any one choice or action, which is why I dont often sink to name calling.

I dont even know what even means? its as bizarre as the saying or I think its a song " may the bird of paradise fly up your nose"



so describing their actions in your eyes doesn't equate to name calling or "labeling"

okay got it now.

wonderful.

it's up to the people involved. for some interracial is the only way to go. others not so. (doesn't necessarily mean bigotry/racism... but for some, unfortunately, it does mean that.)

for me, it's attitude, inner beauty, that can cinch a relationship, or break it.

thank you for the grammar lesson as we didnt know that

anyways , back to the topic of interracial dating

You say if someone excludes a race when it comes to dating is considered "racist"

It makes me wonder if you know the difference since you are big on labeling , what is the difference between bigot, racist and prejudice?

lol. In laymans terms, I would say a BIGOT is a noun describing a person intolerant to those different than they are, RACIST is an adjective that describes actions or words meant to lump an entire RACE of individuals together, and RACIST can also be a noun to describe a person who assumes certain RACES as innately superior or inferior to others in one way or another, and PREJUDICE is a noun describing a mindset that JUDGES an individual not on their individual actions or words but based on a pre established assumption about them based upon the group they belong to.