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Topic: Puzzling
drumguy10's photo
Mon 10/08/07 01:56 PM
Why does a woman make you a mutual match after you initiate it and then when you write her she never writes back.

Its not that I am not being written because I am, the behavior just puzzles me. If I receive a message about someone wanting to meet me and I am not interested I decline. It would be silly and wrong to lead someone on that way.

Anyway like I said it just puzzles me :)

Khamisa's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:01 PM
That bothers me also. Unless I pick up that totally "creepy" vibe from a fella, I'll at least say, "No thank you, and good luck."...or, something on that order. That's just the civilized thing to do.

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Mon 10/08/07 02:02 PM
maybe youre a maybe, and maybe she changed her mindhuh

Winx's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:02 PM
Why do men accept me as a Mutual Match and never email me?

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Mon 10/08/07 02:02 PM
and maybe you need to buy a potatoe!!!

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:03 PM
I have a lot of matches but hardly any e-mail.

That happens alot not just in the mutual matches- but in
regular e-mail.

A polite response would be nice- but sometimes we do not allways
get one.

carebear19622's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:05 PM
maybe they want you to write first

( did I do that? )


I send and recieve many e-mails a day I don't usually keep up with them well enough to know if someone didn't reply


I reply as I read them so I don't miss anyonebigsmile

Robm248's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:06 PM
I think that's one of the most frustrating things about this. explode Oh well, most likely she has decided you aren't her type. If they ignore you... doesn't bode well for a relationship... move on.

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:07 PM
No carebear you did'nt do it... :wink:

kidatheart70's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:07 PM
Never looked at the mutual match thingy before. Too much effort required!laugh

Winx's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:07 PM
I am not comfortable emailing the man first.

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:08 PM
Hehehehehehewhehhehenoway noway noway laugh laugh

Hummmmmmmmmmmm hate to tell them but think the mutual matches still have alot of kinks in it. If ya watch ya might be getting some on mutual matches that you did not even say yes or maybe too.bigsmile I know I got serval like that.bigsmile

Winx's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:09 PM
Sometimes I only have time to read an email. I then may have time to answer later in the day or the next day.

singingmyheartout's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:12 PM
I think the mutual match thing stinks. I like my friends in the forums... they are much better than some random guy I never exchanged words with.

I'm not a fan of the random emails that say "HEY, WANNA CHAT?"

I like to have a comfort zone with someone before intimately chatting... just my preference.bigsmile

carebear19622's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:12 PM
its all good winx we seem to communicate okflowerforyou

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:13 PM
I just got a 31 yr. old in there and was wondering where
he came from... laugh

carebear19622's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:16 PM
younger man you gonna keep him?noway

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:20 PM
Sorry... did'nt keep him.
He's my son's age. huh

singingmyheartout's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:22 PM
I get the ones old enough to be my dad... Eeeewwww! laugh

carebear19622's photo
Mon 10/08/07 02:30 PM
eeeeewwwwwwww is rightnoway

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