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Why does a woman make you a mutual match after you initiate it and then when you write her she never writes back.
Its not that I am not being written because I am, the behavior just puzzles me. If I receive a message about someone wanting to meet me and I am not interested I decline. It would be silly and wrong to lead someone on that way. Anyway like I said it just puzzles me :) |
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That bothers me also. Unless I pick up that totally "creepy" vibe from a fella, I'll at least say, "No thank you, and good luck."...or, something on that order. That's just the civilized thing to do.
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maybe youre a maybe, and maybe she changed her mind
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Why do men accept me as a Mutual Match and never email me?
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and maybe you need to buy a potatoe!!!
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I have a lot of matches but hardly any e-mail.
That happens alot not just in the mutual matches- but in regular e-mail. A polite response would be nice- but sometimes we do not allways get one. |
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maybe they want you to write first
( did I do that? ) I send and recieve many e-mails a day I don't usually keep up with them well enough to know if someone didn't reply I reply as I read them so I don't miss anyone |
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I think that's one of the most frustrating things about this. Oh well, most likely she has decided you aren't her type. If they ignore you... doesn't bode well for a relationship... move on.
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No carebear you did'nt do it...
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Never looked at the mutual match thingy before. Too much effort required!
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I am not comfortable emailing the man first.
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Hehehehehehewhehhehe
Hummmmmmmmmmmm hate to tell them but think the mutual matches still have alot of kinks in it. If ya watch ya might be getting some on mutual matches that you did not even say yes or maybe too. I know I got serval like that. |
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Sometimes I only have time to read an email. I then may have time to answer later in the day or the next day.
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I think the mutual match thing stinks. I like my friends in the forums... they are much better than some random guy I never exchanged words with.
I'm not a fan of the random emails that say "HEY, WANNA CHAT?" I like to have a comfort zone with someone before intimately chatting... just my preference. |
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its all good winx we seem to communicate ok
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I just got a 31 yr. old in there and was wondering where
he came from... |
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younger man you gonna keep him?
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Sorry... did'nt keep him.
He's my son's age. |
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I get the ones old enough to be my dad... Eeeewwww!
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eeeeewwwwwwww is right
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