I find the mutual match thingy cool...

it's like wandering around a department store....without leaving home... (poor deprived, isolated woman)


and I've made some inteseting pen friends from it...

I write to them, or they write to me, their choice my choice, they owe me nothing, I owe them nothing....it's not a big deal...

A lot of people keeps b*tching about mutual match...and not having Mr or Mrs Wonderful leap out at them the first time they click on 'maybe'...

...it's just another option to be exposed to more profiles of members who are on the site, who either found something interesting in your profile, or you did theirs...


I wonder how many people write to all 697 people, they have accumulated on their friends list, weekly?

* interesting people, too..

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I like the mtual match feature just maybes should tell you its a maybe and yes should say yes..I mean after all NO means NO right, why should maybe be treated the same as yes

My maybes are maybes because I don't have enough information to say yes. So, I was surprised the first time that I did Mutual Match and they showed up as a "match".

I thought the site started the mutual match, I get em all the time, and it says if I like em and click maybe or yes, they will show her my profile. I think your mistaken...

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i would like a "next" button alongside yes, no, or maybe--it would make things easier to browse who the person is--

Yes, you can read their profile before saying yes or no.
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