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Topic: How do you feel about unfaithfulness?
BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Wed 03/25/15 02:51 AM
"How do you feel about unfaithfulness; and how would you handle it if it happened?"

For me, it would be totally over! If someone would cheat on me, any loving feelings I had for them would be gone. No sense in going back and trying again.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 04:16 AM
Not sure. Depends on the how, what, where, when and whom with, how our relationship is working out etc. If it happens in the early stages of our relationship, definitely end game as it would indicate a character trait.

I'm not sure if I could trust him again.

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Wed 03/25/15 05:10 AM
depends... lol... im sooo forgiving... laugh laugh laugh

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Wed 03/25/15 05:12 AM

Not sure. Depends on the how, what, where, when and whom with, how our relationship is working out etc. If it happens in the early stages of our relationship, definitely end game as it would indicate a character trait.

I'm not sure if I could trust him again.


Well Said! flowerforyou

Hope, your 'little finger' feels a lot better now.:smile:

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Wed 03/25/15 05:16 AM
i'll pass thanks. i never learned to share very well:tongue:

msharmony's photo
Wed 03/25/15 05:49 AM
I have to agree, the circumstances matter

when I was younger, I would be more forgiving, as young men arent always mature

but I expect a maturity at this age that doesnt allow for infidelity.

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Wed 03/25/15 05:50 AM

"How do you feel about unfaithfulness; and how would you handle it if it happened?"

For me, it would be totally over! If someone would cheat on me, any loving feelings I had for them would be gone. No sense in going back and trying again.


He would be put on his a*s!
And I would be saying " next contestant"

smokin

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Wed 03/25/15 07:20 AM
Depends how rich he is. smokin

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Wed 03/25/15 07:24 AM

Depends how rich he is. smokin
hes broke azz with no job.,,,
cheating is cheating,,cant deal with that anymoor. getting to old for high school games,,,,

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Wed 03/25/15 07:28 AM
Doesn't matter if it's unfaithfulness in a relationship or friendship. I have issues with trust as it is, and if it's broken. Buh bye! waving

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Wed 03/25/15 07:31 AM
investigate the case first

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Wed 03/25/15 07:33 AM
unfaithfulness coexists most of the times with misunderstanding

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Wed 03/25/15 07:37 AM


Depends how rich he is. smokin
hes broke azz with no job.,,,
cheating is cheating,,cant deal with that anymoor. getting to old for high school games,,,,


Did I hit a nerve? smokin

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Wed 03/25/15 07:46 AM
Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk laugh ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...

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Wed 03/25/15 08:11 AM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 03/25/15 08:13 AM
Hmm.... when I was younger... I was very much like a child in the candy store.... running from delicious bin of candy to the other... sampling each delicious flavor... never sure of which one I like the best.... it wasn't until I was older that I realized.. too much candy is not a good thing..... so I switched to eating apples.... and one day I found the apple of my eye... never picked another apple from the tree.. after that....


.. but from what I've learnt.... people cheat for a reason..... yes some men and women... just can't resist a nicely wrapped piece of candy...lol

. but for the majority... there is a underlying cause for cheating...
.... it is easy to point the finger at the cheater..... but one should really be asking why are they cheating...
. what are they not getting from the relationship that they so desperately need... so much so that they're willing to risk... said relationship..
.jmo....:angel:

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Wed 03/25/15 08:13 AM
Who would ever cuckold Mr. Peacock? Unthinkable!

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Wed 03/25/15 08:14 AM
He is such a fine lover. At least, on paper...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:17 AM

Hmm.... when I was younger... I was very much like a child in the candy store.... running from delicious bin of candy to the other... sampling each delicious flavor... never sure of which one I like the best.... it wasn't until I was older that I realized.. too much candy is not a good thing..... so I switched to eating apples.... and one day I found the apple of my eye... never picked another apple from the tree.. after that....


.. but from what I've learnt.... people cheat for a reason..... yes some men and women... just can't resist a nicely wrapped piece of candy...lol

. but for the majority... there is a underlying cause for cheating...
.... it is easy to point the finger at the cheater..... but one should really be asking why are they cheating...
. what are they not getting from the relationship that they so desperately need... so much so that they're willing to risk... said relationship..
.jmo....:angel:

Yes, well said, and I totally agree! That's why I also said, depends on how what where blablablar... It's not black and white, is it. Nothing ever is.
Could even be that the other party is cause of the cheating. But nonetheless, even if there is a good reason, I think I would find it extremely difficult to trust again.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:18 AM

Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk laugh ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...

Not easy to deal with!
flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:19 AM


Not sure. Depends on the how, what, where, when and whom with, how our relationship is working out etc. If it happens in the early stages of our relationship, definitely end game as it would indicate a character trait.

I'm not sure if I could trust him again.


Well Said! flowerforyou

Hope, your 'little finger' feels a lot better now.:smile:

No, not healed yet. Went to the doctor a 2nd time and there is possibly a small fissure in the bone, which takes approx 2 months to heal :cry:

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