Topic: How do you feel about unfaithfulness?
Justfun_1's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:28 AM


Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk laugh ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...

Not easy to deal with!
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True,but all in the past now.I'm not getting any younger,so the search is on for someone who appreciates how simple life can be with the right person.But simplicity seems to be so complicated these days :smile:
(I'm showing my age by saying 'these days'.I'm glad i don't feel old laugh )

Argo's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:30 AM

"How do you feel about unfaithfulness.....


to err is human; to forgive, divine......Alexander Pope

no1phD's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:37 AM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 03/25/15 08:38 AM

He is such a fine lover. At least, on paper...
.. LCD actually..
..... I'm like a fine wine and a good book.. just take me home and pour yourself into me..... and sadly..
... I'm alone and no outlet to express..
.... my longing desires... no one here to pour myself into so to speak..
..... although I miss the warmth.. the tender sweetness.... the deepest deepest depths of a woman..... the softness of her curves..
... the moist sweetness of her lips.... the bird song of her voice in my ear..... as she pours herself onto me....

......... but yes sadly . that glowing light from my LCD. screen.
is a blinding reminder..... that all I have right now are my words..
....... at least until she steps out of the misty forest and out into the open...

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no photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:40 AM
You can pour yourself into me. I got first dibs on Mr. Peacock!!! pitchfork

no photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:41 AM
I may need a few more pitchforks here. I see the wild look in their eyes, stampeding towards you!!!! Noooooo!!!!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:45 AM


He is such a fine lover. At least, on paper...
.. LCD actually..
..... I'm like a fine wine and a good book.. just take me home and pour yourself into me..... and sadly..
... I'm alone and no outlet to express..
.... my longing desires... no one here to pour myself into so to speak..
..... although I miss the warmth.. the tender sweetness.... the deepest deepest depths of a woman..... the softness of her curves..
... the moist sweetness of her lips.... the bird song of her voice in my ear..... as she pours herself onto me....

......... but yes sadly . that glowing light from my LCD. screen.
is a blinding reminder..... that all I have right now are my words..
....... at least until she steps out of the misty forest and out into the open...

.


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Well, at least you remember what it feels like... I sometimes find myself wondering .. what it was like. But then my ex comes up, as he was the last one I slept with (as in sleep), and I don't really want to remember that...
I think it will come rushing back as soon as I find new love again, real fast.. and will thoroughly enjoy being draped all over him after we've err... when we are both happy and fulfilled.

no photo
Wed 03/25/15 08:46 AM
Mr. Peacock loves Sweet Cherry Wine!!!

JaSaSam's photo
Wed 03/25/15 10:35 AM
why be in a relationship if you want to act single.

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Wed 03/25/15 01:05 PM
Ahahhahahahahaha

no photo
Wed 03/25/15 01:09 PM
Its better not to go over Der again because it can again turn into unfaithful

keegan1965's photo
Wed 03/25/15 11:54 PM


cheating is a deal breaker....once a cheater always a cheater....once that trust is broken it is never the same. If something is wrong in the relationship that you feel the need to cheat, sit down and talk about it then decide either fix it or walk away its that easy.

HoneyFly's photo
Thu 03/26/15 02:04 AM


"How do you feel about unfaithfulness; and how would you handle it if it happened?"


He would be put on his a*s!
And I would be saying " next contestant"

smokin


Pat, I would like to solve the puzzle.

UnFUITHfullness

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:27 PM

i'll pass thanks. i never learned to share very well:tongue:


LOL well said

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:28 PM

Depends how rich he is. smokin



hmmmm ... do you mean you would put up with someone cheating on you, if they were rich? lol

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:37 PM

Had it done to me after 10 years together.I gave her another chance because i was in love,and she did say it was a mistake.But it turned out that we were both wrong ! She learned that she couldn't keep her panties on when out with her mates and drunk laugh ,and i learned that once the trust is gone,it's really gone.I honestly don't know if i could give someone a second chance now,there are many variables and different circumstances,but i'd rather not go through it again to find out...


Agreed. Once someone cheats on you, it's different anyway. It will never be the same. And if they cheated on you, they will never feel the same, or as much for you as they did before they cheated. Otherwise, why would they cheat? lol. You would never feel the same either. And definitely trust would be lost. And if you don't have trust, you don't have much of nothing. It's really kind of over when someone cheats.

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:38 PM
LOVE THE DRUM SET JUSTFUN ! :)

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:42 PM

Hmm.... when I was younger... I was very much like a child in the candy store.... running from delicious bin of candy to the other... sampling each delicious flavor... never sure of which one I like the best.... it wasn't until I was older that I realized.. too much candy is not a good thing..... so I switched to eating apples.... and one day I found the apple of my eye... never picked another apple from the tree.. after that....


.. but from what I've learnt.... people cheat for a reason..... yes some men and women... just can't resist a nicely wrapped piece of candy...lol

. but for the majority... there is a underlying cause for cheating...
.... it is easy to point the finger at the cheater..... but one should really be asking why are they cheating...
. what are they not getting from the relationship that they so desperately need... so much so that they're willing to risk... said relationship..
.jmo....:angel:


Good post; good points. BUT ALSO .. some cheat only because they can't just be satisfied with having only one person, and also because for the thrill of it, because to see if they can get away with it. the thrill of sneaking and getting aways with it. I know that may be immature, but it happens. Still... the way when you're not getting satisfied with whatever it is in a relationship, is to try to work it out in the relationship. Stepping out of the relationship only makes things worse, and the relationship will then surely break down.

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:43 PM



cheating is a deal breaker....once a cheater always a cheater....once that trust is broken it is never the same. If something is wrong in the relationship that you feel the need to cheat, sit down and talk about it then decide either fix it or walk away its that easy.


Amen to that!

BeautyBrownEyes's photo
Thu 03/26/15 07:46 PM
Ya know? Bibically God only honors divorce for two reasons. (1) Abandonment. (2) Adultery.

(Abuse is something else).

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Thu 03/26/15 07:54 PM


Depends how rich he is. smokin



hmmmm ... do you mean you would put up with someone cheating on you, if they were rich? lol


I'm an idealist in many ways. I'm also a realist. In this case, if I was set up in a cushy lifestyle, that would be my priority rather than getting a messy divorce and traumatizing any children in the relationship. You need to weigh all that. Life is complicated. I know many people stay with cheaters for these practical reasons. Life is not a fairy tale. I will hate him for cheating. But I will love my lifestyle more than causing upheaval.