But, how do you forget?

Its wrong..... To live a lie? No thanks

Hmm. Well, perhaps for some this could be a tough one. A lot of factors could go into it. Like if I'm 99 years old and she cheats, am I gonna leave? For what? Just for example, lol.

Personally, I think cheating on your significant other is about the biggest trust thing in a relationship that you could break. Most other things are forgivable, but this is like hitting at the core of a relationship. I mean, how much closer can you get to someone, than that deep, intimate, skin to skin, body "connected to body" if you know what I mean. Sweat mingling with sweat. Etc.

Can't get much closer than that, right?

Then next thing you know, HEY, WHO the hell's perfume is that? Then that's all you can think of the next time, if there is one. Right? Know what I mean?

So for me, if your gonna break any rule in a relationship, don't break this one. Just say it's over, and move on. Or at least agree to a break, and dating other people, to see if it's really over, or you realize, hey, what we got ain't so bad, it's much worse out there!

Think, the grass is NOT always greener on the other side, folks.

If there's anything worse then cheating, it's THIS!

My advice to any ladies out there in this situation with abuse, got two easy words for you:

GET OUT!

In THIS case, the grass definitely could and probably is, greener on the other side, lol!

If it happens on a weekend, in another county, in another area code ..

Is it still unfaithfulness ?




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Seriously, if I have reason to not trust a partner, she won't be my partner for very long.

I've been cheated on severally,yea yea,i know it's quite unbelievable, despite the fact that am good looking...lol and loyal...but thats Life. My reaction??,i walk out of the entire Relationship, friendship..Everything.No Trust literally means No Love...2nd chances are ********

Depends. If I'm in a committed relationship where we have agreed to not see others then cheating is a break point. However, I have been there and tried to work through things for 2 yrs. He was away for his work for long periods of time, wasn't like I could be there and eventually the distrust just killed all the love.

I do have family where the spouse was cheated on, it was ugly but surprisingly they worked through it. Took a few yrs but they are happy once again. I think both learned alot about each other through that process and now are stronger together.

I feel that it is wrong, and make it or break it, it will take a lot of time to forgive it...

I give none of my time to sluts.

or d***heads...?

Glad to be a dickhead, we don't have to put up with sluts.

Well, in truth I need more information to answer the question.

Are we mutually exclusive yet? I mean that conversation does need to occur (as I found out the hard way, but in essence she was correct).

Have, as a couple, we been engaged in an "open" relationship or engaged in the act of "swinging?"

Am I being cheated on, or being cheated with? If it is a breech of trust in a relationship, it is a lot different than being "the other person." Especially, if as the "other" I have not been informed of a previous commitment.

Does the act of cheating involve relations with a friend or relative of mine? (I'm pretty sure the reaction to this would be a lot different than if it was just a stranger. I'm not saying it would be acceptable to me, just that my feelings in the matter would have a little more rage involved.)


All questions being asked, if we haven't had "the talk" yet, I would be more apt to be forgiving, as really part of the blame would fall to me for not getting off my butt and showing my true feelings. Post talk though, we're done - unless of course it is done in an open relationship where we've set ground rules. As I say though circumstances do matter.

Unfaithfulness is the result of a character flaw.
It's bad...plain and simple.

lol! it all works out, then

Funny...cant think of too many peeps that would say " no biggie"... Hmmm...unless he cheats on me..then I point and laugh and tell him that...lol..

Talking about unfaithfulness of my husband leads me in joining mingle....it was a horrible experience and I still fee the pain up to now... After 19 yrs of loyalty ... I can't take it anymore.. It's not worth it...