Topic: If You're Looking for a Woman Guys...
no1phD's photo
Wed 03/11/15 09:44 AM
of course you're not!.. your dignified
. you have culture..
.... seeing a pair of designer shoes.
. for a quarter of the original price..
. would never send you over the deep end... it would never make you..
perhaps shove gently your fellow sister.. out of the way....no.not you..lol..:wink: ..jkflowerforyou

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DadCat's photo
Wed 03/11/15 09:45 AM

I'm confused as to why men either in the caveman days or now would think to control women when they are not a threat to anyone. I also see how much better the world would be if men would just support, protect and care for women, since they are the mothers of all and only will benefit all. It's perplexing to say the least, what a strange world.


You make a good point about control. I believe this is the basis for the many wars we have in our world.

Many men do support, protect and care for women.
Many women do support, protect and care for men.
It is unfortunate that not all do the same for each other.

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 03/11/15 09:56 AM
The roles that was done for men/women back in the cavemen days worked for them.. It was not so much of a control issue but instead as protection. The men then were the protectors.. The women took care of the kids, preparing the food the men hunted.. ect..

It worked for them does not mean they were controlling..

Life and times have changed..

You either change with the times or get left in your own little world..

Men/Women have done a lot of changes through out time.

We all have a choice what type of partner we want to be with. If a man/woman does not have the quality we look for we have a choice not to be with them.

Therefore it is up to us who we are with, and no ones fault but our own if we choose one that wants to dominate or be controlling.

If they are that way then so be it. If it works for them and the one they are with then who has the right to complain?

Men/Women are different in many ways no reason to find fault in the way a person thinks or acts. Just walk away from the ones that does not fit a persons specifications.


no photo
Wed 03/11/15 12:03 PM


I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.


domination can occur only if one lets it happen. submission is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


Rape can occur only if one lets it happen. Being raped is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.

dreamerana's photo
Wed 03/11/15 12:17 PM
Edited by dreamerana on Wed 03/11/15 12:18 PM



I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.


domination can occur only if one lets it happen. submission is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


Rape can occur only if one lets it happen. Being raped is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.

Estelle,
you like to throw things out there just to get a reaction.
I ask myself what you must have gone through and feel bad for the suffering.
I've been a victim and don't make any secret of it.
I CHOOSE not to let it happen again.
I CHOOSE not to be victim of somebody's unwanted advances again.
I CHOOSE to know some basic self defense to know how yo have a fighting chance.

at the same time I CHOOSE to enjoy life. I CHOOSE to value and respect myself. I CHOOSE not to judge every man by the ones who tried to have their way with me.
I CHOOSE not to let the past prevent me from enjoying my present and future.

no photo
Wed 03/11/15 12:19 PM
It's too bad you can't see this is about all women, not just you or me, and that your reasoning is faulty and part of the problem.

dreamerana's photo
Wed 03/11/15 12:21 PM
wish you all the best

mightymoe's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:14 PM

Feminism only means treating women equally, it could have existed before the fabrication of sexism.


so did the cavewomen go out and hunt? did they defend the caves from marauders? what did the women do that could make it equal?

mightymoe's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:17 PM



I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.


domination can occur only if one lets it happen. submission is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


Rape can occur only if one lets it happen. Being raped is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


wow, just wow... tell that to the tourist in India that was killed by 11 guys, because she didn't think it was a choice... even one of the rapists said they wouldn't have killed her if she didn't fight back... seems your posts are getting dumber and dumber by the day...

no photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:19 PM
Edited by Estelle79 on Wed 03/11/15 01:20 PM
QUOTE:


Feminism only means treating women equally, it could have existed before the fabrication of sexism.



so did the cavewomen go out and hunt? did they defend the caves from marauders? what did the women do that could make it equal?


I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.

no photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:26 PM




I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.


domination can occur only if one lets it happen. submission is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


Rape can occur only if one lets it happen. Being raped is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


wow, just wow... tell that to the tourist in India that was killed by 11 guys, because she didn't think it was a choice... even one of the rapists said they wouldn't have killed her if she didn't fight back... seems your posts are getting dumber and dumber by the day...


Right, I was trying to point out that rape and similar things are not a choice. Maybe you want to call someone else dumb..

Goofball73's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:27 PM

It's too bad you can't see this is about all women, not just you or me, and that your reasoning is faulty and part of the problem.


And all womanhood thanks you for leading them on this great crusade. And when you have written your term paper on this subject please allow me to read it. I shall pee on it as I did the Twilight series. :thumbsup:

mightymoe's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:28 PM




Feminism only means treating women equally, it could have existed before the fabrication of sexism.



so did the cavewomen go out and hunt? did they defend the caves from marauders? what did the women do that could make it equal?


I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.



maybe you should look up what "EQUALITY" actually means...whoa


no photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:29 PM
Edited by Estelle79 on Wed 03/11/15 01:34 PM
Goofball,
I'm sure your mother would be so proud..

Mightmoe,
Equality meaning equal in VALUE not the same. For example, 4 apples cost the same as 4 oranges, they are equal but not the same.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:29 PM





I don't know why people think gender equality means being the same? Equality is only about supporting what the woman does and not dominating that's all it means to me.


domination can occur only if one lets it happen. submission is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


Rape can occur only if one lets it happen. Being raped is a choice. sometimes based on our own need to please.

people treat us how we let them.


wow, just wow... tell that to the tourist in India that was killed by 11 guys, because she didn't think it was a choice... even one of the rapists said they wouldn't have killed her if she didn't fight back... seems your posts are getting dumber and dumber by the day...


Right, I was trying to point out that rape and similar things are not a choice. Maybe you want to call someone else dumb..


i'm sorry you don't think your dumb...

no photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:36 PM
Edited by Estelle79 on Wed 03/11/15 01:36 PM
No one is dumb. We are all learning.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:41 PM
Edited by mightymoe on Wed 03/11/15 01:42 PM

No one is dumb. We are all learning.


very true... but until they learn, they can be dumb...

Goofball73's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:42 PM

Goofball,
I'm sure your mother would be so proud..

Mightmoe,
Equality meaning equal in VALUE not the same. For example, 4 apples cost the same as 4 oranges, they are equal but not the same.


Hey....my Mom is proud of you too Estelle.

mightymoe's photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:47 PM

Goofball,
I'm sure your mother would be so proud..

Mightmoe,
Equality meaning equal in VALUE not the same. For example, 4 apples cost the same as 4 oranges, they are equal but not the same.


but yet not the same... thats why the cost is different... so if there are 4 guys and 4 ladies, they are equal...whoa laugh

no photo
Wed 03/11/15 01:51 PM


Goofball,
I'm sure your mother would be so proud..

Mightmoe,
Equality meaning equal in VALUE not the same. For example, 4 apples cost the same as 4 oranges, they are equal but not the same.


but yet not the same... thats why the cost is different... so if there are 4 guys and 4 ladies, they are equal...whoa laugh


I mean 2 different products can cost the same. So if there are 4 guys and 4 ladies they could be equal, yeah.