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I've gotta have an initial attraction to a woman in order to want to pursue for anything on a dating/relationship level. Personality actually makes the most determining factor, but with out the initial little attraction. It seems otherwise just passing small talk. Blind people prolly won't have as much dilemma  That's true they probably wouldn't. 
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I've gotta have an initial attraction to a woman in order to want to pursue for anything on a dating/relationship level. Personality actually makes the most determining factor, but with out the initial little attraction. It seems otherwise just passing small talk. 100 percent, i agree with you there  I agree too. 
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I say on my profile if you don't have a pic I probably won't respond to you. On rare occasion I will reply to a message from a guy without a pic but unless they are willing to post a pic (even if it's private) I stop responding.
Yes, I think looks matter. I don't have a specific look I'm looking for, it's the attraction. But the way it starts is by seeing a pic. |
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I have a varied palette. I can go from Victoria's Secret models to Women of Wal-mart and not miss a beat.
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I have a varied palette. I can go from Victoria's Secret models to Women of Wal-mart and not miss a beat. I am a versatile person... I can go from Victoria's Secret vamp to a 'woman of Wal-mart' myself.. Looking for a man who can appreciate that ability ... and will love me as much when I'm a 'Wal-mart woman' dressed in torn jeans and a paint-stained shirt as when I'm walking towards him in high heels and stockings  Finding such a man isn't as easy as it sounds though .. |
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There has to be some physical attraction for me.
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I am attracted to a mans eyes. They will say a lot about his personality. Sparkling eyes with intelligent character and laughter. The rest...I will follow.
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The Contours
Some fellas look at the eyes Some fellas look at the nose Some fellas look at the size Some fellas look at the clothes I don't care if her eyes are red I don't care if her nose is long I don't care if she's underfed I don't care if her clothes are worn First I look at the purse! Some fellas like the smiles they wear Some fellas like the legs that's all Some fellas like the style of their hair Want their waist to be small. I don't care if their legs are thin I don't care if their teeth are big I don't care if their hair's a wig Why waste time lookin' at the waistline? First I look at the purse! A woman can be fat as can be, Kisses sweet as honey But that don't mean a thing to me If you ain't got no money If the purse is fat.... That's where it's at. Some fellas like the way they walk The way they swing and sway Some fellas like the way they talk Dig the things they say. I don't care if they wobble like a... Or talk with a lisp I still think I'm a good lover If the dollar bills are crisp First I look at the purse! First I look at the purse! First I look at the purse! First I look at the purse! I don't care if you got yourself a wrap All I want is your pretty green cash Bought me a suit, bought me a car Want me to look like a hollywood star Money, (Money!) I want money (Money!) Baby, ain't no "why", baby (Money!) I need money! First I look at the purse! First I look at the purse! First I look at the purse! First I look at the purse! |
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Jimmy Soul-
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you A pretty woman makes her husband look small And very often causes his downfall As soon as he marries her then she starts To do the things that will break his heart But if you make an ugly woman your wife You'll be happy for the rest of your life An ugly woman cooks meals on time And she'll always give you peace of mind If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Sax solo Don't let your friends say you have no taste Go ahead and marry anyway Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match Take it from me, she's a better catch If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life Never make a pretty woman your wife So from my personal point of view Get an ugly girl to marry you Spoken: Say man! Hey baby! I saw your wife the other day! Yeah? Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee! Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby! Yeah, alright! |
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"Thunder Road"
The screen door slams Mary' dress waves Like a vision she dances across the porch As the radio plays Roy Orbison singing for the lonely Hey that's me and I want you only Don't turn me home again I just can't face myself alone again Don't run back inside Darling you know just what I'm here for So you're scared and you're thinking That maybe we ain't that young anymore Show a little faith there's magic in the night You ain't a beauty but hey you're alright Oh and that's alright with me |
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Hi Debbie1980:
Attraction can change for most people based on their experiences with their personal RS's. For me, when I first started going out w/my ex- boyfriend, I thought he was attractive. By the time we broke up...I thought he was repulsive & I now look for the opposite of him in looks when it comes to a man. If you keep going for the same type of guy (type of face/body, personality, career), & it never works out...you are sabotaging your own chance to find a good match. But it is hard to step out of one's comfort zone, for example I will never consider someone shorter than me b/c I'm not physically comfortable with that in a male. Could there be the perfect guy for me who's 5'7 - maybe, & I'll never give him a chance b/c the physical aspect of attraction will never be there for me. Personality & intelligence & all of the other traits can't make up for the fact that you don't want to get naked with the other person LOL! Without the physical attraction...it's just a friend of the opposite sex, not a b/f, g/f, husband, wife, lover... |
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Edited by
DavidCommaGeek
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Sun 02/15/15 11:20 AM
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Physical attraciveness is the first thing people who can see notice about one another. This is not bad or "wrong", it's just the laws of light and biological photoreceptiveness. (Say that three times fast!)
However, looks fade. In everybody. Eventually. If you're looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with, then personality traits - emotions and intelligence - last a LOT longer, and you shoud put more emphasis on those things. At the same time, however, if you are attracted to one another, why not enjoy that part of your relationship for as long (and as often...) as it lasts? And damn it, TBRich! Now that song is stuck in my head! |
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apparently not.. looks have never helped.me at all.. first thing women..notice about me is my height..iam.6.4..
... then as soon as I start to speak.. ... pretty much game over... Lol.. |
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Attractiveness is important, but it's also important to remember that looks fade, a nice personality doesn't, usually.
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Attractiveness is important, but it's also important to remember that looks fade, a nice personality doesn't, usually. 
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Attractiveness is important, but it's also important to remember that looks fade, a nice personality doesn't, usually. I agree 
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People say there not but they are. Everyone is attracted to different types. There is always the chance you can fall in love without seeing someone but I think you can fall right out of it to once you meet them.
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When I've mooches at people's profiles, I've noticed quite a lot say looks not important, but is this really true? Hasn't there got to be some attraction there, even if it's only a little? For me, there has got to be some physical attraction, I'm not saying I would need to fancy the pants off him, but I would defintly need some physical attraction, even if just a little, because if he had a amazing personality I would become more physically attracted to him. As for personality obviously that's extremely Important, because if someone has a vile personality they will end up looking vile too, so I'm just talking about looks.   
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I've gotta have an initial attraction to a woman in order to want to pursue for anything on a dating/relationship level. Personality actually makes the most determining factor, but with out the initial little attraction. It seems otherwise just passing small talk. Blind people prolly won't have as much dilemma I don't know... Stevie Wonder always had a hot woman by his side... someone was talking in his ear telling him she was good looking.. it matters. |
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For me theres nothing like a hot plain jane,must be a red nick thing IDK
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