Topic: Are looks not important at all?
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Tue 02/17/15 08:27 AM

For me theres nothing like a hot plain jane,must be a red nick thing IDK


So for you, looks are important....e.g. hot....:tongue:

waving

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Tue 02/17/15 08:44 AM
Edited by 2469nascar on Tue 02/17/15 09:15 AM


For me theres nothing like a hot plain jane,must be a red nick thing IDK


So for you, looks are important....e.g. hot....:tongue:

waving
No looks are not important.IAM happy with a great smile.That why i said i like a plain jane. BTW Your the hotest woman on here. flowers


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Tue 02/17/15 09:11 AM



For me theres nothing like a hot plain jane,must be a red nick thing IDK


So for you, looks are important....e.g. hot....:tongue:

waving
No looks are not important.IAM happy with a great smile.That why i said i like a plain jane. BTW Your the hot woman on here. flowers


You sound just like a nascar driver!rofl

flowerforyou

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Tue 02/17/15 09:18 AM




For me theres nothing like a hot plain jane,must be a red nick thing IDK


So for you, looks are important....e.g. hot....:tongue:

waving
No looks are not important.IAM happy with a great smile.That why i said i like a plain jane. BTW Your the hot woman on here. flowers


You sound just like a nascar driver!rofl

flowerforyou
You quit it young lady or iam going to send ya a kick in the butt.
sence i cant MSG you any moor LOLnoway :banana: :banana: :banana: drool

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Tue 02/17/15 09:25 AM
no they aren't " not important at all"

the biggest problem with this as ageneral rule is that

beauty is in the eye of the beholder so it's not easily quantifyable


personally short of a few absolute turn offs, it's really more about how you carry or project your self, that attracts me

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Tue 02/17/15 09:33 AM
There has to be an initial attraction and for each of us that could be something different.........for me I look at his eyes and his smile.....his eyes because they reflect his soul and his smile, whether it's genuine or forced.....then after that I cross my fingers and hope he has a great personality and a sense of humour.

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Tue 02/17/15 09:37 AM
Seems to me that my eyes are connected to my heart, and then the brain weighs and judges the character.

The heart wants what it wants, but listen to your intuition. Never ignore it.

If I can't put a bag over their head, then I ask for the lights out. jk


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Tue 02/17/15 09:42 AM

Seems to me that my eyes are connected to my heart, and then the brain weighs and judges the character.

The heart wants what it wants, but listen to your intuition. Never ignore it.

If I can't put a bag over their head, then I ask for the lights out. jk


AAAWWWW Yes the paper bag trick. Never could do the paper bag thing.If shes that ugly i can"t do it.LOL

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Tue 02/17/15 09:47 AM


Seems to me that my eyes are connected to my heart, and then the brain weighs and judges the character.

The heart wants what it wants, but listen to your intuition. Never ignore it.

If I can't put a bag over their head, then I ask for the lights out. jk


AAAWWWW Yes the paper bag trick. Never could do the paper bag thing.If shes that ugly i can"t do it.LOL


True, wouldn't make for a lasting relationship to be forcing yourself.

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Tue 02/17/15 10:15 AM
Definitely physical attraction is what first makes you think, "hmmmmm..... I like him/her," but that's not what will keep you together. If that's all you have, you have nothing. If you don't have that at all, it's difficult. Fortunately, at least with me, women can earn "pretty points," which basically means that she does things to make herself more attractive, such as genuinely laughing at a bad joke I just told, or showing off her intelligence in a conversation, or asking how my day was. It's not like she gets 10 points for this or 20 for that. It's more that she just becomes more attractive because she does those little things. Personality, of course, is the most important, but the more I like her personality, the prettier she looks to me.

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Tue 02/17/15 10:18 AM
Edited by joethebricky on Tue 02/17/15 10:19 AM

Seems to me that my eyes are connected to my heart, and then the brain weighs and judges the character.

The heart wants what it wants, but listen to your intuition. Never ignore it.

If I can't put a bag over their head, then I ask for the lights out. jk



Hope you mean paper and not plasticohwell

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Tue 02/17/15 10:23 AM
Edited by tealbreeze on Tue 02/17/15 10:24 AM


Hope you mean paper and not plasticohwell


Well joe, those stockings you wear in the winter time and my thigh highs would work just as well if I meant that. :tongue:

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Tue 02/17/15 10:29 AM



Hope you mean paper and not plasticohwell


Well joe, those stockings you wear in the winter time and my thigh highs would work just as well if I meant that. :tongue:

rofl
damn, you remembered, shush now please, there's been enough said on that subjectnoway

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Tue 02/17/15 10:31 AM




Hope you mean paper and not plasticohwell


Well joe, those stockings you wear in the winter time and my thigh highs would work just as well if I meant that. :tongue:

rofl
damn, you remembered, shush now please, there's been enough said on that subjectnoway

laugh flowerforyou Now, I need a house built.laugh

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Tue 02/17/15 11:43 AM
Course looks are important......she gotta have da phat azz! :tongue: laugh

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Tue 02/17/15 11:56 AM

Wow I did not know about earning pretty points ...is that like air points and you get a reward :-)

Similar to air miles, you get to join the mile high club lmao

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Tue 02/17/15 12:04 PM

Seems to me that my eyes are connected to my heart, and then the brain weighs and judges the character.

The heart wants what it wants, but listen to your intuition. Never ignore it.

If I can't put a bag over their head, then I ask for the lights out. jk





Lmao :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Tue 02/17/15 12:04 PM

Wow I did not know about earning pretty points ...is that like air points and you get a reward :-)


Not quite. Let me try to clear that up. You are already pretty. Say I take you to dinner. We have an intelligent and interesting conversation about a variety of topics. You just became more attractive. You have a great sense of humor. Even more attractive. You are ok with me opening doors, offering you my jacket if you're cold, picking up the tab, and just generally being a gentleman. You're even more attractive. By this point, even if you weren't pretty to start with (blind date) I like you and I'm interested in a second date because you are the kind of woman I would introduce to my mom.

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Tue 02/17/15 02:13 PM



Wow I did not know about earning pretty points ...is that like air points and you get a reward :-)


Not quite. Let me try to clear that up. You are already pretty. Say I take you to dinner. We have an intelligent and interesting conversation about a variety of topics. You just became more attractive. You have a great sense of humor. Even more attractive. You are ok with me opening doors, offering you my jacket if you're cold, picking up the tab, and just generally being a gentleman. You're even more attractive. By this point, even if you weren't pretty to start with (blind date) I like you and I'm interested in a second date because you are the kind of woman I would introduce to my mom.
surely what you are talking about is chemistry .. But the real question is .. How does a woman need to look .. To get a dinner invitation . Or would you take any woman to dinner and assess her pretty points from there :-)


Let's assume it was a blind date arranged by mutual friends and we haven't seen each other. Assuming the chemistry is there, the physical attraction grows. So assume I'm not physically attracted at the beginning. By end, I would find a reason to be physically attracted. If that makes sense at all.

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Tue 02/17/15 02:36 PM
Looks can be deceiving most scamms look wow! They know that most woman like good looking man.