Any other women ever noticed this in their guy?
They act like they're really into you but then after you start having sex they don't answer the phone or call you as much..
They agree they want to make a family but after you get pregnant they practically disappear, and a month after the baby is born you see photos of what he's been up to and with whom while you were pregnant with his child.
They don't notice you clean the house, cook, and take care of the baby by yourself all day long, and they also point out that you do nothing and are no fun, but never offer to help.
They continue to party and hang out even after they have a child because for them nothing has changed, but you have no life and don't even deserve a phone call anymore.

Guys can answer too, but if anyone wants to call me a man hater you are probably this kind of guy so just don't bother to answer this.

If you gave me sex I'd be ever so grateful.

I gotta give you credit, Misty.
You are who you are.
No surprises..no flip floppin.
Respect dat

Yes, misty, we all know that you'd be grateful to finally experience sex.

The scenario you describe would be less likely to happen if the woman would marry the man before she had sexual intercourse with him.

Agree, although similar ( not necessarily better) scenarios can still happen...just minus the baby mentioned...

Disagree.
The scenario would only be delayed.
Irresponsibility and immature selfishness isn't cured by premarital abstinence.

There would only be more premarital whining.

That is why I said "less likely". However, if the man whines about no sex before marriage, then the woman will have a better understanding of what the man is like, and the woman can then choose to dump the guy.

Agree with the sexy disagreeing man.

And I totally agree with the blond or non-blond (can't tell, lol) Kiwi girl.
* I really like this new picture of you! *

OP, if you constantly find yourself attracting this type of man, you really should do some soul-searching (self-esteem, self-respect, self-worth etc etc etc issues ).

Then vote for Bubbles as the new mingle mascot.
(((Crystal)))

Hey, I never said I'd agree on ALL counts with you!!

Bubbles is a guy, and a guy caused Estelle's trouble.
Fawn is female, and females help one another.
So, vote for Fawn.

Simple, as Crystal says you're attracting the wrong sort of guy, repeatedly? Gotta look at yourself also though, because i don't believe this is just the guys fault 100%, maybe part of the blame is you too? As it takes two to tango?

Bubbles rescues kitties.
Any guy loves kitties the way Bubbles does
is probably gay.
A gay guy wouldn't cause Estelle's troubles.

Disclaimer :
No offense meant toward my gay friends.
Vote for Bubbles.

Why do so many women accept this kind of behavior? What you allow is what will continue. There are plenty of guys who don't behave that way, but there are also plenty of women who don't demand better.

We all need to care, we all need to take responsibility, we all need to be true to ourselves, but most of all we need to stop blaming others.

It's easier to blame someone else for your problems rather than face yourself in the mirror and take ownership of what is wrong with you.

He got what he wanted by sweet talking you and telling you what you wanted to hear. After he got what he wanted from you, he moves on to do the same thing to other women.

You beleived him because you wanted what he falsely promised to give you, which was really just a reflection of you own needs and desires. His only desire was to have sex with you and move on. You wanted much more than what he could offer you.

Not every guy behaves this way. This is not normal behavior and should not be accepted. Hopefully your eyes have been opened and you have been enlightened.

HEEELLO