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Topic: How important is respect in a relationship to you .
Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Sun 02/01/15 06:39 PM
We live in a world full of false idols and intense media brainwashing .Television talk show hosts telling you how to live your life and how to manage your relationships .The issue of respect is often neglected. How important is respect in a relationship to you ?

Mdarlene Joined Fri 06/06/14 Posts: 313	Sun 02/01/15 06:49 PM
you can't have a relationship without respect

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Sun 02/01/15 06:49 PM
Oh respect has NO place in a relationship! Condescend at will!

Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Sun 02/01/15 06:52 PM
I refuse to condescend

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Sun 02/01/15 06:56 PM
if i didn't respect the lady , i wouldn't be in a relationship with them once i loose respect its more or less a game ender and i really don't care what others think about what a relationship should be like only the 2 in it can answer that its like a movie critic , if you don't like there taste for movies ... does that mean you are wrong ? ? : )

mikey5360 Joined Wed 04/23/14 Posts: 26096	Sun 02/01/15 06:59 PM
No respect No relationship Next....

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sun 02/01/15 07:17 PM
respect in a relationship a must. however some disrespect in the bedroom can be fun lol

Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Sun 02/01/15 07:21 PM
if i didn't respect the lady , i wouldn't be in a relationship with them once i loose respect its more or less a game ender and i really don't care what others think about what a relationship should be like only the 2 in it can answer that its like a movie critic , if you don't like there taste for movies ... does that mean you are wrong ? ? : ) Outside opinions shouldn't affect a relationship agreed , one of the fundamentals of respect is making mutual decisions without the influence of others in my opinion . Don't understand the movie critic thing though :)

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sun 02/01/15 07:23 PM Edited by Awatersign on Sun 02/01/15 07:27 PM
We live in a world full of false idols and intense media brainwashing .Television talk show hosts telling you how to live your life and how to manage your relationships .The issue of respect is often neglected. How important is respect in a relationship to you ? After attraction,RESPECT,or perhaps both together to start with?

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Sun 02/01/15 07:25 PM
if i didn't respect the lady , i wouldn't be in a relationship with them once i loose respect its more or less a game ender and i really don't care what others think about what a relationship should be like only the 2 in it can answer that its like a movie critic , if you don't like there taste for movies ... does that mean you are wrong ? ? : ) Outside opinions shouldn't affect a relationship agreed , one of the fundamentals of respect is making mutual decisions without the influence of others in my opinion . Don't understand the movie critic thing though :) came from this part of your sentance We live in a world full of false idols and intense media brainwashing .Television talk show hosts telling you how to live your life and how to manage your relationships just a failed attempt to clarify the outside influence oh, well so and so says we shouldn't be together and that it wont work etc etc etc

Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Sun 02/01/15 07:29 PM
I feel like we have met before .laughing. Hi u :-) In my world .dignity respect..congruence and positive regard are the four cornerstones of therapeutic communication ..necessary to build trust in a relationship . Without respect . Trust will be difficult to achieve . Without trust even the strongest relationship will be unlikely to thrive :-) Hi yourself Mistrust plays a heavy role in disrespect . It seems people who are not trustworthy always assume the other person is doing the same thing . People who cheat also usually assume the other person is unfaithful . So lack of trust according to my experience can sometimes be a reflection of low self confidence .

Kindlightheart Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 2370	Sun 02/01/15 07:38 PM
No respect No relationship Next.... I second this...

Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Sun 02/01/15 07:50 PM
if i didn't respect the lady , i wouldn't be in a relationship with them once i loose respect its more or less a game ender and i really don't care what others think about what a relationship should be like only the 2 in it can answer that its like a movie critic , if you don't like there taste for movies ... does that mean you are wrong ? ? : ) Outside opinions shouldn't affect a relationship agreed , one of the fundamentals of respect is making mutual decisions without the influence of others in my opinion . Don't understand the movie critic thing though :) came from this part of your sentance We live in a world full of false idols and intense media brainwashing .Television talk show hosts telling you how to live your life and how to manage your relationships just a failed attempt to clarify the outside influence oh, well so and so says we shouldn't be together and that it wont work etc etc etc Oh I see , the so and so's influence is usually negative . Relatives and friends can mess up a relationship so fast . Not the nice ones though .Those are good to have around .

dcastelmissy Joined Thu 08/01/13 Posts: 39633	Sun 02/01/15 07:50 PM
No respect No relationship Next.... I second this... My sentiment exactly !

Nocturnaeus Joined Mon 01/26/15 Posts: 17	Sun 02/01/15 07:54 PM
respect in a relationship a must. however some disrespect in the bedroom can be fun lol Have you seen " Bitter Moon " .The whole fun thing is referred to in the movie . If you watch it there's a scene where the main characters are both wearing masks .Your comment reminded me of that scene . I wont spoil it for you , check it out .

zzzippy56 Joined Sun 01/12/14 Posts: 7307	Sun 02/01/15 07:54 PM
No respect No relationship Next.... I second this... I third the motion Next is communication.....

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sun 02/01/15 08:08 PM
No respect No relationship Next.... I second this... I third the motion Next is communication..... I 4th the motion. .simply put babe..

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sun 02/01/15 08:21 PM
We live in a world full of false idols and intense media brainwashing .Television talk show hosts telling you how to live your life and how to manage your relationships .The issue of respect is often neglected. How important is respect in a relationship to you ? To me, respect is the least important thing in a relationship with sex being the most important thing....

m3k4y Joined Tue 07/08/14 Posts: 13122	Sun 02/01/15 08:23 PM
We live in a world full of false idols and intense media brainwashing .Television talk show hosts telling you how to live your life and how to manage your relationships .The issue of respect is often neglected. How important is respect in a relationship to you ? To me, respect is the least important thing in a relationship with sex being the most important thing.... you sounds like from ghanna bash..

Awatersign Joined Wed 01/22/14 Posts: 3185	Sun 02/01/15 08:24 PM
Y'all DO realize that alot of relationships still work when there's hardly any respect in it right? You see,for example,I've seen people with low self esteem ECT,get disrespected on a daily basis and still stay in relationship,oh,and actually lasts too, ,by all means it's not Good for relationship,so some actually work,obviously not most ,but some,so some times, it boils down to who you're dealing with !!