Hi so I'm a full time student & employee and well the dating game is tough. I would like to know what's the polite and successful way to tell a girl that you just want a platonic and physical relationship.

That is so easy.

Hello, I'm (a) Dick. I want to use your body
for my own needs and do not wish to have any
kind of future with you..just the sex.

Oh, you said 'polite' and 'successful.'

Carry on..

That was good. Little over board but great. Unless it's a. Urban myth & I've hallucinated I've met several women who seek emotion free relationships. Don't see how someone preferring to devote their time to succeeding yet wanting a platonic relationship is considered grotesque.

Platonic love - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia:

"Platonic love is a type of love that is chaste and non-sexual."

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perhaps we are overlooking that we can be physical without being sexual,,

Nah. I suspect that Inigo Montoya is right again.

So apparently saying politely and successfully is grinding some gears. I'm sure a women/man would prefer to hear a nice version vs hey I just want to have sex no emotions just friends. I don't see how having just sex with out any emotions is frowned upon. It's our instinct that instigates arousal for the purpose of reproduction. Man and his morals decided that it is "important" to have emotions. I know for a fact that some people just want to give into the sexual desire with out the I love you or cuddles. But this is good, I'm enjoying the good input wouldn't quote wiki though but good.

I also hope people are not getting offended, this I hope is a purely, healthy, and adult conversation.

Dude, in your opening post, you say that you want a platonic relationship.
In case you didn't understand Inigo Montoya, a platonic relationship is a relationship that has no sex in it.

Yes I'm aware of that, but it's clear what the topic is.

There is no "nice" way to say you only want sex. You are being manipulative if you are trying to say it nicely.

If you want sex with no strings attached you can always seek the services of a prostitute.

At least now.

Lol the incentive is money, so their is strings attached. But I get the manipulative point of view.

Paying for a service isn't strings attached.

You are just trying to get sex for free.

My, my, how times have changed. When I was a much-younger Melmacian, it was unheard of for God-fearing people to openly proclaim that they wanted to indulge in sex outside of marriage. Back then, they merely snuck into brothels and repented later.

That is a personal confession, by the way. I did it only once, wasn't caught, but repented afterwards.