Do you have any idea, suggestions, advises about this topic?

Face your feelings
Learn from your mistakes
Get on with your life
Get yourself back out there

Welcome

I have my way, but I hesitate to call it advice...I'm thinking it might not work for some (most?) people...I feel this way about breakups, even the bad ones...Something(s) about that person drew you in enough to find love, something about that person fed your heart...When the relationships ends, hold on to those positives because they will help heal your wounds and give you strength to try again....

It always takes time to heal a broken heart. Best thing to do now is focus on your own life, keep yourself busy then eventually you'll find out you already moved on because you nevrr feel the pain anymore.

Good luck and welcome to Mingle2!!!

Start a journal or diary. It helped me in rehab. A break up can cause a cultural shock to your system. I was advised to clean up my side of the street and work my own program. Later, when you are rehashing that stuff in your mind being able to check your notes can really help you. Making a clean break of it will really help you in the long run. Agreeing to disagree will help you to get over the past.

Hi (((Roy)))...Making a clean break is probably one of the fastest ways to move on...Also like Riza said, keep busy by focusing on your own life.....Wishing you both a Safe and Happy New Year!...

all the money you save that you aren't having to spend on a gf,use it and get a really fancy hooker

Get completely Strunk and forget! might only work for temporary usage.....Doh

I know you meant to say "High Priced Call Girl" JT....

Stay safe on New Years Eve!!

eh,there's no difference.i didn't want to sugarcoat it



same to you Leigh

Thanks! ....Well, there is one big difference.......price!....

not if the hooker is one of those really fancy ones

Here's the deal lonely. Just been through the worst breakup of my life, and I'm 43. There are people who say " it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all" those people are deluding themselves to make themselves feel better, or outright lying! Lol. You must just come to terms with it ending. I know it sucks brother, I spent months beating myself up tryin to figure out what I did, coulda done, shoulda done and crying every ****in day. And I'm a tough, awesome, self confident mofo. I can pull chicks from bars about 80% of the time. But you just can't make someone love you. Trust me if I could have I would have . Ive never felt like that about a girl before. I still believe she is the love of my life, but also know we can never be together again. Yes bro it sucks. The faster you realize you need to move on the faster you will start getting better. And hey man you don't want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you. I know easier said than done. Here's my advice, take everything you can that was hers and reminds you of her and stow it or toss it. I know it's hard, but this bandaid is best pulled off quickly, trust me. Say a ton of prayers, he's there, he's listening I promise, ask him to share youre burden, and give you strength, and take care of this girl in your absence. Dont drink too much. Alcohol will just replay the reasons you miss her over and over, and you feel like **** afyer a drunk which wont help your situation. And lastly, GET OUT! I can't stress this enough! You will meet new people, and you need a distraction! Go with your friends, take a cooking or crafts class or something! Spend as little time shut in by yourself, you are not your best friend right now. I hope this helps you my brother. I swear this is true but you may not understand this yet, every time God has ended one of my relationships there has been one that was so much better and meaningful directly following it. I'll say a prayer for you boss!

the best way to get over a man is to get under another one.

it is just the way of the universe..
.. you meet that special someone..
the universe has put you together... you're happy, you do not question it..
you unbraced the relationship and enjoy it... you do not feel sad because the universe! has put you together..
.. so now the universe has pulled you apart. .. this to has a reason.. embrace it... being upset over the loss of a relationship. . is like saying you are upset with the universe..
.. and its plan for you.... it is time wasted.... the universe does not care if you like its plan for you or not....
... it is going to continue regardless of your... feelings... so you might as well just lay back and enjoy the ride....lol..

.. ... but what do I know I'm crazy..

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oh yeah and lots and lots of sex helps too.. lol... and going out with your friends and getting really drunk.. doesn't hurt. .

hi ((((Mau))))

I agree with ((((Leigh)))). take the time to appreciate what you shared.
also let yourself grieve for what you lost but don't let yourself get stuck in the grief.
take the time to be comfortable with who you are now, as we all change a little in a relationship.
spend time with family and friends or enjoying your interests.
imo, it's not recommendable to jump into a new relationship until you've given yourself time to heal. wish you all the best

yeah it's not recommended to jump into a new relationship....
... good advice...
.. just jump on them lots and lots and lots... WHAT!!!.. IT CAN'T HURT...
.. you know get it out of your system..
just thought....
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Broken hearts DO heal...with TIME-
What helped me was to spend time with
family & good friends - take a break from dating
for awhile- you might just go from the
"frying pan & into the FIRE"

I believe the right person will
come along at the right TIME

Good luck to you

Very profound .. esp if after all that sincere and deep stuff you do what your next post said.. except for the bit about getting drunk .. I don't do drunk *Says she who just gulped down a bottle of Radler beer, lol, but hey, that's only 2% alcohol! Yeah yeah, but it's enough to get me drunk, well sort of .. I'm out of Radler dang.. I need coffee!! 2% and me 'ead is spinning! *