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| Topic: what do u say to a girl u just met to keep the conversation | |
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I just hate talking on the phone, im good once i meet someone, and talking on the computer is easy, but i get nervous and flustered on the phone
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Talk to her like she's an old friend. What would you say to one of your oldest friends? Every great relationship starts off as a friendship, so relax and let it build from there.
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Well i know part of the problem is, is im just getting over someone else, and im so used to talking to her, that its different talking to another woman. I feel like im doing something wrong, like shes going to walk in and see me talking to someone else and shes going to be furious
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You could call one of us and practice talking if that would help ?
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A little bit of phone sex might spice things up a bit!!!!!
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lol, yeah i can just that going well, "take off ur clothes" "what was ur name again?"
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You don't need a name for phone sex, not that I would know.
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I have no problem talking on the phone.
I just need a number to call is all. 
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If she is up for it,start by telling her what you want her to do to herself.
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Awww James - you have plenty of friends who will talk with you
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It just really sux cuz u don't really know each other well, and u want to talk like u do, and so u read her profile to see if that will help, but you've done looked at it a thousand times, like this times going to be any different.
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But if the phone sex thing doesn't work then did you ever think that you might not have any chemistry with this woman?
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There is NO need to be nervous, you should just be yourself.
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well ashley, im testing the waters right now seeing if there is chemistry, i mean we seem to click, but i think its just me, i think that maybe im just trying to push things alot faster than they need to be pushed
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puffins, i feel like i dont want to show myself, cuz my self is boring, and stupid, but if i can portray myself just a lil different maybe i can become that person
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I didnt think he was wanting to have phone sex...i though the was just having trouble talking to her in general?????
But the offer still stands, someone here would be willing to walk you through it a few times until u felt more comfortable talking to her....just be your self and relax...she cant see you on the phone unless u have a webcam going too.  
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Ashleya wrote:
"But if the phone sex thing doesn't work then did you ever think that you might not have any chemistry with this woman?" You got to be kidding me? I could never have phone sex with a woman I haven't even met in person yet. How do people do that? I must really be strange.
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I think alot of it is me just being a *****, ive been in a 2 yr relationship, and she took her kid back home to s.d. and im afraid of going thru that again
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well then use this as practice, dont beat yourself up over this.maybe u arent ready to be in a relationship just yet...it takes time to heal...give yourself a break....your a nice looking guy and sound really sweet, someone out there would be lucky to have you, when the time is right it will all be ok, it will feel good and you will have no problems talking, or doing anything else for that matter!
*peace* |
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maybe ur right, i think ill tell her tonight and maybe we can still be friends or something like that
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