Ice breakers in most situations are questions that are open but not as wide as the Ocean. Sometimes qualifying the question or giving a little info about yourself makes it less intimidateing. Like "I was listening to so and so the radio in my car and I wondered what kind of music you like?" "I like to watch my weight but I have just been dieing for a really fresh donut. Do you know where a great coffee shop is?" "My first car was ----- but what would be your dream car?" "I want to buy my friend a movie for Christmas what do you think would be a good one?"

ask her for her opinion on ....anything

what do u say to a girl u just met to keep the conversation?
Hey baby!Let go home and f!ck!!!

Jumping off the phone constantly is annoying. Tends to make a person wonder who came in the room and if the person already has a partner. Also the folks who call from work make me wonder how responsible and honest they are. If they rip off the job then what about you later. The idea of a list of questions is not totally off base but building on frevious comments will make a person feel like you are listening to what they are saying.

Take all the pressure you are putting on yourself away. Forcing the right words to appear, will only make it worse. Besides, if she feels you too, she will understand and appreciate your position.

Ive never phoned girls that I met here, guys I did



But I bet my man enjoys phone conversations with me because most of the times we laugh . One time I IMed him and asked to call me and he did, and he didnt get bored listening to me crying, lol! Anyways, it is all international call!

Talk about what your interested in, and what you belive in and value. Unless your talking for several days streight, that should take quite a while. Also ask her about her day. Personally though, unless your talking non stop, if you run out of things to talk about fairly quickly, like within the first few hours, your either shy or might not have the same interests or chemistry. For me, if i can't talk to a girl for more then a week without getting bored (assuming its an hour or two at most a night) then it's probly not ment to be. Now if your both silent people or not phone talkers, then i would take that into consideration as well :)

i don t know never had that problem. I met someone yesterday, we emailed on here then went to IM and we have talked almost 4 hrs on phone 2 hrs at each clip.

We talked about likes,dislikes,goals for future,children or no children,work,childhood memories,when we can see each other,schedule for tomorrow and weekendso we can talk more,things on jsh.....

I'll ask her but i don't remember any silence or moments of awkwardness

Have always been good & getting people to chat. Ask questions about them & their life. Can sense if person feels uncomfortable & let things go.

Well first of all You are the MAN. You got a # and you have the chance to talk to a girl. First you have to want to get to know her. Its all about her right now. LISTEN let her know you are there for her. Then it will be your turn and you can brag about yourself. If you do not feel a match it is okay. I have faith that you will get alot of # on this web site. And than you will find yourself talking for hours because she will be your match. Don't give up . It's called dating. Make the best of it.

ask her out if she lives nearby maybe a movie or whatever do some things together than youll have things you shared together to talk about .if you think you sound like an idiot who knows maybe she likes idiots.

Sometimes talking is highly over rated. For some the gift for gab is essential and others just quite comfortable companionship is enough. If you have a love interest and you are contacting her regularly that person may not care about every thought or feeling that floats through your head and past your lips. Does this person sound like she is happy to hear from you? Maybe you are shy and that is just what she is looking forward. Obviously I am a very comunicative person but the great love of my life so far just said the essentials like I care about you, I am here, I want you to want me, how can I help, you make me feel special. His words were treasured because they were rare jewels.

i agree with all whom post there comments

what about if you talked about everything & there is nothing left to say?

Ask her things about herself...family, interests, work, likes and dislikes...people like it when you show interest in them. It's thoughtful and will lead to them asking you questions about yourself.