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physically, I prefer taller than 5 10, hwp, broad shoulders, masculine jaw(not a pretty , girly, look) , trimmed hair, a healthy smile and pretty skin, and a swag in their walk
values, I prefer someone God fearing who treats others as they wish to be treated character, I prefer someone with BALANCE, who exercises the belief that there is a time and place for everything and who can be trusted with their responsibilities and promises emotionally, I prefer someone who doesnt 'need' me but 'wants' me, someone who is already complete and comfortable with and by themself but sees a way that we might be even better together,,, attitude, I prefer someone that can be the 'head' when necessary, who isnt a martyr nor a bully , someone that is confortable in his own strengths without having to feel a sense of superiority because of them, without looking down his nose at others or expecting them to somehow bow to or be impressed with him BALANCE is key |
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physically, I prefer taller than 5 10, hwp, broad shoulders, masculine jaw(not a pretty , girly, look) , trimmed hair, a healthy smile and pretty skin, and a swag in their walk values, I prefer someone God fearing who treats others as they wish to be treated character, I prefer someone with BALANCE, who exercises the belief that there is a time and place for everything and who can be trusted with their responsibilities and promises emotionally, I prefer someone who doesnt 'need' me but 'wants' me, someone who is already complete and comfortable with and by themself but sees a way that we might be even better together,,, attitude, I prefer someone that can be the 'head' when necessary, who isnt a martyr nor a bully , someone that is confortable in his own strengths without having to feel a sense of superiority because of them, without looking down his nose at others or expecting them to somehow bow to or be impressed with him BALANCE is key I take it you're still single....  
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the more I've heard this question, the less it's easy to explain what draws or repels a person.
an instinct or gut feeling will usually be my first clue. for example, there is a co worker who is more or less nice. I even heard he's a deacon at his church, but there is something that warns me to keep my distance. what I admire in people is a positive spirit, being able to hold a conversation, a compassionate heart, integrity, honesty. physical aspects, can't say that I've ever paid much attention recently im finding I like men with whiskers, moustache. |
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physically, I prefer taller than 5 10, hwp, broad shoulders, masculine jaw(not a pretty , girly, look) , trimmed hair, a healthy smile and pretty skin, and a swag in their walk values, I prefer someone God fearing who treats others as they wish to be treated character, I prefer someone with BALANCE, who exercises the belief that there is a time and place for everything and who can be trusted with their responsibilities and promises emotionally, I prefer someone who doesnt 'need' me but 'wants' me, someone who is already complete and comfortable with and by themself but sees a way that we might be even better together,,, attitude, I prefer someone that can be the 'head' when necessary, who isnt a martyr nor a bully , someone that is confortable in his own strengths without having to feel a sense of superiority because of them, without looking down his nose at others or expecting them to somehow bow to or be impressed with him BALANCE is key I take it you're still single.... lol,, and very comfortable with it too,, I am blessed with love,, it doesn't have to be the romantic or sexual type and being already fine, why would I settle for what(or who) wont add to our life? or even worse, may make it worse?
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physically, I prefer taller than 5 10, hwp, broad shoulders, masculine jaw(not a pretty , girly, look) , trimmed hair, a healthy smile and pretty skin, and a swag in their walk values, I prefer someone God fearing who treats others as they wish to be treated character, I prefer someone with BALANCE, who exercises the belief that there is a time and place for everything and who can be trusted with their responsibilities and promises emotionally, I prefer someone who doesnt 'need' me but 'wants' me, someone who is already complete and comfortable with and by themself but sees a way that we might be even better together,,, attitude, I prefer someone that can be the 'head' when necessary, who isnt a martyr nor a bully , someone that is confortable in his own strengths without having to feel a sense of superiority because of them, without looking down his nose at others or expecting them to somehow bow to or be impressed with him BALANCE is key I take it you're still single.... lol,, and very comfortable with it too,, I am blessed with love,, it doesn't have to be the romantic or sexual type and being already fine, why would I settle for what(or who) wont add to our life? or even worse, may make it worse?  Totally agree...Settling 'at any age' should never be an option for any of us...
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So, what personality or physical traits attract you to a person?  
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Simply put...her aura. Not one thing, but many things. Just a feeling, vibe or sense I get from them. Although nice T&A helps. There's me thinking "Wow, Pancho got it right!!", how romantic!! Then I read the last line "nice T&A" For me also the feeling, vibe, his aura, his mind, and yes, a nice A and muscular "Ts" may help  AND, very important, he's gotta be taller, some 1.85-1.90m would be nice :) My system just doesn't boot for a man shorter than me. |
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It is totally the mind that does it for me and a caring spirit and kind heart. Everything else goes to the bottom of the list
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Love eyes that are engaging, strong hands and confidence. But probably most important is humour and good banter.
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The eyes can tell you alot. If he is a good man it will show, like wise if he's not. Sparkly and kind. I trust in that.
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Personally, sense of humor and booty.
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Personality wise - A sense of humour is a must.
And then there is nothing worse then being stuck with someone who doesn't know how to relax and just enjoy life. Physically - Boobs. |
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I would have to say their physique.
... their body type ... even from a distance I can spot.. the type of woman I'm attracted to... I don't like overly tall.. I'm 6/4... and I don't like overly short...sooo.. that puts her between..5/5..5/11... I don't prefer very thin women.... I prefer athletic women... they don't need to have rock hard abs.... they can have a few extra pounds even.. as long its not. socially visible... I like medium sized breasts... with well pronounced nipples... A firm peached.. shaped bottom... legs that go all the way up and make themselves into a beautiful ***.... so to speak.. I don't care for very short hair.... no nose piercings.. ... and no visible tattoos... unless they are tastefuly. done..... smokey bedroom eyes... a nice... up to a bit of trouble smile.... pouty lips... she must like being treated like a lady.. but does not mind getting her hands dirty.... great sense of humor.. intelligent... has some culture... knows a good wine when she taste it... .... can set a formal dining table.... .... Has good fashion sense.. .. Konws the value of lingerie... .. is somewhat... kinky and playful... . |
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Their sandwich making skills.
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Sometimes I put my foot in my mouth or just say something even I think doesn't make any sense to a woman I really like, and before then she quite liked me, and if she can just bop me over the head or something and we can get back to just liking each other that's one of the things that really does it for me with a lady. Coz I'm a bit retarded sometimes, but I never mean it :D
Sometimes I'm with a lady all I can think is how I like her like her, and all sorts of stupid things I don't even notice hit the mouth gear, never wrongful things I just mean nonsensical words strung together. Dunno why that is, but I do that. Get paranoid sometimes about it, world becomes all tense. Then when a woman just laughs and says, that's ridiculous, well it's just so relaxing and I love that. Does that make any sense or is my foot in my mouth again? |
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So, what personality or physical traits attract you to a person? boobs  Someone hand me a tissue...I'm done crying now!  
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Simply put...her aura. Not one thing, but many things. Just a feeling, vibe or sense I get from them. Although nice T&A helps. There's me thinking "Wow, Pancho got it right!!", how romantic!! Then I read the last line "nice T&A" That's what always happens, when I'm sincere. Always go just a wee bit too far.  |
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Eyes and smile as an initial attraction.Then intelligence,humour,sensuality,the art of flirting.A proportionate figure to her height,but if my first attractions are met,i seem to look past that if i'm caught with her eyes and personality.
Oh,a bikini top and beer helps
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The mysteries man, they are a mysterious creature them women.
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I love a strong women of mystery that keeps me thinki......nah.......it's boobs!
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