yes absolutely happiness.. finally..lol

. her feelings of course... and this does present a opportunity.. to see where the boundaries of this fledgling relationship.... could be set...

... and I have thought.. what if the shoe was on the other foot.....

.. I would tell her to go and enjoy the concert..... but and here's the issue.. I think I would be thinking.... how serious is she about me.... and my feelings would be just a little hurt.....

... I suppose if she came back from the concert... and lavished all her attention on me... that would help ease my hurt..mmmm... that would be my plan... take her somewhere nice on the next date night... to ease. her suffering..lol..... I just do not wish.. to not be true to my own desires... like attending the concert.....
... the issue is being! a new relationship.. the absolute trust is not in place yet...... and yes I want this to work..... but at the same time I need to be true to my own wishes and desires.... honestly I just got the invitation today.... was excited when I received it... and then I was going to call my new interest... with my good news..... but before I picked up the phone..... a little voice in my head said wait a minute... better think this through first..lol

You can think, you can overthink...or...you can just do. If you have honourable, respectful intentions...you will create trustworthiness.

Really I have gotten to the point in my life that I am my own person and so is my man. No drama. Individuals.

...Sometimes that important word gets lost when people get immersed in relationships...Individuality. Love that word.

We never "Belong" to another person. We are individuals whe choose to spend time/lives together. Honourably...Respectfully.

I love that we get to choose when and who we spend our time with. Opportunities. I never ASK him if I can go to an event without him and he doesn't ask me. It just is...But I know he will call me and tell me about his day and experiences and I will do the same. The trust is just there.
And when we get together it is because we choose the opportunity to be with each other. Enjoying/Loving the other persons individuality.

If the time comes that he (or I) chooses differently then we will again choose another opportunity...

Simple eh?

PS...Buy her a t-shirt.

t shirt may be pushing it..lol.. ... I knew what I needed to do... it is just sometimes when you have done without! for so long.... you fear doing ,something.. that may cause.... what you have just found to disappear..... but as a woman recently quoted.. on a different topic.. if you let it go.. and it comes back to you... lock the door and never let it go again ..lol..

Hahaha! Good luck with that!!

(You must have missed the "individual" word... )

hmmm...so, all those other stories of romantic conquests were just..uh..
you speaking hypothetically, that is....

hypothetically speaking.. never knew you !!..took such an interest in my love life.. ...aww.. you do care about me..

You are so brilliant to see that Argo? Why is it no one else noticed before?? Player sounds familiar
Or maybe something else? Lol!

Can Joel come out and play?

Beach is working til 4am.

What's up

Grab a mirror and talk to yourself, please..

Have a nice day!

Did I hit it on the nose?

well thank u, and i think your sexy to, butt what dooes that have to do with my vette?

And now...what???

Firstly, I'm not sure if you read the forums, so if you'll see this or not I don't know.
But thanks for the chat on skype last night and the nice message you sent afterwards, but lady, if you think I'm proper handsome, then I think you need to see a proper optician lmao

Are you SWM 44+ from Hamilton? Are you? No, you are NOT.

Also, your profile is not inviting.Nothing interesting in it... sorry

So what do you want to chat about?
Why don't you come out of the dark, stop peeping and join these great people on the Mingle's forum? You can meet some really nice people here.

You do not like it? Waste of your time?
Well, e-mail and text messages exchange take even more time than leaving few comments on the forum.

So, don't even try to pee on my leg and tell me it's raining.
Thanks and no thanks! Bye!

looks so pretty outside.......