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| Topic: Leave an ANONYMOUS or NOT SO ANONYMOUS MSG - part 28 | |
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If you want any credibility at all be honest, not only to yourself, but to them also. The truth never comes back to bite you! You will never have to remember which lies you have spoken to which person! JMHO !
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yes credibility.. that is what I'm struggling with... I'm thinking if you were to tell he or she.. they would probably say go ahead and enjoy the concert... but I think.. they may also be thinking quietly to themselves...
.. I guess he doesn't like me so much.. .. which is not the case... I just would not want to plant any seeds of doubt... it is just the beginning of a relationship. .. there is no real commitment yet. .but....hmmm... |
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A moment of honesty or dishonesty over a band. Could be life threatening....maybe
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anonymous I need help.. . I have a bit of a dilemma.. and once again find myself needing.. to seek the counsel of.. the very wise. . and intuitive..m2. members..lol .. my issue is this.... hypothetically.. .. if you were in.. the beginning stages of a new relationship.... and intimacy was just around the corner... in this new relationship.... and let's say someone else.. who was showing interest in you.. beforehand.... ask you to go to let's say a concert with them.... would you tell your new love interest... about your invite... and hope she or he understands... that you're going to the concert, because you like the band... and she or he is ok with this.. . or do you just not say anything.. .. and hope you're smart enough never &to bring it up.... I am finding it difficult... to decide... I would want to tell them.... but fearful they may put the brakes on.. the budding relationship.. we all know how.. things can be.. misconstrued . . a little help ... anonymous.. . What difference does it make?!!??... To hear you tell it, you're in the beginning stages of a new relationship every other week!  ...Shuddup and go to the firggin concert....
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Is the concert more important? Or is SHE? Simple question, simple response ! Get a ticket to go to the concert one....if you think she is worth the time, effort, and the consideration!!!
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.. sometimes I want the relationship to last..lol... geez I'm not a man w****.lol..... I always try to be fair..
and honest with all my dates.. ... but she likes me and I like her.. which obviously always helps..lol.. ... I just do not wish to kill things before they get going...... and I really don't want to pass up the concert...lol.... |
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hypothetically that is..lol
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so anonymous the real question is..
would you want the person to tell you... what would be your response honestly... tell them to go .. to the concert..or make a choice.. .. |
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Wed 11/12/14 06:49 PM
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Draw straws and let the chips fall where they may. You pick up the repercussions and only you will have to deal with your decisions!! Bottom line! Be a man and decide for yourself... Face whatever consequences result!!
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just soooo.. damn hard to have your cake and icecream too I guess..lol..
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.. sometimes I want the relationship to last..lol... geez I'm not a man w****.lol..... I always try to be fair.. and honest with all my dates.. ... but she likes me and I like her.. which obviously always helps..lol.. ... I just do not wish to kill things before they get going...... and I really don't want to pass up the concert...lol.... You're pitiful D ...This is beyond sophomoric... 
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she is traveling a great distance just to take me to this concert......
..soo...hmm.. |
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Dude, can't you afford your own ticket??? What's the big dilemma?
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just soooo.. damn hard to have your cake and icecream too I guess..lol.. .. Pitiful! 
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What difference does it make?!!??... To hear you tell it, you're in the beginning stages of a new relationship every other week! ...Shuddup and go to the firggin concert....
Leigh2154 
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Mmmm... no I would not say desperate..!!... but I do have a certain..
.. charm that some women cannot resist....lol.... but honestly she is a very lovely person.... she only truly wants to spend time at the concert with me...... well I know she wants more than that.... but I made it clear.. . it would just be the concert.. |
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What difference does it make?!!??... To hear you tell it, you're in the beginning stages of a new relationship every other week! ...Shuddup and go to the firggin concert....
Leigh2154
Hi handsome!...Please, call me Leigh!  
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just soooo.. damn hard to have your cake and icecream too I guess..lol.. .. Always had been!!! Pick a decision and make it! Your choice as always! You choose, you win or lose!! |
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she is traveling a great distance just to take me to this concert...... ..soo...hmm.. She sounds kinda desperate to me D.... 
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she is traveling a great distance just to take me to this concert...... ..soo...hmm.. She sounds kinda desperate to me D....
He sounds worse than desperate!! |
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