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| Topic: Leave an ANONYMOUS or NOT SO ANONYMOUS MSG - part 28 | |
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hypothetically that is..lol
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Wed 11/12/14 07:04 PM
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Get a real life and quit wasting time with "hypotheticals" No1. Lest you become the playboy of the forums! Oops maybe too late for that now!
 on second thought go to the concert! Your reputation is obviously written into Mingle2 history and will go down in infamy!! Lol
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dear dilema,
douchebag comes to mind here, i think you should tell this guy how to treat a woman right, obviously he is just a tool, acting like a selfish little boy. signed, grow up |
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so if I'm understanding everybody correctly.. I should go to this new love interest .. house on the day she's planning on . inviting me over for a very romantic.. and what I can only assume a very intimate evening....
. and somewhere between dinner and dessert.. say... dinner was awesome... And would you mind if I went to a concert... this upcoming week.... oh and yes I'm not being invited by one of my guy friends.... .. one of my girlfriends wants to take me.... you're okay with that right... ... now what's for dessert...lol... ..ok... I guess if she kicks me out.. . I am screwed...but.. the upside is.. I can go to the concert.. and still get screwed..?..lol .. just kidding about the screwed part.. seriously.. 
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Wed 11/12/14 07:13 PM
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Omg will his ego ever subside??? Boring'. Do whatever !!
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oh my god.. how does a simple question.. to anonymous..
.... Get turned into a.. PhD hate festival. lmao.... I was just having a little moral dilemma..... but yet I am still confused..A. do I tell her.. and hope for the best B.. do not say a thing.. and go to the concert anyways... C... do not go to the concert.... even know... by next week this relationship could be over..lol ... I expected so much more from you people..lol.. seriously thanks for all the advice...
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and so it goes, in the end because all the people heard it so loudly and so often, no one believed the little boy who cried wolf either....
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and so it goes, in the end because all the people heard it so loudly and so often, no one believed the little boy who cried wolf either.... Exactly!!! |
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Wed 11/12/14 07:26 PM
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Moral Dilemmas come from within. If you have morals you know your own boundaries and do not need advice nor opinions'! The answers will be within your own character and you will KNOW the right and decent thing to do! Lack of character causes doubt and indecision !
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well of course I want to tell her.. be totally upfront with her... I just do not wish..... to put a obstacle up so early in the relationship....
. I'm pretty sure she would be cool with me going to the concert... .. and understand its just a concert.. and I like Cooper... But..... she could totally take it the other way.. and see it as a lack of interest in her.... which than I would have to spend time and energy.. convincing and reassuring her... blah blah blah.... that is just a concert.... .. I mean in the real world... even trying to do the right thing can bite you in the azz...... it's not as cut and dry as one might think... . |
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Edited by
dcastelmissy
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Wed 11/12/14 07:42 PM
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Dream on!!! Doing what's honorable leaves no heavy burdens to carry yourself ! But what do I know? I'm just myself!
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...No1phD...
I dunno, I really like the word Opportunity...because really life is a series of opportunities. I think...tell her you have an opportunity to go to a concert with a friend (...friends, right?) and you are excited about going. You don't have to ask her. Be open about your plans though. If that squelches your chance of a night of fun, so be it. After all it is early in the "relationship" (have there been exclusive boundaries set yet?) Do you want a relationship of drama? Better to find out now...eh? (Question... Are you more concerned with hurting her or missing out on intimacy...I think you know which one makes you the D*****.) So...moving on...this is an opportunity to find out what type of relationship this will evolve into. Do you want one where you have to tip toe around and ask everytime you want to do something, afraid she will say NO! and create drama? (think gotcha by the short and curlys) Or do you want a relationship where your gal knows you have other friends (...friends, right?) male and female and will have them in your life and is cool with that. You will find out which choice will set the scene...for one or the other...Simple. So the the opportunity is to learn something crucial (or maybe not so much) about yourself and/or the lady in question. Personally I say you should just go to the concert. Tell her then follow through. Tell her and go. You never know...She could be just fine with it. Another way to look at is... What if she said the same thing to you? Would you be cool with that? Her having an opportunity to attend a concert with a male friend (...friends, right?) and is excited about going.... Hmm...Interesting....eh? 
Have fun!! (I always did love Alice Cooper!) 
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okay Mrs honorable.. what should I do... would you want to know.. and how would you feel about it... honestly would you be upset or just think no big deal go to the.. concert..
.. but quietly to yourself would you be thinking...hmmm... maybe this is not the right guy for me.... . even know.. it is just a harmless concert.... you women are funny creatures to deal with...lol..
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...No1phD... I dunno, I really like the word Opportunity...because really life is a series of opportunities. I think...tell her you have an opportunity to go to a concert with a friend (...friends, right?) and you are excited about going. You don't have to ask her. Be open about your plans though. If that squelches your chance of a night of fun, so be it. After all it is early in the "relationship" (have there been exclusive boundaries set yet?) Do you want a relationship of drama? Better to find out now...eh? (Question... Are you more concerned with hurting her or missing out on intimacy...I think you know which one makes you the D*****.) So...moving on...this is an opportunity to find out what type of relationship this will evolve into. Do you want one where you have to tip toe around and ask everytime you want to do something, afraid she will say NO! and create drama? (think gotcha by the short and curlys) Or do you want a relationship where your gal knows you have other friends (...friends, right?) male and female and will have them in your life and is cool with that. You will find out which choice will set the scene...for one or the other...Simple. So the the opportunity is to learn something crucial (or maybe not so much) about yourself and/or the lady in question. Personally I say you should just go to the concert. Tell her then follow through. Tell her and go. You never know...She could be just fine with it. Another way to look at is... What if she said the same thing to you? Would you be cool with that? Her having an opportunity to attend a concert with a male friend (...friends, right?) and is excited about going.... Hmm...Interesting....eh?
Have fun!! (I always did love Alice Cooper!)
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Your variables and innuendos made it a less than harmless scenario! Get it??? It's hardly rocket science!
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Hi! (((Mekay))) 
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Hi! (((Mekay)))
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Edited by
Happiness2U
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Wed 11/12/14 08:01 PM
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Awww Thanks Mekay! I missed you too!
I was trying to get some writing done... 
This place is like an addiction!!
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Awww Thanks Mekay! I missed you too!
I was trying to get some writing done...
This place is like an addiction!!
no wonder mikey was being called earlier a drug mule..lol
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Awww Thanks Mekay! I missed you too!
I was trying to get some writing done...
This place is like an addiction!!
no wonder mikey was being called earlier a drug mule..lol
  What??!!   
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