If The Girl Is 30 Years Elder Than Boy , Will The Relation Go On

Age doesnt matter.. My two aunts married guys whose age are 20 years olderhan them. True love doesnt require that. What if that is your true love? Youll regret if you lost it.

Its OK, age doesn't matter if you love one another:-)
You should go for it and make it work but if doesn't work out at least you try so there's no regret

That true .. Then fight for it if you really love that person :-)

30 years can be awkward in some social activities and get together's
but if its really love , i wouldn't and never have worried about what others may think

if its what you want and what they want then go for it
cause after all its that you 2 are happy and not what others think about it in the end

Age always matters in real life I experienced. Im 46. If you write online to a Lady 25 it doesn't matter because it's online . if you're seen with her, you are her sugardad. That's what I experienced

That age gap is too mush, 5 years is ok.

Happy people do not compare yourself with others, do not worry ever said about them or think happy people do what they like and brings pleasure, then that raises the spirits and gives positive emotions. And no matter what your age difference, if you are happy

Age gaps are only relative to the couple....

I do not believe such a relationship could and would last. Maybe there's infatuation at first, maybe love. But a 30 yr old with a 60 yrs old woman? Nah ... Difference in experience, dreams, wishes etc is way too big. One big issue could be having kids together. And indeed social outings. Always getting weird looks, ppl thinking you're your partner's gran, pfff...

In my case 30 yrs would mean getting involved with an 18 yr old. What the he(k would I do with that? Apart from the obvious (and to be honest wouldn't even want that with a snot-face.
And at some point the guy'd be 50, usually still strong, healthy, active at that age and your missus would be 80? I mean, bluddy hell!

Or a 78 year old!! ....I don't think the odds are favorable, but the minute you say they can't or don't work, someone proves you wrong...It depends on the two peeps involved...Also, who decides what a successful relationship is anyway?..

me and a 78 yr old man? ... oh dear ... That's like being - and doing it - with my dad (=> turned 77 last week).
But OP asked specifically about the woman being the older one, hence me not doing the other way round thing. Either way, not for me.

And yes, you're right, you can't say it never works. But TBO I cannot think hearing of any couple with 30 yrs of age difference between them, and making it work? Heard of 15, sometimes 20 years, but 30?? As far as I gather, the ones with 20 yrs difference usually don't make it either. 15 yrs you got a chance. Based on what I hear / see / read.
But sure, there's always exceptions and 'the lucky few'.

it really depends upon compatibility,, I no longer believe the 'love is enough' doctrine

falling in love doesn't really mean much more than the feeling in the moment,,,


If I were just 21 I wouldn't date a 51 year old, for they have already been through the things in life I have yet to experience, and I wouldn't want them to have to stay stuck beside me while I experience them, nor would I want to skip those things to be beside them


I would think 30 years is a pretty big obstacle to jump,,, as others have said, its not IMPOSSIBLE (few things are), but it is also much less likely to succeed,,, well, unless they are at a point in life where they may pass away soon,,,

We're all doomed.

it worked out well for anna nicole smith, didn't it?

I agree with Liubov! Age don't matter in relationship,,, if the guy is far matured than his actual age both of them can go for it... A 25 years old man can be matured than a 5O years old man... Age is just number. If a 60 years old man can have a relationship with a 20 years old woman. Why can't women do the same...

....and the 90yo retired General waltzes into the honeymoon boudoir wearing nothing but a condom, a noseplug, and earmuffs.

The 24yo goldigger asks, "What's with THAT get up?"

The General says, I can't STAND the SCREAMIN....and I HATE the smell of BURNIN RUBBER!!!!!!!"

That's the melon girl, right? Oh wait, the melons were a different thread.
Getting confused here.

Doomed huh ... Not a positive note to end a lovely afternoon with :/
Now you're making me feel depressed.
Someone please switch off the fan. Oh that was a different thread too. Dang. Maybe I better go and have my dinner

Well, if you're going to care what other people think...

Yes, it sometimes works and it's like any other relationship and depends on the individuals. And there's plenty that I can do with a twenty five year old apart from humping her. I'm good with the social skills like that.

I hope we're not passing away and that we are not doomed:) . But an email from a nice Lady just made me thin, she offered me to spend the autumn of life together :)I wrote her back in a very Kind and nice way, but had to tell her that didn't want to die too early :) and still didn't want to waste the possiblity to have some years of fun:)ahead.