Topic: fresh out of a 15 yr marriage need to know if I still got it | |
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Goin through a divorce. I've got 2 daughters that r my life. I have been. With my ex since I was 19 so I don't know how to be sin gle I'm a little broke right now and just look. To start over and learn to trust and find myself again.
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Goin through a divorce. I've got 2 daughters that r my life. I have been. With my ex since I was 19 so I don't know how to be sin gle I'm a little broke right now and just look. To start over and learn to trust and find myself again. you will get past this--be a good example of what us men can be to the girls---your life will get a lot better everything in this life is ''BELIEF'' there is a belief behind every thought and action a person has-- if you come out of this knowing the beliefs that got you to this point then you will be much wiser then most of us men and women--''know one, accomplish all''---good luck |
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Sorry, bro. My mom decided to throw my dad out of the house in the country. I was 11, sister 7, brother 14. In MD, the fastest my law was 18 months, so longer than 2 years.
All the damage of us going to courts and messy battles. Is it worth it just she wants a man to go to church? But, evil stepfather... before remarried. Brother messed up due to starting since 1969, so can't live married. sister touched her- so can't kiss a man... you know why? I am not right either. What will happen during your kids before and after? Making more damage. Think for the kids!!! |
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I find myself in the same position as you... what I have learned.. keep your dating life as far away from your children as you can.. if they are young... it takes a lot of balancing..
.. and finding a woman that understands your situation... . a piece of advice.. and I know this is going to sound horrible... but the first few women... well let me just say.. don't go after... the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with... . at the very start.. because if you are like me.. you are going to make some big mistakes.... either on the first date are in just texting them...lol.. .. so think of the first few girls.. and again I know how horrible this sounds... but the first couple of girls . should just be practice dates.... .. refine your technique a little bit.. .. so when you do come across the next Mrs Right.... you will have all the clumsy.. stumbling around out of the way..... |
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Goin through a divorce. I've got 2 daughters that r my life. I have been. With my ex since I was 19 so I don't know how to be sin gle I'm a little broke right now and just look. To start over and learn to trust and find myself again. Hi Rage...You picked a good place to start!! ...Welcome to paradise !! |
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Goin through a divorce. I've got 2 daughters that r my life. I have been. With my ex since I was 19 so I don't know how to be sin gle I'm a little broke right now and just look. To start over and learn to trust and find myself again. Hi Rage! Welcome to the crazy family of mingle2! Come and join in the forums/games! |
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Sorry, brother.
I am thinking of you too. Bet you are going into your personal hell. hope you are getting help for their needed support too. My comment was not fair, bet you are thinking of your kids too. Bless you and keep them from evil. |
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Goin through a divorce. I've got 2 daughters that r my life. I have been. With my ex since I was 19 so I don't know how to be sin gle I'm a little broke right now and just look. To start over and learn to trust and find myself again. Very nice profile. You have that 'Liam Neeson' thing going on, too. LUV the girls' names :-) |
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Thank you so much. This is all new to me so I feel like a little baby learning to walk for the first time!
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welcome and just sit back and enjoy the ride :)
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It's crazy to adjust to single life with kids. Good luck.
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"what I have learned.. keep your dating life as far away from your children as you can..."
Absolutely agree with this on so many levels. Most of all, take dating slow and casual. Allow yourself and your girls to adjust to your new lives, you as a single dad, and they as kids without their mom in the same sense they have always known. I wish you the best. |
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I know how you feel sweetie. First time in my adult life I have been single. Its been a year for me. It gets easier.
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I don't agree with part of that. The stumbling around is part of the excitement in dating
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youll get better, just keep your eyes open to your next short term goal. the more you have they more you can count things to look for word too.
as for dating.. when your chatting with them where ever, id find out what their view is on divorce, its some thing the lands lets happen but some one that doesnt believe in the law like me is a good pic |
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