Topic: The Delicate Art of Kissing
SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/10/14 05:57 AM
How I long for a good, passionate kiss with the right chemistry. Cannot remember the last kiss like that, however sad it may sound.
Some people here have mentioned teaching the other person to kiss, but I wonder, can you teach someone to kiss? I mean, the way someone kisses may feel off or wrong to me, but perfectly fine to someone else?
There are tutorials on YouTube on kissing, lol. From what I see, they kiss the way I consider to be β€œnormal” and passionate or tender kissing.

This makes me wonder why on earth it seems impossible to find a man that kisses that way? (might go for women too, but I wouldn't know, as I don't go about French kissing women)

Also, we don't get lessons in kissing, we just have to get on with it, trial and error.
I'm beginning to think it has a lot to do with personality. I once was kissed by an Italian, my goodness! I am rather passionate myself, but he was a bit too much, hihi. A going-for-the-jugular-from-the-inside-out kind of kiss.
Kissed others that seem to have no passion whatsoever. One way or another, always disappointing.

Now I've learnt that kissing is the first test (hormones and things) to see if you are compatible. And I think there's a lot in there. For me, if a kiss doesn't work out, the rest isn't going to work either. (learnt that by trial and error too :tongue: )

So is there a point in teaching someone to kiss? You cannot change a less passionate person into a steaming hot passionate one, can you?

How important is kissing to you? If the kissing-chemistry isn't exactly right, will you still continu to see that person, or do you lose interest?

In short: How important is the right kissing -chemistry to you?

no photo
Wed 09/10/14 06:36 AM

How I long for a good, passionate kiss with the right chemistry.


With this, I find I never want it to end!


How important is kissing to you?


Kissing is very important to me.
I love kissing and the emotions it brings.


In short: How important is the right kissing -chemistry to you?


It is important though it's not so much a kissing-chemistry as a chemistry in whole. I find the right chemistry between us will make the kissing-chemistry rise to a higher level. You know the knee weakening level!


SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/10/14 07:04 AM


How I long for a good, passionate kiss with the right chemistry.


With this, I find I never want it to end!


How important is kissing to you?


Kissing is very important to me.
I love kissing and the emotions it brings.


In short: How important is the right kissing -chemistry to you?


It is important though it's not so much a kissing-chemistry as a chemistry in whole. I find the right chemistry between us will make the kissing-chemistry rise to a higher level. You know the knee weakening level!



Yes, knee-weakening, that's exactly it! And yes, you want it to go on forever, haha. Once been kissing for hours in a booth in a pub. I think we had to hang on for dear life, knees weak and all. Chemistry was there alright! blushing Crying shame he was only here for a few days, had to go back home to Calgary. B@st@** took my :heart: with him. But the kissing .. * sigh *

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/10/14 07:30 AM
Ohhh.. crystal..mon doux amour..
Cher belle ma minou... when I place my soft ,moist ,sweet lips upon yours.
And the tip of my tongue. enters into your hot ! wet hungry mouth.. in search of your tongue.. you will definitely know you have been kissed..
. by someone who knows how to kiss...mmmm..:angel:
..

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/10/14 08:25 AM

Ohhh.. crystal..mon doux amour..
Cher belle ma minou... when I place my soft ,moist ,sweet lips upon yours.
And the tip of my tongue. enters into your hot ! wet hungry mouth.. in search of your tongue.. you will definitely know you have been kissed..
. by someone who knows how to kiss...mmmm..:angel:
..

You do have a way with words, I can almost feel it, I'm starting to feel warmer already blushing


A kiss is just one element crystal.. His kiss may not rock your world to start with ... but he may have other hidden talents .. Laughing .

Well, that's the thing, Blondey, in my experience the other erm ... things don't seem to have the right chemistry either if the kissing doesn't work ohwell

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/10/14 08:41 AM
Mmm.. blondie... come drink your milk..ma minou... you know.. mes l'evres...are only for you..xoxo

Rubicat's photo
Wed 09/10/14 09:56 AM
A man who who knows how to kiss a woman properly will never be alone. Because a champion at kissing is a champion lover.None of these has anything to do with looks because the pretty boys are usually pretty useless when it comes to kissing.

soufiehere's photo
Wed 09/10/14 10:00 AM
Neither of my 2 husbands kissed.
Like, ever.
It was..icky.
Now I have a real kisser.
One cannot get enough of that.

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/10/14 10:01 AM

A man who who knows how to kiss a woman properly will never be alone. Because a champion at kissing is a champion lover.None of these has anything to do with looks because the pretty boys are usually pretty useless when it comes to kissing.
..hmmm..tears

no photo
Wed 09/10/14 10:32 AM
i like to practice as much as possible. cuz when time stops life is good

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/10/14 11:15 AM

A man who who knows how to kiss a woman properly will never be alone. Because a champion at kissing is a champion lover.None of these has anything to do with looks because the pretty boys are usually pretty useless when it comes to kissing.

Hmm... I flatly refuse to believe that there aren't any good single kissers out there.
I mean, I'm single too, ain't I, tongue2 shades :angel:

@ Soufie, that's what I'm hoping to find as well. Third time lucky!

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 09/10/14 12:40 PM
A slow trace with two fingers from just below and to the side of the eye, down the cheekbone, over the jaw, gently hooking the chin with the index finger and guiding closer.

A look in the eye like "you are the most amazing person ever", noses graze in a 1/8 head turn, eyes close, lips already moistened, "slightly" opened mouth, 3 or 4 bitelike pecks, press to make the seal, tongues just barely touch a couple times, a slow pull away with a slight nibble on the bottom lip that extends it a little bit before letting go....repeat "you are the most amazing person ever" look.

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/10/14 01:47 PM

A slow trace with two fingers from just below and to the side of the eye, down the cheekbone, over the jaw, gently hooking the chin with the index finger and guiding closer.

A look in the eye like "you are the most amazing person ever", noses graze in a 1/8 head turn, eyes close, lips already moistened, "slightly" opened mouth, 3 or 4 bitelike pecks, press to make the seal, tongues just barely touch a couple times, a slow pull away with a slight nibble on the bottom lip that extends it a little bit before letting go....repeat "you are the most amazing person ever" look.


* sigh * swept me of my feet love
Esp the finger under the chin, I :heart: it when a man does that blushing
Don't tell me all great kissers/lovers live on the other side of the big pool. I'm doomed?

no photo
Wed 09/10/14 02:52 PM
Mmmmmm...I love kissinglove





I really had more to say... snickers*
But..I'm driving...:angel:

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 09/10/14 02:54 PM
Roadhead is good too

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Wed 09/10/14 03:17 PM
Oh dear, this is getting out of hand?
(had to look that one up btw, lol. Thank god for Google)

TawtStrat's photo
Thu 09/11/14 01:44 AM
It's important to me I suppose and I like passionate kissing. I did have a girlfriend that I didn't think was very good at it and to some extent it was like she had some problem with intimacy. I just wouldn't kiss her on the mouth so much and sometimes I would just kiss her passionately until she got breathless and was just kind of submitting to it, rather than kissing me back the way that I didn't really like.

luvmeforlife's photo
Thu 09/11/14 05:05 AM
If he hasn't learned to kiss by 20 it's time to give up. Can't teach an old dog new tricks. lol

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Thu 09/11/14 05:42 AM

If he hasn't learned to kiss by 20 it's time to give up. Can't teach an old dog new tricks. lol

Haha, think I agree with you
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