My son is 24-years-old. I find one of his friends to be very sexy. How should I go about this?

you shouldn't.
if you choose to date someone your son's age, try not to date within his circle of friends.
it wouldn't be comfortable if things don't work out

if you dont know how, at 44yrs old....just ask your sons friend to teach you...

You have a right to try anything you like but if your attracted to younger men I would not pick one of your sons friends because it would be hard for him, just go out to clubs or social events I am sure you could find younger men there and you could have no strings attached. Good luck in your search.

I say, just go for it lol

If it happened to be a friend of your son's that was older than him and closer to your age would it be a problem? Can you imagine actually getting into a relationship with this boy, or is it just a sexual fantasy? Would you be comfortable with your son's friends talking about how one of them banged you and do you think that your son would be cool with that? Has this kid been coming on to you or do you just think that he's sexy?

From your other thread:
"I am in my early-40's and have three teenage sons -- 13, 15, 17."
Uh, which one is aging fast?

The last thing....

That any young man wants...



Is for people in his age group (especially who he knows)...to behaving sex with his mother.


I can't believe some of the answers in this topic.

Soufie, i didn't know about this talent you had for setting pants on fire...lol

In the words of Borat, "naughty naughty!"

perhaps,,,,

the three teenagers are just her kids at home

and the 24year old wasn't previously mentioned in the group that's at home because he moved

(maybe he suspected his mom was crushing on his friends)

lol,,,,jk

Is this a serious question? Are you really asking if you should ruin your sons social life? Theres gotta be other men whose ages are more certain near you that won't torture your son with your sexual secrets.

May I say first that you are really attractive, Pinkrose.
I'm confused as to why you would need to even consider your son's friends.

But consider this: what is more important? your relationship with your son or your need for a man?

Another way to look at this, is to remember when you were 24. And how would you feel if your father was having sex with your dorm roommate in college and the whole school knew about?

Where's your mom Stiefler? Lol.

How should you go about it? NOT
Reasons as to why not have been given.

My daughter had a thing with one of my son's mates a few times. The havoc that wreaked between them, pffff ... Came close to bashing each other's skulls in. My son was not happy, all his mates knowing that one of them was intimate with his younger sister. Angry with his sister for putting him in that position and angry with the particular mate for being intimate with his sister. Poor kid was torn in two.

Go figure what it'd be like to hear his mum was intimate with his mate ... I don't think he'd forgive me, ever.

Be a mum, give vent to cougar tendencies outside of your family's circle.

...Next week on Jerry Springer.

he is your son's friend...omg... think of what that's going to do to their friendship... not to mention the stories that are going to go around afterwards.. your son will live with your actions for the rest of his life...
... don't you have a university in your area.. hang out at one of their pubs..
.. take a young student your son doesn't know...omfg

Hmm..^^^..you must be the friend!!.
of her son..

well I said that, just in support of her. Instead of everyone bashing the idea or saying "how wrong it is..." Too many times these days people try to push on someone else how they should or shouldn't act. I say she should do whatever she wants. Take my opinion with a grain of salt.

Whether or not she act on it, and if she does and it goes to crap...well, that's besides the point.

I know she asked how to go about it, she didn't ask how anyone felt on the subject.