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midnighttoker11 Joined Sun 08/10/14 Posts: 43	Sun 08/17/14 10:36 AM
if someone say's "i just want fun" that is being genuine,isn't it not really. its an open ended meaning so you can pretend 'fun' means laughter, rather than nsa sex. then when you meet her in person you can act all surprised that she wont sleep with you. It doesnt matter to you that youve wasted her time, as long as you get a shot. genuine would be 'I just want sex' but i don't just want sex, i want a fun person who's not uptight & i do believe there are some women that want the same in a man after all we're not teenagers anymore like I said, 'fun' is an open ended meaning. you should be clear if you really want to be genuine. like i said, not a teenager & i hope neither is anyone i talk to on here & if someone is hard work well, i'd say sorry you'v got the wrong person

midnighttoker11 Joined Sun 08/10/14 Posts: 43	Sun 08/17/14 11:01 AM
if someone say's "i just want fun" that is being genuine,isn't it not really. its an open ended meaning so you can pretend 'fun' means laughter, rather than nsa sex. then when you meet her in person you can act all surprised that she wont sleep with you. It doesnt matter to you that youve wasted her time, as long as you get a shot. genuine would be 'I just want sex' but i don't just want sex, i want a fun person who's not uptight & i do believe there are some women that want the same in a man after all we're not teenagers anymore like I said, 'fun' is an open ended meaning. you should be clear if you really want to be genuine. like i said, not a teenager & i hope neither is anyone i talk to on here & if someone is hard work well, i'd say sorry you'v got the wrong person why are you getting uptight? you asked if it was genuine. I gave you an answer. I am not interested in discussing who you do or dont want to talk to and I havent commented on any of that. no worse you tried to tell me what i should & shouldn't be saying if lol if i want to be genuine, well here's some advice for stop being sooooooo bloody righteous

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 08/17/14 11:04 AM
Men are pigs. Just chant this before you do anything and you're golden.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Sun 08/17/14 11:05 AM
Isn't that why everyone's here? To "find" the right person. That means you gotta meet and weed out a lot of the wrong people. Get used to the idea, and you'll have an easier time. There's all kinds of people here, I've noticed...I like the silly ones...hehe...

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Sun 08/17/14 01:14 PM
Men are pigs. Just chant this before you do anything and you're golden. ... and you will be man-bashing. Men are not all alike.

midnighttoker11 Joined Sun 08/10/14 Posts: 43	Sun 08/17/14 02:51 PM
if someone say's "i just want fun" that is being genuine,isn't it not really. its an open ended meaning so you can pretend 'fun' means laughter, rather than nsa sex. then when you meet her in person you can act all surprised that she wont sleep with you. It doesnt matter to you that youve wasted her time, as long as you get a shot. genuine would be 'I just want sex' but i don't just want sex, i want a fun person who's not uptight & i do believe there are some women that want the same in a man after all we're not teenagers anymore like I said, 'fun' is an open ended meaning. you should be clear if you really want to be genuine. like i said, not a teenager & i hope neither is anyone i talk to on here & if someone is hard work well, i'd say sorry you'v got the wrong person why are you getting uptight? you asked if it was genuine. I gave you an answer. I am not interested in discussing who you do or dont want to talk to and I havent commented on any of that. no worse you tried to tell me what i should & shouldn't be saying if lol if i want to be genuine, well here's some advice for stop being sooooooo bloody righteous I guess you dont know what 'can' means? or when the word 'you' is used in the plural. or youre just freakin paranoid. lol your(no E) a riot you are so funny but just not my type so goodbye

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sun 08/17/14 03:12 PM
i think that's kind of naive, like the way teenagers behave nobody knows who youre talkin to man. if its jt, welcome to the site. this is jt. are you recognizing my greatness klc? yes. it would be a lie to say that I do not recognize it when I see it chum. we can count on you and that says a lot. that makes me want to tear up.such a beautiful thing to say

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Sun 08/17/14 03:37 PM
So.......I guess that means a bj is out of the question? <digress> Sorry you are having a hard time Chica!

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33362	Sun 08/17/14 04:14 PM
So.......I guess that means a bj is out of the question? <digress> Sorry you are having a hard time Chica! Trust you to ask for a bj during a group hug LOL And I beg to differ with the statement that everyone these days seems to be looking for fun as opposed to something serious and long lasting. There's an awful lot of singles out there, both male and female, who are in actual fact quite lonely and do want a serious LTR. But they just can't find the right person for them. Then you have a choice: stay home alone, maybe hang out with friends or find someone to have some 'fun' with. In this case 'fun' can be basically anything but I spose sex will be high on the list, again of both males and females. I know I darned well miss it As for chats, don't be too chummy that soon. First get a feel of what he's like. At least that way it could spare you the frustration. And adjust your expectations. You won't find Mr Right just like that. You can get lucky of course, but maybe it will take some 'weeding' through the endless 'supply' of desperate ppl and scammers.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Sun 08/17/14 05:50 PM
So.......I guess that means a bj is out of the question? You might still be able to find his music.

stitches0692 Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 6	Sun 08/17/14 07:33 PM
i understand how you are feeing theres not a whole lot of decent guys out there ( that are my age of 22) all they want is sex then they knock up the poor woman then run, and that honest makes it hard for the good guys who would love to have a child and be a father i would love nothing more then to have a loving and caring woman along with a child, children are a gift and should be treated as such

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Sun 08/17/14 07:36 PM
So.......I guess that means a bj is out of the question? You might still be able to find his music. OM GOSH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAAAAAAAAAAAAhahahahahahahaAAAAAH!

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sun 08/17/14 07:44 PM Edited by MariahsFantasy on Sun 08/17/14 07:47 PM
Men are pigs. Just chant this before you do anything and you're golden. ... and you will be man-bashing. Men are not all alike. I am running out of Alf quips as you keep taking them.

stitches0692 Joined Sun 08/17/14 Posts: 6	Sun 08/17/14 09:13 PM
well now thinking about it i cant say guys around are like that but in youngstown ohio where im from, they are all like tht

fleta_n_mach Joined Tue 06/24/14 Posts: 3509	Sun 08/17/14 09:22 PM
Sometimes it can be difficult to handle being such a fun magnet....keep slapping their hands away is what you want to remember.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 08/17/14 09:45 PM
Op.. I only want a peanut butter and jelly sandwich.. I'll tell you what!. you make me a peanut butter and jelly sandwich... and then you and I can have a relationship..ok.. . I know easy peasy right..

LUNG1954 Joined Thu 04/24/14 Posts: 1429	Mon 08/18/14 01:37 AM
i think that's kind of naive, like the way teenagers behave Everywhere there are good men too but may be they are far away now. Till you have a chance to meet them, Delete the players or report or block them if they make unsolicited comments which you do not appreciate. Stay on M2 and you may be surprised by the male personalities on here. Best wishes.

mom333 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 1238	Mon 08/18/14 02:30 AM
why do i keep getting messages from men who only want fun, they see my profile and i don't know how they get to this but they automatically think she looks like she is up for a laugh. they seem like they are actually interested in having a conversation and then they start slipping in sexual references. when i don't respond to them ( because im hoping they actually are nice, they make some lame excuse why they cant talk anymore. im sorry to rant but i just want to know ( ARE THERE ANY GENUINE MEN WHO DONT JUST WANT ONE THING AND DO WANT A RELATIONSHIP AND DONT THINK SINGLE MOM =EASY. men complain about women but they should try being one for a day on here then they would see how soul destroying it feels to be ditched in mid conversation because your not flirting enough. wow i needed to rant that lol but seriously :( You keep getting messages from men like that, because you're a woman. Just as men get those kind of messages from women. It's just how the world has turned. Not many people are actually looking for something real, something solid. They are just looking for a good time to please the moment of life. that's kind of sad don't you think that the world is like that now?

mom333 Joined Sun 06/15/14 Posts: 1238	Mon 08/18/14 02:38 AM Edited by mom333 on Mon 08/18/14 02:37 AM
i understand how you are feeing theres not a whole lot of decent guys out there ( that are my age of 22) all they want is sex then they knock up the poor woman then run, and that honest makes it hard for the good guys who would love to have a child and be a father i would love nothing more then to have a loving and caring woman along with a child, children are a gift and should be treated as such and then when the mother is actually of substance and raises the children to be amazing people she is still looked down upon. children are a gift, someone I know got pushed down the stairs by a bully at school and she had a stroke because of it, she can never have kids either. she was 13 when it happened. so yes if you can have healthy kids who love you that is a blessing indeed single mother or not.

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 08/18/14 08:02 AM
Firstly, I am not on here to make small talk with endless aimless emails. Secondly, looking for someone that's "fun" and not uptight about that and wanting a relationship are not mutually exclusive. What's weird about the women on these sites is that they don't seem to understand that wanting "fun" does not necessarily mean just wanting sex but if it's not going to be leading to that what is the bloody point? I'm looking for a girlfriend and where I come from and in the twenty first century that means a female that will have sex with you, among other things.