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is this a very small site where most stay out of the forums ...?
seems very few in the forums or the same ones ..I notice and not very many or do you think more just stay out of the forums and do their own thing with out forums ... site seems really small for some reason ... not complaining just my thought ... |
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I think many sign up just for hook ups and dates and arent interested in online group conversations, although I think many observe without contributing
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What she^ said.
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many lurkers, on my threads when I post something interesting it might get 10 peeps comments but over 24 hours it will get 100 - 150 views.
Then you get the mail from peeps commenting on what I said...I try and urge them to post but only a few have. |
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is this a very small site where most stay out of the forums ...? seems very few in the forums or the same ones ..I notice and not very many or do you think more just stay out of the forums and do their own thing with out forums ... site seems really small for some reason ... not complaining just my thought ... I just recently started reading the forums. Some interesting reads here. I was sorta turned off from this site due to young men asking for intimacy before even asking me my name. I am interested in friendship with someone closer to my age. I think I have most of the trolls blocked now. |
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is this a very small site where most stay out of the forums ...?
I just recently started reading the forums. Some interesting reads here. I was sorta turned off from this site due to young men asking for intimacy before even asking me my name. I am interested in friendship with someone closer to my age. I think I have most of the trolls blocked now.seems very few in the forums or the same ones ..I notice and not very many or do you think more just stay out of the forums and do their own thing with out forums ... site seems really small for some reason ... not complaining just my thought ... @Dell7. Really, join the forums. Post ur ideas on existing threads or create ur own threads. You might discover many people that are real, willing and able to chat, keeping all in fun, lighthearted manner, or taking a subject seriously as it can be... Your choice. Enjoy ur day! |
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All good points have been made already.
The number of forum posters ebbs and flows over time. Right now, I see a low ebb. While we all want everyone to stay forever, people move on. It's a fluid sitch :-) |
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It happens on a lot of forums I frequent. On the horror board I go to it'll become super busy with lots of postings, then all of a sudden barely a trickle, then busy again. I'm sure it's just a coincidence that people stop posting when I show up.
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It will grow and success by contribution of everyone
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yes there is definitely more people sitting in the cheap seats..
.. the viewers... . then there are performers so to speak..lol.. . the bottomless pit of pics and videos..#3.. had over 6000 viewers. .. except for the odd poster.. . it is mostly just me! in there rattling around...lol.. but I have noticed. if you post a topic.. for instance saying... new people chat. newbies say hi.. . I am new here.. let's talk.. .. a lot of viewers paticipate in those types of topics.. . they go on and say... Hi hi hello hi hi you're hot. By hi hi hi. .. have sex with me. Hi.. Hi hi hello.. .. so they do come in from time to time..lol. personally I think they're scared of us...hmm.. maybe they think it is like some type of show. . like watching Seinfeld..lmao . |
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.. just a thought.. funny how they don't know there is a forum..
Hmmm..lol..jk |
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Actually the site is much larger then it may seem. Just the majority of the members do not use the forums. Many have no clue we have forums. Then there are those that are only here to find someone and not chit chat.
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.. just a thought.. funny how they don't know there is a forum.. Hmmm..lol..jk When I first joined I did not know there was forums! Not everyone joins a site to chit chat..... I can guarantee there are a few million that have joined this site... I have seen those that joined 2-3 years before they even post for the first time in the forums... |
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.. I call those mailbox campers..lol
. that was me for the first month.. camped out by my mailbox.. I remember the first piece of mail I got... I framed it and put it up on my wall..lol |
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and then it took me another month of being on the forums.. posting in..
I think it was a coffee .. topic before anyone would even talk to me.. I would post something.. and they would just let the topic sink to the bottom..lmao.. but I stuck it out and hang in there. ..hmm.. that doesn't sound right..lol .. eventually.. they started talking to me.. they know who they are...lol .. |
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Perhaps the members who stay out of the forums are the members who have lives.
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Actually the site is much larger then it may seem. Just the majority of the members do not use the forums. Many have no clue we have forums. Then there are those that are only here to find someone and not chit chat.
Wait! The site has more than just forums? 
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.. just a thought.. funny how they don't know there is a forum.. Hmmm..lol..jk |
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.. just a thought.. funny how they don't know there is a forum.. Hmmm..lol..jk
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.. but what would this place be like.
without the forums.. and those of us who post on it.. .hmm... we bring smiles to the viewers faces.. we make them think outside of the box.. we entertain them... okay it helps that we actually lock the doors .. once there in here . so they can get out..lmai |
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