why is it hard for one to believe another when chatting in social network

Experience.

I agree totally with soufiehere. EXPERIENCE

But you have to consider in order to move somewhere you have to make
some decision on who you are going to trust.
We all eventually have to trust in order to move, can not stand still forever.

If however you are stocked in not trusting nobody at all, all the time, then
at the same time , you do not trust yourself.

And that leads back to what? Yes , Experience.
(I just felt like elaborating, Was this helpful? I do not know you tell me,we all
see things the way we want, but general rules never change, in my opinion..)

it takes more time to get to know someone online than in the offline world. welcome and good luck

I forgot to add, that I specific am writing about the trust instead of believe,
because you do not have to believe an unknown person right away right?
Just be polite, but to me trust is like walking hand in hand with the "believe"
So do not beat me up , with hay , I said believe not trust, maybe I want
way to far ahead....
I believe more with the feel and am careful with the experience. Believing - Trust is leaning on experience and feel.
Any way sorry for the mix, just trying to help and improve.
Peace.

Because, everything on the interwebz is true,
and everyone on the interwebz is so honest.

Very true observation.
Except Webcam Girls, telling you one thing and promoting
another thing they do not tell you about right away.Nothing is true if they
contact you the first time and shifting their approach if they see their
contacted is swallowing the pill.
In my observation , there is a heavy mixture.

Because talk is cheap and they have no access to your actual behavior.
Not to mention no access to feedback offered by your indirect communication.

so true--because we all have hidden agendas--the best way i have found is to watch the games they play with friends and family members---

Because when chatting online people get brave and pretend to be someone they are not....

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