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Topic: How do you avoid or spot user women
Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Wed 08/06/14 01:10 PM Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 08/06/14 01:10 PM
If she bounces......Slaps my azz and calls me "Sugar".....buys me breakfast....She's Aight!

Datwasntme Joined Fri 07/25/14 Posts: 9701	Wed 08/06/14 01:13 PM
Ask to see her bank accounts Hire a private investigator to report her comings and goings Ask her to support you financially Insist on sex multiple times a day .. That way she will be too tired to use you ..........Or you could just trust your instincts .. Lmao ... Men know when they are being used as do women lmao you all ways say the sweetest of things : )

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 08/06/14 01:15 PM
If she bounces......Slaps my azz and calls me "Sugar".....buys me breakfast....She's Aight! goofball is that you?

luvmeforlife Joined Wed 11/06/13 Posts: 700	Wed 08/06/14 02:18 PM
Ask to see her bank accounts Hire a private investigator to report her comings and goings Ask her to support you financially Insist on sex multiple times a day .. That way she will be too tired to use you ..........Or you could just trust your instincts .. Lmao ... Men know when they are being used as do women lol yes insist on sex :P

justmeoliver Joined Tue 07/29/14 Posts: 9	Wed 08/06/14 02:24 PM
You mean the ones that invite you to video talk and you need a credit card to turn it on ? Craiglist full them and there here too, want some names ? I'm getting older too and I must say I real hate those girls for false pretenses, waste my time, put another dent in my ego. But I still have my hair so I March forward.... big grin great, now i'll get hate mail for some reason, from girls who need to feed there kids and bald guys.... LOL

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 08/06/14 03:36 PM
I will take a woman.. who shows me favor.. after I do something substantial for her.. over a woman.. who ignores me.. after I have done something substantial for her.. any day of the week..

Tanzy14 Joined Sat 06/14/14 Posts: 1672	Wed 08/06/14 03:43 PM
Being vulnerable and insecure usually gets you caught up.....

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21862	Wed 08/06/14 03:50 PM
Ladies who stand on street corners in fishnet stockings and hola at passing cars are usually only after your money. Just saying.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Wed 08/06/14 03:55 PM
I always thought we men.. . did everything to gain the favor of a woman.. some women just use this,to their advantage! better than others.. .. I believe it's called conditioning.. ... .. whatever this substantial thing is. that you do for your lady friend big or small.... I have learnt this.. you stop doing for your lady friend.. . she's going to" stop doing you...

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Fri 08/08/14 08:55 AM
I always thought we men.. . did everything to gain the favor of a woman.. some women just use this,to their advantage! better than others.. .. I believe it's called conditioning.. ... .. whatever this substantial thing is. that you do for your lady friend big or small.... I have learnt this.. you stop doing for your lady friend.. . she's going to" stop doing you... exactly the point no1. Instead of stopping and causing a. Gap people should learn how to talk and communicate

Mdarlene Joined Fri 06/06/14 Posts: 313	Fri 08/15/14 05:37 PM
I will take a woman.. who shows me favor.. after I do something substantial for her.. over a woman.. who ignores me.. after I have done something substantial for her.. any day of the week.. I don't get it why do you have to do something substantial for her. I have never wanted gifts, simple things are more important, phone call or visit or just a cuddle, holding hands, conversation. Are you trying to tell me that you have to buy your dates?

Mdarlene Joined Fri 06/06/14 Posts: 313	Fri 08/29/14 09:08 PM
I will take a woman.. who shows me favor.. after I do something substantial for her.. over a woman.. who ignores me.. after I have done something substantial for her.. any day of the week.. I never got this why do you have to do something substantial?

rambill79 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 5780	Sat 08/30/14 04:33 PM
How do you men avoid women who's only interest is their own security? I've dated a couple women who would only show affection after I have done something substantial for them. The first one lasted six years. Was really relieved to get out of that drama. Now that I'm old, gray and had my day, I can spot them and drop 'em like a hot rock. Women. Any advice? easy to spot... they are breathing.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Sat 08/30/14 04:50 PM
Ladies who stand on street corners in fishnet stockings and hola at passing cars are usually only after your money. Just saying. They come in other disguises too.

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48950	Sat 08/30/14 05:27 PM
"How do you avoid or spot user women". If she says, "I'm looking for a man to take care of me," then that is a sign that she is a user.

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Sat 08/30/14 07:06 PM
If she has no earned income, and no place to call her own, she's definitely a user in my eyes.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sat 08/30/14 08:19 PM
I always thought we men.. . did everything to gain the favor of a woman.. some women just use this,to their advantage! better than others.. .. I believe it's called conditioning.. ... .. whatever this substantial thing is. that you do for your lady friend big or small.... I have learnt this.. you stop doing for your lady friend.. . she's going to" stop doing you... exactly the point no1. Instead of stopping and causing a. Gap people should learn how to talk and communicate This is the secret

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24713	Sat 08/30/14 08:45 PM
Haven't read up yet, but thinking my answer is "be poor".

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Sat 08/30/14 09:08 PM
What a crappy way to be.

panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Sat 08/30/14 09:29 PM
I just wear my ' Born To Be Used' shirt. The women that look at me with scorn or disgust... Well they're the ones worth pursuing.