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red flag for me: when I can't find their pulse other than that everything okay...........lol JK
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Coming on too strong, too fast
Clinginess Not returning texts or phone calls for days Wanting an "open relationship" Having an ex-girlfriend who's still in the picture Being evasive and vague about his intentions or the status of the relationship Hot and cold behavior Only or mostly expressing care and concern in the context of sex and not in other ways Not verbalizing his feelings for you outside of the context of sex His behavior not matching his words |
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A major red flag is when they look like a woman and have a womans name but there profile says a man looking for a man..and they post their phone number...am I right?
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Coming on too strong, too fast Clinginess Not returning texts or phone calls for days Wanting an "open relationship" Having an ex-girlfriend who's still in the picture Being evasive and vague about his intentions or the status of the relationship Hot and cold behavior Only or mostly expressing care and concern in the context of sex and not in other ways Not verbalizing his feelings for you outside of the context of sex His behavior not matching his words yup. add this to my list.....great post  (been so long since talking to the last one that I had forgotten about these...lol) |
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Like finding in your BF's car a strand of hair that's not extension and longer than yours?  well....unless it his from HIS pony tail.....that would be more in the red flag category rather than the turn off category if that hair ain't his, his mother's or his sister's? Dat man in deep deep doo doo    smells like a playa to me  who? carteblanche or the example? 
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Wed 07/09/14 07:15 AM
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when they ask for your picture right away and ask to chat or email them or want you no. as soon as u talk to them ... and not answering and ? you might have ask them ...red flags for me... hello op ...
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^^^ For me if I ask for their picture and they don't want to send it is a big red flag.
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 I'm too many red flags, so guess I'll just black flag myself out of the race. 
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Like finding in your BF's car a strand of hair that's not extension and longer than yours? well....unless it his from HIS pony tail.....that would be more in the red flag category rather than the turn off category if that hair ain't his, his mother's or his sister's? Dat man in deep deep doo doo smells like a playa to me who? carteblanche or the example? da example 
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lol no, I have actually met people in PERSON, and not online,,,  when weeding out profiles, the standards vary a bit,,,than when getting to know people in real time that I have met in person,,, things I pass by in profiles: open shirts pics shirtless pics piercings tattoos guns drinks multiple 'outdoors' pics (IM not an outdoors person) pictures flexing or at the gym things I walk away from when dating excessive interest in my wherabouts or schedule jealousy bad or disrespectful relations with other women in their life negative attitudes about Kids negative attitudes about Christianity Obsession with the body or sex clinginess, or 'I cant live without you' attitude low self esteem or 'you are all I have' attitude paranoia negativity immaturity That pretty much sums up my red flags, agree with almost everything said. Ever since I registered in this particular site (although I would imagine it is similar in every other "dating" site), I feel like my alarm bells are constantly ringing, it's deafening sometimes. :) For example: poor grammar/spelling, incomplete sentences one-word messages overly lecherous way of addressing me - pet names (honey, babe, sweetheart) blatant sexual innuendo attitude not appropriate even after years of interaction, let alone when said by a complete stranger. Ridiculous. no picture or obviously fake pictures instant offer for changing the means of contact to skype or any other messenger and many more. |
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Unable to talk on the phone...that's no bueno.....
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Too particular: woman from texas, said she hasn't had good bar-b-que since she moved; I hunt one down, she goes on how its Tennesse bar-b-que not Texan; I told her there was a Carolina BBQ place a couple miles out of town and it was like I insulted everything she held sacred.
Also, when they smack me on the first date and believe me they do |
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Coming on too strong, too fast Clinginess Not returning texts or phone calls for days Wanting an "open relationship" Having an ex-girlfriend who's still in the picture Being evasive and vague about his intentions or the status of the relationship Hot and cold behavior Only or mostly expressing care and concern in the context of sex and not in other ways Not verbalizing his feelings for you outside of the context of sex His behavior not matching his words Good list. |
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Giggling .. Seems the girls have some big lists when it comes to sizing up the opposite sex. Men are clearly easy to please :-) so are women just looking to get screwed, of which there are probably just as many as men I think the lists here are from people interested in possibly pursuing relationships and there are probably more women here with that in the front of their minds than men,,, |
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Giggling .. Seems the girls have some big lists when it comes to sizing up the opposite sex. Men are clearly easy to please :-) so are women just looking to get screwed, of which there are probably just as many as men I think the lists here are from people interested in possibly pursuing relationships and there are probably more women here with that in the front of their minds than men,,, Well said and so true 
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Giggling .. Seems the girls have some big lists when it comes to sizing up the opposite sex. Men are clearly easy to please :-) so are women just looking to get screwed, of which there are probably just as many as men I think the lists here are from people interested in possibly pursuing relationships and there are probably more women here with that in the front of their minds than men,,, Nailed it! Very well said, precisely what I have been thinking and well done for the eloquent and diplomatic way of putting it. My compliments, msharmony! |
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