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Topic: red flag signs
jester0012009's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:02 PM
what are rted flag signs for u

msharmony's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:06 PM
when dating or when looking at profiles?

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:16 PM
A ponytail. bigsmile

0ldhag's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:21 PM
Edited by 0ldhag on Tue 07/08/14 04:22 PM

when dating or when looking at profiles?


what

Isn't that how you might decide who you may want to get to know better?

I'm genuinely curious what you mean by this.

msharmony's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:21 PM
Edited by msharmony on Tue 07/08/14 04:21 PM
lol


no, I have actually met people in PERSON, and not online,,,:tongue:

when weeding out profiles, the standards vary a bit,,,than when getting to know people in real time that I have met in person,,,

things I pass by in profiles:

open shirts pics
shirtless pics
piercings
tattoos
guns
drinks
multiple 'outdoors' pics (IM not an outdoors person)
pictures flexing or at the gym


things I walk away from when dating

excessive interest in my wherabouts or schedule
jealousy
bad or disrespectful relations with other women in their life
negative attitudes about Kids
negative attitudes about Christianity
Obsession with the body or sex
clinginess, or 'I cant live without you' attitude
low self esteem or 'you are all I have' attitude
paranoia
negativity
immaturity



MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:30 PM
Edited by MariahsFantasy on Tue 07/08/14 04:30 PM
on the real...being closed off
if we're already friends there is no need for this cowardice behavior

0ldhag's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:38 PM
Edited by 0ldhag on Tue 07/08/14 04:36 PM

what are rted flag signs for u


When they talk so much about themselves that by the end of the date they basically know nothing about you. These types usually ask for second dates.

msharmony's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:45 PM
great one hag,,,

Jtevans's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:51 PM
according to most of my dates,it's when i start asking about things in their bedroom when they know i've never been in their house glasses

soufiehere's photo
Tue 07/08/14 04:53 PM

according to most of my dates,it's when i start asking about things in their bedroom when they know i've never been in their house glasses

hahahahahahahahahahahaha
~~~
No humor, I am done.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 07/08/14 05:00 PM

what are rted flag signs for u


Usually when she has a cloth with a weird smell coming from it I tend to run away.

no photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:00 PM
red flag things for me

anything scammer potential
wanting to borrow money
any kind of negativity directed at women (in general or a specific woman)
loyalty to any country other than the U.S.
lack of respect
abusive verbally, physically, or in any fashion
loudness
meaness
lack of understanding or empathy
lack of patience under reasonable circumstances
perfectionism
unreasonable attitude toward gun control
racism
snobbery
poor listening skills (doing something totally different than what I request when he asks me what I want)

no photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:03 PM
Edited by 2KidsMom on Tue 07/08/14 08:05 PM
Omg...I am all of these thingssurprised shocked and some..

Errr....awkward *

carteblanc's photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:17 PM
Wait.. Are we talking about red flags or turnoffs in general? laugh

no photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:17 PM

Omg...I am all of these thingssurprised shocked and some..

Errr....awkward *


I doubt that is true flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:21 PM

Wait.. Are we talking about red flags or turnoffs in general? laugh


not sure I know what the difference is....I guess I see red flags as soemthing that says STOP DO NOT PASS GO DO NOT PROCEED / END...lol

whereas a turnoff can happen anytime the mood is not right...like telling plumbing jokes when I try to get romantic....

kc0003's photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:24 PM
got asked out by someone once, then found out she had 8 children all under ten years of age. she was only 26!

i canceled the date.

carteblanc's photo
Tue 07/08/14 08:26 PM
Like finding in your BF's car a strand of hair that's not extension and longer than yours? :smile:

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Tue 07/08/14 08:29 PM

Like finding in your BF's car a strand of hair that's not extension and longer than yours? :smile:


well....unless it his from HIS pony tail.....that would be more in the red flag category rather than the turn off category

if that hair ain't his, his mother's or his sister's? Dat man in deep deep doo doo flowerforyou :angel:


laugh

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 07/08/14 10:03 PM


Like finding in your BF's car a strand of hair that's not extension and longer than yours? :smile:


well....unless it his from HIS pony tail.....that would be more in the red flag category rather than the turn off category

if that hair ain't his, his mother's or his sister's? Dat man in deep deep doo doo flowerforyou :angel:


laugh



smells like a playa to me drinker

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