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Topic: For you women...
bemma1989's photo
Mon 07/07/14 03:44 PM



I sometimes wish I was a woman. Honestly you don't know how lucky you are. I'd be in heaven if I had women messaging me for sex all day long.
you forget....if you were a woman, you would be looking for more than sex so you wouldnt be interested. haha.


and all the hemorrhaging bigsmile

Yeah, and I haven't done it yet but I hear giving birth is no picnic

0ldhag's photo
Mon 07/07/14 07:47 PM
Edited by 0ldhag on Mon 07/07/14 07:51 PM

Why do some of you become disinterested in an e-mail conversation so quickly? I can understand the ever foreboding creepers, negative anecdotes, very small greetings, and even the cussing in messages. But why would you get bored of a man if he is none of the above?

When is a good time to ask for your phone number online? Or even, ask for a real life date? Or are you more comfortable with doing a skype date first to see if the man is even who he says he is for security/safety reasons.

I would love to know any of your opinions about the aforementioned questions and more ladies. This will help me not only to be a better communicator within the realm of online love, but it may even help me to find the right one someday!

Thank you in advance for your experiences and opinions. I think most men will find this very helpful.


I will give you an honest answer...

I stop engaging in email conversations as soon as it becomes 'one-sided' ...as soon as it's only me asking the questions, i'll stop the conversation all together.

Just recently I've come to discover skype, so me personally would want to use Skype before i'd ever meet them in person, saves a lot of time.

But when is the best time to ask them on a 'real' date? In my opinion 'as soon as possible' is always the best time...but again, that's not the same for everyone but i'm actually interested in meeting people where as some girls prefer not to.

minglenjoy's photo
Mon 07/07/14 09:47 PM

For me, id rather just chat on line til I'm comfortable enough for any further personal info. I hate talking to a guy a couple of times then he wants my # or email. The fact is on line dating is scary enough. U don't even know who ur talking to & what they capable of. So I usually tell guys I want to stay on line then I don't hear from them again, which that's fine with me. Just take ur time with that woman u wana talk to & try not to rush stuff on her, she'll come around........if she is real. Good luck

tanto kris's photo
Tue 07/08/14 02:32 PM
Seems like u r the type of woman that suits ma fancy

viceay's photo
Tue 07/08/14 02:47 PM
Trust in cyber space that's very important

MariahsFantasy's photo
Tue 07/08/14 02:56 PM
god forbid you run out of things to ask each other. what's left? arguing? yawn

fed6's photo
Wed 07/09/14 11:41 PM
I need a woman that I will love with every inch
of my body, with every
ounce of my soul, with
every beat of my heart. Pls add me up on bbm 331b6b8f

no photo
Thu 07/10/14 06:02 AM
lol I think the usual things that would bother anyone also make me lose interest. Most have been stated on here....living outside the US or Canada, too large an age gap, immediate requests for sex, calling me "dear" (no one who really speaks English uses that term), or anything scammerish....

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 07/10/14 08:10 AM
Honestly only way I become not interested in a e-mail. Is when I'm the only one keeping the conversation going.. I'm a talker and if they just send back one word responses and nothing to go off of I will quit e-mailing them...

Ya got to give something in order for others to want to answer back... whoa

no photo
Thu 07/10/14 09:35 AM
Some excellent tips there from Old Hag and Texas Girl. I'm terrible for this. I don't know what to ask them though. What kind of questions do women like to be asked? God why can't life just be simple!

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 07/10/14 10:39 AM

Some excellent tips there from Old Hag and Texas Girl. I'm terrible for this. I don't know what to ask them though. What kind of questions do women like to be asked? God why can't life just be simple!


Honestly I prefer just small talk. Don't ask me a 100 questions I feel like I'm being drilled... Just make it every day conversation like if you was talking to a friend..All the questions ect will come later if you want to really get to know them... whoa

seethestar's photo
Thu 07/10/14 12:25 PM
...because she's JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU!

TwistedHeart74's photo
Thu 07/10/14 05:53 PM
Be interesting and interested. Be honest. Talk to her like she's a human being. That'll get you replies.
I'm the type to want to chat a bit, then talk on the phone/text then meet. Why waste time?
Don't be pushy, be sincere. Most important...be yourself.

dcastelmissy's photo
Thu 07/10/14 06:55 PM
It totally depends on what each woman is interested in. Women are just as diverse as men are. Not every woman will be attracted to a specific type of mean and vice versa. You need patience to discover the type of woman you would be happy with and vice versa. There are no instant answers. Just my opinion. happy

no1phD's photo
Thu 07/10/14 07:08 PM

I sometimes wish I was a woman. Honestly you don't know how lucky you are. I'd be in heaven if I had women messaging me for sex all day long.
.. yeah then u 2.. can get cranky on your" grey day".. And go through the joys of childbirth...lol..
. not to mention having complete losers hitting on you. but I know what you mean... I would find the first good looking rich guy... and nail his butt to the ground...lmao..
. not to mention playing with myself all day...lollaugh rofl slaphead

josie68's photo
Fri 07/11/14 03:04 AM

Thank you Ladies :), this is very Helpful! I definitely don't ask for marriage on the first message ;). Maybe the second one lol. I will definitely keep all of this in mind.

No worries, the second message is fine laugh

Just listen to what they are asking for, some people get clingy really quickly , some stand back, others want all your information, some hardly talk at all.
I had one man ask if I wanted to breed with him.noway My kids still think it's funny.

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