... drives you absolutely crazy insane with love, passion, jealousy, confusion... and you wouldn't want them to be any other way?



Women can be complex in the extremes... we can be delicate, fragile, soft, sensitive, demure, shy, funny, outgoing, tough, hard, mean, manipulative, abrasive, insecure...

Men can be complex in the extremes as well.... they can be strong, protective, loving, giving, funny, shy, outgoing, controlling, demanding, manipulative, abrasive, weak, insecure...

Women and men have many different facets to our personalities... good and bad... even if we don't like to admit it to ourselves.

Regardless to the level of crazy we might personally possess are we still desirable to the opposite sex? Is there ever an extreme that makes us too much of a mess?

Nope, there are no extremists here.

Yes ma'am.
Someone wit PTSD may need more patience than so-called normal people.

I'm a total mess, but I'm a blast to be around lol. And you won't find a better person than me. Crazy and all

I can truly imagine...

I think so.

well if you're not a little bit crazy wild!.. you'r probably not my cuppa tea..
. but if you start boiling bunnies...hmmm... well let's just say, even I have a line.. that I won't cross.

boiling bunnies...

Sorry thought I was supposed to make Hobo stew.






Topic answer......Not yet.

not yet....still looking

At this stage in my life I don't want to be continuously putting out fires, or trying to start them.

Ive met one person that drove me crazy with passion,,,

besides that

there are many extremes that are turn offs,, extreme negativism, extreme drama, extreme paranoia, extreme ego, extreme victimhood,,,


to name a few,,,,Im more into balance, so 'extreme' in general is probably too 'extreme' for me,,,lol

if they are described as crazy by their friends, I prefer it

if they are described as crazy by their doctor im running away

A down home, laid back, sensual woman fires me up.

better start runnin then... cuz my family doc told me the last time we talked in fact that he knows I'm crazy, but I'm a funny crazy rather than an ornery type... of course he said this as we both were cuttin' up and laughin' about it.

The only guy I've ever felt that for, was my first ever boyfriend. He had a certain charm to him. Luckily, he wasn't into being macho and flaunting it, because as KLC pointed out, it isn't always that impressive, and can just come across as showing off or attention seeking. He was a very gentle guy. I thank his parents for that. .

I had that once when I was much younger, now I prefer a easy going, slow to boil relationship.

Different facets to a personality is cool, we all got that I think. It's what makes us shine, like diamonds :)

Extremes is another issue, I wouldn't like that much. Had that with my narcissistic ex. You never know where you stand with someone extreme. He could change moods/personality within 1 thousandth of a second and back to yet another one. Very tiring and confusing, totally wears you out over time.
You can never truly relax and be yourself around someone extreme, cos one minute they'll have you jumping through hoops, the next minute they want to have a Zen moment and the next you're in a serious domestic.
You need a certain "base-line" in a relationship, which can be difficult with someone extreme.