Out of all the women I dated, they were the ones who pushed for sex.
Who am I to disappoint them?

no

need? no

Unless you're in the habit of having your vertical smile closely inspected prior to some serious shagging, you're missing the point of my statement.

I'd say tuna taco, but you'd probably think me vulgar. :)

they need to have some, some basic skill in the bedroom.. firstly, a relationship is hard enough..
the last thing I want to do.. is add more hard work.. trying to school somebody.. on the dos and don'ts of sex.. at this stage of the game you better have your "Shnitzel.". down by now. yes 'and they can talk, about how good they are in bed! all they want.. but the proof is in the pudding so to speak.. and that pudding, better not smell like 2 day old tuna..

Yes, I do not want to have to teach anyone anything aside from where the right spot is... And I'm not going to buy a car without test driving it first so why would I make a life time commitment without trying the goods? Just sayin...

No, what does sex and marriage in itself have anything to do with one another? You aren't marrying someone's cock or their vagina. I've seen a lot of different posts along the lines, gotta try the ride out first, even test driving first before they buy the car. Is that the only reason one is marrying the other? How can you really simulate making love to buying a car, or getting married to buying a car? Is that as far as people's marriages are viewed these days?

Did someone just make reference to a rooster and a vagina in the same sentence?

But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
1 Cor..7:9

pretty much sex and marriage have everything to do with each other, sit's the only reason in the Bible for the need to get married. .....

but that same bible passage would then have to be interpreted to mean that 'good' sex isn't to be predetermined, but that ANY SEX should be within marriage,,,


'good sex' is a matter of communication and relationship building,,,if the other biblical principles exist, 'good sex' will happen

lol

I need at least oral......it's a perquisite ......

Thats true, sex outside if marriage is a sin according to thr bible, so to stay in those parameters the reason one would be getting married would be to have sex and not sin.

But saying one is independent of the other is just nonsense in my opinion

well, actually, mentioning one description of marriage is not proof of that being the only reason or of it
HAVING to be the reason


marriage can indeed prevent one from being burned with lust for others over and over throughout life

but marriage is certainly not strictly for the purpose of having sex, it is also to fulfill the Design of God , for a man and woman to have a helpmate in each other,,,

but even beyond the biblical arguments here

I just find it sad that so many people think sex is the SAME with every person so that its going to be automatically good or never become good at all,,

I wonder what kind of lovers these people are,, just saying,,,

just more in line with not wanting to 'work' at anything,, if you don't just know it, I don't want to take the time allowing you to learn it,,,,Im moving on,,,,

you can teach a lot, "its not the size of the boat that matters, its the motion of the ocean"

but as one comedian pointed out "it takes a long time to get to England in a rowboat"

point is some things may not be easily fixed by learning alone

I didnt say anything about size not mattering

having the right tool and knowing how to use a tool are different things,,

that being said, noone should expect whats 'easy' to last long,, worthwhile things take effort,,,,

but Im just speaking from my own perspective, obviously,,,,,if there is communication, honesty, maturity, willingness and a genuine connection of values and goals,, the 'good sex' follows quite naturally,,,

Omgggs if the sausage is a pencil it's useless.......

Yes.