Topic: WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?
Thomas27's photo
Wed 07/02/14 07:57 AM



WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?


Because they have no respect for their partner or themselves. IMO.


i really wanna knw y people cheat in a relationship..hmu


I've never cheated in a relationship so I can't attest to exactly what kinds of excuses people use in their own minds to make this practice of dishonor and deceit acceptable.

When I reach the point with my partner where I'd rather be with someone else I divorce the one before moving on to another. All the men I've known don't like their women cheating on them even though some don't have a problem doing it themselves. And the men that have cheated on me didn't respect my feelings or the value of our reputation as a couple.

Cheaters bring shame on their family name when their behavior is made public and neighbors mostly side with the innocent partner. If both are cheaters their family name is generally mud because it shows a complete lack of dignity or respect on both partners part.

I realize there are relationships in which both partners are agreeable to swinging or cheating, but even in these open minded scenarios it's hard for me to believe that people who will orgy or have multiple sexual partners besides their significant other really do love and respect one another, or if they're just both into indiscriminate sex.

In these types of unions I wonder how long they really last once a partner falls for a better lover they hooked up with. Or if couples actually make lifetime commitments and have families they can teach these same loose morals too. I wonder if the children of swingers then go on to think its okay to be unfaithful too.


Hey Athena:smile: .... Sometimes it's best if we.........




flowerforyou


think

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Wed 07/02/14 08:01 AM




WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?


Because they have no respect for their partner or themselves. IMO.


i really wanna knw y people cheat in a relationship..hmu


I've never cheated in a relationship so I can't attest to exactly what kinds of excuses people use in their own minds to make this practice of dishonor and deceit acceptable.

When I reach the point with my partner where I'd rather be with someone else I divorce the one before moving on to another. All the men I've known don't like their women cheating on them even though some don't have a problem doing it themselves. And the men that have cheated on me didn't respect my feelings or the value of our reputation as a couple.

Cheaters bring shame on their family name when their behavior is made public and neighbors mostly side with the innocent partner. If both are cheaters their family name is generally mud because it shows a complete lack of dignity or respect on both partners part.

I realize there are relationships in which both partners are agreeable to swinging or cheating, but even in these open minded scenarios it's hard for me to believe that people who will orgy or have multiple sexual partners besides their significant other really do love and respect one another, or if they're just both into indiscriminate sex.

In these types of unions I wonder how long they really last once a partner falls for a better lover they hooked up with. Or if couples actually make lifetime commitments and have families they can teach these same loose morals too. I wonder if the children of swingers then go on to think its okay to be unfaithful too.


Hey Athena:smile: .... Sometimes it's best if we.........




flowerforyou


think


waving Morning Thomas....Are you telling me to think?...Or are you telling yourself to think?......Or does it even matter?...rofl

flowerforyou



adj4u's photo
Wed 07/02/14 08:08 AM


because they lack morals and loyalty in their character

Thomas27's photo
Wed 07/02/14 08:11 AM





WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?


Because they have no respect for their partner or themselves. IMO.


i really wanna knw y people cheat in a relationship..hmu


I've never cheated in a relationship so I can't attest to exactly what kinds of excuses people use in their own minds to make this practice of dishonor and deceit acceptable.

When I reach the point with my partner where I'd rather be with someone else I divorce the one before moving on to another. All the men I've known don't like their women cheating on them even though some don't have a problem doing it themselves. And the men that have cheated on me didn't respect my feelings or the value of our reputation as a couple.

Cheaters bring shame on their family name when their behavior is made public and neighbors mostly side with the innocent partner. If both are cheaters their family name is generally mud because it shows a complete lack of dignity or respect on both partners part.

I realize there are relationships in which both partners are agreeable to swinging or cheating, but even in these open minded scenarios it's hard for me to believe that people who will orgy or have multiple sexual partners besides their significant other really do love and respect one another, or if they're just both into indiscriminate sex.

In these types of unions I wonder how long they really last once a partner falls for a better lover they hooked up with. Or if couples actually make lifetime commitments and have families they can teach these same loose morals too. I wonder if the children of swingers then go on to think its okay to be unfaithful too.


Hey Athena:smile: .... Sometimes it's best if we.........




flowerforyou


think


waving Morning Thomas....Are you telling me to think?...Or are you telling yourself to think?......Or does it even matter?...rofl

flowerforyou





Good Morning (((Leigh))) flowerforyou


Just thought you were on to something winking


Actually about to come through your neighborhood, taking the scenic route from Nashville. Coming through Crossville and then we'll cut across the mountain back to home ;)

I'll be waving as I pass through :thumbsup:

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Wed 07/02/14 08:15 AM






WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?


Because they have no respect for their partner or themselves. IMO.


i really wanna knw y people cheat in a relationship..hmu


I've never cheated in a relationship so I can't attest to exactly what kinds of excuses people use in their own minds to make this practice of dishonor and deceit acceptable.

When I reach the point with my partner where I'd rather be with someone else I divorce the one before moving on to another. All the men I've known don't like their women cheating on them even though some don't have a problem doing it themselves. And the men that have cheated on me didn't respect my feelings or the value of our reputation as a couple.

Cheaters bring shame on their family name when their behavior is made public and neighbors mostly side with the innocent partner. If both are cheaters their family name is generally mud because it shows a complete lack of dignity or respect on both partners part.

I realize there are relationships in which both partners are agreeable to swinging or cheating, but even in these open minded scenarios it's hard for me to believe that people who will orgy or have multiple sexual partners besides their significant other really do love and respect one another, or if they're just both into indiscriminate sex.

In these types of unions I wonder how long they really last once a partner falls for a better lover they hooked up with. Or if couples actually make lifetime commitments and have families they can teach these same loose morals too. I wonder if the children of swingers then go on to think its okay to be unfaithful too.


Hey Athena:smile: .... Sometimes it's best if we.........




flowerforyou


think


waving Morning Thomas....Are you telling me to think?...Or are you telling yourself to think?......Or does it even matter?...rofl

flowerforyou





Good Morning (((Leigh))) flowerforyou


Just thought you were on to something winking


Actually about to come through your neighborhood, taking the scenic route from Nashville. Coming through Crossville and then we'll cut across the mountain back to home ;)

I'll be waving as I pass through :thumbsup:


surprised and you're not planning to stop ??!!!...I have sweet tea and central air!:tongue: ...Have a safe trip, I'll wave to you guys from the last overpass!!.....laugh

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 07/02/14 08:20 AM







WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?


Because they have no respect for their partner or themselves. IMO.


i really wanna knw y people cheat in a relationship..hmu


I've never cheated in a relationship so I can't attest to exactly what kinds of excuses people use in their own minds to make this practice of dishonor and deceit acceptable.

When I reach the point with my partner where I'd rather be with someone else I divorce the one before moving on to another. All the men I've known don't like their women cheating on them even though some don't have a problem doing it themselves. And the men that have cheated on me didn't respect my feelings or the value of our reputation as a couple.

Cheaters bring shame on their family name when their behavior is made public and neighbors mostly side with the innocent partner. If both are cheaters their family name is generally mud because it shows a complete lack of dignity or respect on both partners part.

I realize there are relationships in which both partners are agreeable to swinging or cheating, but even in these open minded scenarios it's hard for me to believe that people who will orgy or have multiple sexual partners besides their significant other really do love and respect one another, or if they're just both into indiscriminate sex.

In these types of unions I wonder how long they really last once a partner falls for a better lover they hooked up with. Or if couples actually make lifetime commitments and have families they can teach these same loose morals too. I wonder if the children of swingers then go on to think its okay to be unfaithful too.


Hey Athena:smile: .... Sometimes it's best if we.........




flowerforyou


think


waving Morning Thomas....Are you telling me to think?...Or are you telling yourself to think?......Or does it even matter?...rofl

flowerforyou





Good Morning (((Leigh))) flowerforyou


Just thought you were on to something winking


Actually about to come through your neighborhood, taking the scenic route from Nashville. Coming through Crossville and then we'll cut across the mountain back to home ;)

I'll be waving as I pass through :thumbsup:


surprised and you're not planning to stop ??!!!...I have sweet tea and central air!:tongue: ...Have a safe trip, I'll wave to you guys from the last overpass!!.....laugh


This is so cute. smitten

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Wed 07/02/14 08:24 AM








WHY DO PEOPLE CHEAT?�?


Because they have no respect for their partner or themselves. IMO.


i really wanna knw y people cheat in a relationship..hmu


I've never cheated in a relationship so I can't attest to exactly what kinds of excuses people use in their own minds to make this practice of dishonor and deceit acceptable.

When I reach the point with my partner where I'd rather be with someone else I divorce the one before moving on to another. All the men I've known don't like their women cheating on them even though some don't have a problem doing it themselves. And the men that have cheated on me didn't respect my feelings or the value of our reputation as a couple.

Cheaters bring shame on their family name when their behavior is made public and neighbors mostly side with the innocent partner. If both are cheaters their family name is generally mud because it shows a complete lack of dignity or respect on both partners part.

I realize there are relationships in which both partners are agreeable to swinging or cheating, but even in these open minded scenarios it's hard for me to believe that people who will orgy or have multiple sexual partners besides their significant other really do love and respect one another, or if they're just both into indiscriminate sex.

In these types of unions I wonder how long they really last once a partner falls for a better lover they hooked up with. Or if couples actually make lifetime commitments and have families they can teach these same loose morals too. I wonder if the children of swingers then go on to think its okay to be unfaithful too.


Hey Athena:smile: .... Sometimes it's best if we.........




flowerforyou


think


waving Morning Thomas....Are you telling me to think?...Or are you telling yourself to think?......Or does it even matter?...rofl

flowerforyou





Good Morning (((Leigh))) flowerforyou


Just thought you were on to something winking


Actually about to come through your neighborhood, taking the scenic route from Nashville. Coming through Crossville and then we'll cut across the mountain back to home ;)

I'll be waving as I pass through :thumbsup:


surprised and you're not planning to stop ??!!!...I have sweet tea and central air!:tongue: ...Have a safe trip, I'll wave to you guys from the last overpass!!.....laugh


This is so cute. smitten


Southern charm, can't beat it!:wink: ...I loved your poetry reading Audrey!love ....I just finished one, did it on Vocaroobigsmile ...Haven't got the nerve to post it yet thoughohwell

soufiehere's photo
Wed 07/02/14 09:33 AM
I think they are insecure.
They require the force field of constant validation.

RainbowTrout's photo
Wed 07/02/14 09:41 AM
Maybe so they can get on that show, "Cheaters". It is amazing what lengths some people would go to get on television. Has anyone ever watched the show?

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Wed 07/02/14 09:54 AM

I think they are insecure.
They require the force field of constant validation.


:thumbsup: Insecurity provokes SO many things....

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Wed 07/02/14 10:10 AM


Southern charm, can't beat it!:wink: ...I loved your poetry reading Audrey!love ....I just finished one, did it on Vocaroobigsmile ...Haven't got the nerve to post it yet thoughohwell


bigsmile Thomas is from TN or so it says on his stats. That's cool. Hah thank you! If my neighbors don't have loud talking voices for a short period of time I will start on mine.

You should! I'd love to hear it. flowerforyou

Thomas27's photo
Wed 07/02/14 10:12 AM



Southern charm, can't beat it!:wink: ...I loved your poetry reading Audrey!love ....I just finished one, did it on Vocaroobigsmile ...Haven't got the nerve to post it yet thoughohwell


bigsmile Thomas is from TN or so it says on his stats. That's cool. Hah thank you! If my neighbors don't have loud talking voices for a short period of time I will start on mine.

You should! I'd love to hear it. flowerforyou


This is true ;) flowerforyou

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Wed 07/02/14 10:12 AM
Edited by Leigh2154 on Wed 07/02/14 10:14 AM



Southern charm, can't beat it!:wink: ...I loved your poetry reading Audrey!love ....I just finished one, did it on Vocaroobigsmile ...Haven't got the nerve to post it yet thoughohwell


bigsmile Thomas is from TN or so it says on his stats. That's cool. Hah thank you! If my neighbors don't have loud talking voices for a short period of time I will start on mine.

You should! I'd love to hear it. flowerforyou


I'll post it one of these days...bigsmile ...

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 07/02/14 10:16 AM




Southern charm, can't beat it!:wink: ...I loved your poetry reading Audrey!love ....I just finished one, did it on Vocaroobigsmile ...Haven't got the nerve to post it yet thoughohwell


bigsmile Thomas is from TN or so it says on his stats. That's cool. Hah thank you! If my neighbors don't have loud talking voices for a short period of time I will start on mine.

You should! I'd love to hear it. flowerforyou


This is true ;) flowerforyou


waving

lonelyman3036's photo
Wed 07/02/14 10:34 AM




Southern charm, can't beat it!:wink: ...I loved your poetry reading Audrey!love ....I just finished one, did it on Vocaroobigsmile ...Haven't got the nerve to post it yet thoughohwell


bigsmile Thomas is from TN or so it says on his stats. That's cool. Hah thank you! If my neighbors don't have loud talking voices for a short period of time I will start on mine.

You should! I'd love to hear it. flowerforyou


I'll post it one of these days...bigsmile ...


Please do.

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Wed 07/02/14 10:57 AM
offtopic Please try to stay on Topic....

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Wed 07/02/14 03:59 PM
blushing talking about NOT letting it go... ya'll reposted my thoughts seven more times... laugh how funny is that...tongue2 hey I couldn't help it the OP said he "REALLY" wants to know so I added my two sense as usual, for whatever it's worth... winking

Seriously, I'd like to hear from cheaters why they cheat too. smokin

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Wed 07/02/14 05:33 PM


because they have grown bored with you!!!
. because you are no longer exciting!
because you have the intellect of a chimpanzee..
. because you no longer for feel their fantasies...
just to mention a few...hmm..

those are reasons to break up, not to cheat.
word upfrustrated

Verzel21's photo
Wed 07/02/14 05:45 PM
Two words


No Honor

Goofball73's photo
Wed 07/02/14 07:27 PM

I blame Obama's healthcare plan.


Along with....Global warming....double whammy.