Topic: Undateable
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Thu 06/26/14 08:58 PM






If you had romantic objectives, I would come to Ohio and take you on a date and talk about history or something flowerforyou


IDK I think it would mean a lot of prep time just to do something we can do now. I can start a history thread...

(see what I mean)



You would miss out on the facial expressions though lol

And the history would be what we create on our date winking
flowerforyou you're precious

but most men want to go out to dinnerohwell asleep


Dinner is always nice, but that is not the only thing you can do on a date...

Here's what I would do... I would take you to the park where we could sit (or walk) and engage in some people watching.. Soon we would make our way downtown where they have arts and crafts booths in front of the aquarium every Saturday... We would talk about the interesting things that we find as we wonder who would put some of those things in their house... We will make our way down the street to my favorite ice cream shop... If you survive all of that..

Second date, we would go hang gliding.. See you at the bottom of the mountain!

Sky is the limit when it comes to dating!


you wouldn't want to do a seven mile climb would you?


I'm down for anything girl! biggrin

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Thu 06/26/14 09:02 PM

Sweet you are good....this turned out well.......:laughing: flowers

well thomas is surely smitten drool winking waving

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Thu 06/26/14 09:03 PM
Edited by Tanzy14 on Thu 06/26/14 09:05 PM
He is easy on the eyes.......:thumbsup:

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:03 PM


Sweet you are good....this turned out well.......:laughing: flowers

well thomas is surely smitten drool winking waving


blushing

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Thu 06/26/14 09:07 PM

He is easy on the eyes.......:thumbsup:
agreed:wink: flowerforyou

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:09 PM

He is easy on the eyes.......:thumbsup:


:heart: flowerforyou smooched

Thomas27's photo
Thu 06/26/14 09:11 PM


He is easy on the eyes.......:thumbsup:
agreed:wink: flowerforyou


Talk about making a guys night! smooched flowers blushing

jacktrades's photo
Thu 06/26/14 11:34 PM
Edited by jacktrades on Thu 06/26/14 11:36 PM

I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?





Undateable I disagree.You have great taste in music. So you don't want to go through all the big date preparedness even better, blue jeans and t shirt date. Go to a local club and listen to some good music, talk, laugh and call it a night, no stress, no pressure,just good company.

no1phD's photo
Thu 06/26/14 11:46 PM
yes that's why I joined a dating site.
. because I think I'm undateable..
so I guess the answer is No.

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Fri 06/27/14 03:08 AM
I am sure you are fine, but thanks for the warning

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Fri 06/27/14 06:36 AM

I think one of the main reasons that many people feel that way about dating is because of the stereotypical routines or venues that are associated with dating..

Why can't dating be like doing some activities together, such as hiking, picnicking, strolling/riding at the (amusement)park, etc., instead of meeting at a restaurant, cafe, and what not?


that is similar to my thought about it. I get bored early on during the meeting up part because it's important to meet in a secure area that usually ends up meaning coffee shops and restaurants (on a morning when I could be hiking or bird watching.....so there goes that day). I am not willing to devote that much time to a "sorting process." That is why at one point I decided to just chat on the forums here and not try to date thru here. The whole meet up thing was getting long in the tooth....

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Fri 06/27/14 06:37 AM


I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?





Undateable I disagree.You have great taste in music. So you don't want to go through all the big date preparedness even better, blue jeans and t shirt date. Go to a local club and listen to some good music, talk, laugh and call it a night, no stress, no pressure,just good company.


that's not a bad idea and wouldn't ruin my day. the local music scene here isn't the best. but that aside, it is a good ideaflowerforyou

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Fri 06/27/14 06:38 AM
Nah, I'm the same way...I don't find it boring, just unnecessary.

Figure I already fell in love, had my chance and barring seeing her again...I don't feel I will get another one. So I made goals instead, they'll keep me busy until I pass.smokin

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Fri 06/27/14 06:41 AM

yes that's why I joined a dating site.
. because I think I'm undateable..
so I guess the answer is No.


when I joined I hadn't not even considered that batman

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Fri 06/27/14 06:42 AM

I am sure you are fine, but thanks for the warning


you're welcome....I thought it only fair :):wink: laugh

RainbowTrout's photo
Fri 06/27/14 06:43 AM

I could surprise guys with how cute and feminine I can be. bigsmile


I could surprise girls how cute and feminine I can be.laugh

My nurse at work is always saying that is real cute to my remarks. And the dementia female residents are always calling me names like mama or telling me that I am a nice woman.:smile:

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Fri 06/27/14 11:12 AM
Kinda feel I know what you mean Sweetestgirl.flowerforyou

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Fri 06/27/14 11:23 AM

Nah, I'm the same way...I don't find it boring, just unnecessary.

Figure I already fell in love, had my chance and barring seeing her again...I don't feel I will get another one. So I made goals instead, they'll keep me busy until I pass.smokin


bigsmile drinker

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Fri 06/27/14 11:36 AM


I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:

No undies? Boring but ordering Chinese would be redeeming...just make sure she's got panties..drool

navygirl's photo
Fri 06/27/14 04:50 PM

I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


Yes; I have felt that way for years.