Topic: Undateable
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Thu 06/26/14 08:30 PM


I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:



Home with a chubby = no fun and work to do when I get there (home) embarassed

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Thu 06/26/14 08:30 PM



I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good new Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


he has to take off his shoes my carpet is beige and almost brand new and I am not letting some strange man in here


It's an adventure Sweet!...Do not worry about trivial things!bigsmile

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Thu 06/26/14 08:31 PM


I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


A random stranger in your home.....I can't.....

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Thu 06/26/14 08:32 PM



I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


A random stranger in your home.....I can't.....


OK....:tongue: ...But who said he was a stranger...??????????

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Thu 06/26/14 08:33 PM



I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:



Home with a chubby = no fun and work to do when I get there (home) embarassed


It also equals a second date...:wink:

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Thu 06/26/14 08:33 PM



You don't sound like a boring type, unless the way you talk in person is far different than the way you talk here.. Perhaps the topics you get to talk about at the date were boring ones..


I really don;t enjoy just sitting around and talking that much with a stranger


I see.. What if you get to know him well enough on line, so he doesn't feel like one when you actually see him in person?


I think that is a good question. I have a lot of good friends on here :)

It can take time and most guys are in a big hurry

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Thu 06/26/14 08:33 PM



I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


A random stranger in your home.....I can't.....


someone who gets it


maybe Leigh's idea can be the 4th or 5th time we're together

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Thu 06/26/14 08:34 PM




I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


A random stranger in your home.....I can't.....


someone who gets it


maybe Leigh's idea can be the 4th or 5th time we're together


I though you were talking about dating!!??!!!...I don't date strangers....

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Thu 06/26/14 08:36 PM




I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:



Home with a chubby = no fun and work to do when I get there (home) embarassed


It also equals a second date...:wink:


blushing

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Thu 06/26/14 08:36 PM



If you had romantic objectives, I would come to Ohio and take you on a date and talk about history or something flowerforyou


IDK I think it would mean a lot of prep time just to do something we can do now. I can start a history thread...

(see what I mean)



You would miss out on the facial expressions though lol

And the history would be what we create on our date winking
flowerforyou you're precious

but most men want to go out to dinnerohwell asleep

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Thu 06/26/14 08:36 PM




I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good new Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


he has to take off his shoes my carpet is beige and almost brand new and I am not letting some strange man in here


It's an adventure Sweet!...Do not worry about trivial things!bigsmile


well what is trivial is going to vary with the individual. I seldom worry about much of anything. it tends to piss people off

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Thu 06/26/14 08:40 PM

Sweetest .. You are smart .. Sassy and funny

Not sure why you feel undateable ...

I am blaming the mingle men .. Laughing .. Come on boys .. Get your game on ..
laugh I knew I liked this chica for some reason lolflowerforyou

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Thu 06/26/14 08:40 PM





I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


A random stranger in your home.....I can't.....


someone who gets it


maybe Leigh's idea can be the 4th or 5th time we're together


I though you were talking about dating!!??!!!...I don't date strangers....


right that's what I am saying...your suggestions sounds like great fun but not until we know each other better!

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Thu 06/26/14 08:46 PM


Sweetest .. You are smart .. Sassy and funny

Not sure why you feel undateable ...

I am blaming the mingle men .. Laughing .. Come on boys .. Get your game on ..
laugh I knew I liked this chica for some reason lolflowerforyou


:thumbsup: So true, both....flowerforyou

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Thu 06/26/14 08:46 PM




If you had romantic objectives, I would come to Ohio and take you on a date and talk about history or something flowerforyou


IDK I think it would mean a lot of prep time just to do something we can do now. I can start a history thread...

(see what I mean)



You would miss out on the facial expressions though lol

And the history would be what we create on our date winking
flowerforyou you're precious

but most men want to go out to dinnerohwell asleep


Dinner is always nice, but that is not the only thing you can do on a date...

Here's what I would do... I would take you to the park where we could sit (or walk) and engage in some people watching.. Soon we would make our way downtown where they have arts and crafts booths in front of the aquarium every Saturday... We would talk about the interesting things that we find as we wonder who would put some of those things in their house... We will make our way down the street to my favorite ice cream shop... If you survive all of that..

Second date, we would go hang gliding.. See you at the bottom of the mountain!

Sky is the limit when it comes to dating!

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Thu 06/26/14 08:46 PM


I could surprise guys with how cute and feminine I can be. bigsmile


Are you flirting with all guys here? :wink:


One at a time is my style. Why, should I be? spock :wink:

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Thu 06/26/14 08:53 PM
Edited by carteblanc on Thu 06/26/14 08:51 PM
I think one of the main reasons that many people feel that way about dating is because of the stereotypical routines or venues that are associated with dating..

Why can't dating be like doing some activities together, such as hiking, picnicking, strolling/riding at the (amusement)park, etc., instead of meeting at a restaurant, cafe, and what not?

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Thu 06/26/14 08:53 PM




I feel I am definitely undateable. Does anyone else feel that way?


This is not good news Sweetfrown ...I think you need to "change it up"bigsmile ...Start by calling it an adventure...Dating is for babies anyhoowhoa ...When he arrives, dressed to the nines, greet him in your sexiest PJ's (no undies allowed) and tell him you have ordered Chinese, you have Netflicks and he can pick the flick....Tell him to take off his shoes and ask him what he would like to drink....Share baby, share...Introduce him to your music collection, show him your travel pics, get a little tipsy and make out with him..Send him home with a chubby...What fun!!..:wink:


A random stranger in your home.....I can't.....


someone who gets it


maybe Leigh's idea can be the 4th or 5th time we're together



Then that I agree with......

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Thu 06/26/14 08:56 PM
Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Thu 06/26/14 09:01 PM





If you had romantic objectives, I would come to Ohio and take you on a date and talk about history or something flowerforyou


IDK I think it would mean a lot of prep time just to do something we can do now. I can start a history thread...

(see what I mean)



You would miss out on the facial expressions though lol

And the history would be what we create on our date winking
flowerforyou you're precious

but most men want to go out to dinnerohwell asleep


Dinner is always nice, but that is not the only thing you can do on a date...

Here's what I would do... I would take you to the park where we could sit (or walk) and engage in some people watching.. Soon we would make our way downtown where they have arts and crafts booths in front of the aquarium every Saturday... We would talk about the interesting things that we find as we wonder who would put some of those things in their house... We will make our way down the street to my favorite ice cream shop... If you survive all of that..

Second date, we would go hang gliding.. See you at the bottom of the mountain!

Sky is the limit when it comes to dating!


you wouldn't want to do a seven mile climb would you?

and in thinking .... I think I am just too busy with my own agenda ...eagles and hawks in fall and winter, climbs to good bird spots, songbirds etc in the spring...I'm too obssesed for dating. But I do have more time for it over the next few months than I do the rest of the year...

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Thu 06/26/14 08:58 PM
Sweet you are good....this turned out well.......:laughing: flowers