I suppose if u can find someone willing to go to your house that would be fine but def. not my thing lol

Actually, I have 2 women here I've known for years. Every couple weeks one of the two will come hang out.

I also have 1 woman I date pretty regularly in Mexico. That is, when she has a day off.

Women I know trust me to treat them right.

Sorry to hear you don't have that.

And I am sorry to hear that you need to have more than one woman in your life. I am a monogamous person, but you obviously are not!

I agree. I am not at all unhappy to not have what he is describing....sounds seedy somehow

anyway, the comment I made about the grilling at the house was for security reasons..not gonna just go to some guy's house....

besides I think a man should take a woman out somewhere. an invitation to the house happens much later, and if offerred to soon just sounds like he is expecting sex...and I'm like.."oh really?"

These relationships are casual. No promises have been made on anyone's part.

That's why it's called dating.

When I promise to be with just one woman, that's what I do.

If sex happens, great. It's not an expectation.

While you are legally married to someone else? Doesn't sound like it to me...but that's just me! I would never do that unless I was legally free from the one I was married to, that is the difference between how you choose to call it, and the way I conduct my life...period!

Legally is just a formality.
We have been emotionally divorced for a few years.

I have updated my profile.

And yet you got back together with her recently...so what difference does it make what you put on your profile? You are either married or not, legally or emotionally! Make up your mind...oh never mind, you'll never see anything wrong in the way you conduct your life, but it's your life and yours to choose. That type of lifestyle does not appeal to me in the slightest! In it's essence, it shows you don't know what you really want or choose for your life. So whatever makes you happy is what goes for you...have more than one girlfriend, or wife or whatever in your life. To me, fidelity is of utmost importance. I don't date more than one person at a time...ever!