Also have to keep in mind there's a difference between loving someone or being in love with someone. But specifically love and beauty don't have everything to do with one another. Just because you think something/someone is beautiful doesn't mean you're in love with them either.

Think that's mainly what's wrong with the world these days and or more specifically the dating area. It's all mainly about physical appearance, sex appeal, and so forth. As long as it continues to be like that, less and less people will know love from being blinded by the physical beauty.

that blindness about physical beauty is ugly truth

yeah i agree with Cowboy

thats like 4 times a day....what are you doing later ..er I guess you just told us
Is that like sessions or Os ? I was a very inquisitive child.

Well it's all geographical. I don't like to support both sexes who think this way. But it is important, not just in the beginning, from then on, especially to a man. A man in denial will always say, "not true, everyone is different." Well most of the world wants to be surrounded by a beautiful person, whatever it means. Woman do go through an enormous amount of planning with how they look before they present themselves in the world. Men care sometimes too but it isn't always the case. Depends on how easily influenced you are, or how you were brought up to think or feel about exteriors.

Even though I feel this way I still think there are some people who value something more than a symmetrical face and thigh gaps.

this post especially applies to men as they are considered visual creatures so I'm confused as to why our friend Cowboy is pretending so much

I typically just seek women out for the instant gratification of sex... You would be no different.

you make time for something you really care about
no shame, i sleep soundly
which is how it's done fellas

Not pretending, just different lol. That's the main reason I'm single as a matter of fact. I'm not like the other men running around trying to get into women's pants. The physical appearance will change over time, if that be from time era, age, or any number or possibilities. Why worry and put much attention to something that is ever changing through time? I'm after the heart and soul, something that won't change through time unless they allow it or intentionally change it. And what you see on the inside of people will show on the outside to you. That's why again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

So... you would pass up a megan fox for a lesser girl because of her "heart"?

What a liar

And then with the differences in me compared to the general population of men women don't seem to be entirely interested. I'm not the one that cusses up a sailor, nor jump in bed with a woman just because she thinks she's sexy and can drive any man crazy. And with that, I'm not interested in most to all women I come across. Women on a general note these days seem trashy and umm "easy". Please don't take offense to this if this does not apply to you women here, I'm not stereotyping nor saying all women are like that lol. Just my experiences with the women I've come across. Women these days seem to think that if they shake their butts around for the men their jaws will drop and they will be captivated for their usage... and astonishing as it may seem, it works most the time lol.

Life is what happens when we are busy making other plans...

My friend, to tell you the truth, yes. Since the subject is here and all, to help shed a little light on the specific discussion here. I've only been with 2 women in my life. And I entirely plan on leaving this world having only been with 3.

And not because of anything specifically to do with me in this exact meaning. Is such a low number because women have to work for it. It's not freely given. Takes time, devotion, energy, and emotional connection. And that's all done before I even just consider the idea of it happening.

Life is what happens when you have someone to live it with. And that's what I'm after. I'm after the one I'll spend the rest of my life with, not a night, not a weekend, but the rest of my life. And willing to wait till I find her :)

don't know if any penis would it pass up

Just depends on what head the man thinks with.

I don't get what the OP is saying.
. if you're not somebody's type what are you doing with them?

For your information, there are male Humans (and male Melmacians) who want more than eye candy.

BULLS@$*!

Where fairy dust is concerned, I'm so there!