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Topic: Ladies, go for younger men (-50)
TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Mon 05/26/14 08:29 AM
We older men have spent decades perfecting the art of delaying ejaculation. I am perplexed by a woman who doesn't want that. Yeah, me too mate. She mentioned that before and I thought that it was weird then as well. If a woman wants you to get it over with quickly there could be various reasons for that. I think that I would feel a bit insulted if I was told to get it over with like I was with a tart and not with someone that actually enjoyed making love with me.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/26/14 09:39 AM
Hmm..hmmm .hmmmmm . I just keep on going and going. just like the.

hellsboy007 Joined Tue 04/29/14 Posts: 992	Mon 05/26/14 10:01 AM
Blondey

hellsboy007 Joined Tue 04/29/14 Posts: 992	Mon 05/26/14 10:05 AM
Some adult discussion is on here.... Are kids allowed??? Unreal how sore men's egos can get. Makes me wonder why the he(k they get so defensive? If yours still works the way it should, why get all stressed out? Kind of interesting reactions though. Lots of bashing going on. Amusing. At least JT raises a bluddy good issue: cougars! Why would there be cougars if men 45 and up could still satisfy them? I've never had an interest in younger men, still don't really. But I do want a satisfactory sex-life and it looks like you have to turn to younger men for that. And I wasn't talking about Viagra cases BTW. But getting it up in itself doesn't mean it still functions the way it used to. There's issues like taking forever to climax, not being hard enough etc. And to YOU it might still feel the same, to a woman it doesn't. I would like to say to all the men with hurt egos or who don't believe what us women are saying: try it yourself! But I guess that would be pushing it a bit, lol. Why do crystal always pick on me?? I accepted im a young boy n I hv nothing to say here...

lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Mon 05/26/14 01:25 PM
Just one orgasm Klc ??? I guess he thinks That once a king, always a king. But once a night, is enough.

highcal Joined Wed 05/28/14 Posts: 4	Wed 05/28/14 07:06 PM
I'm new here and have to say this topic has me laughin. I cannot say anything about 50+ guys, but I'm turning 46 next month and sure I do not have the same stamina as years ago, I probably will not be getting off three times in one night anymore lol but still have zero issuses pleasuring a woman and cannot see any huge changes in that in the next four year. You ladies might find a younger guy with much more stamina but I think the old saying of quality over quantity is something to think about. you also might keep in mind that as we all get older health reasons and certain meds can cause these issues your having with men your own age.

highcal Joined Wed 05/28/14 Posts: 4	Wed 05/28/14 07:06 PM
I'm new here and have to say this topic has me laughin. I cannot say anything about 50+ guys, but I'm turning 46 next month and sure I do not have the same stamina as years ago, I probably will not be getting off three times in one night anymore lol but still have zero issuses pleasuring a woman and cannot see any huge changes in that in the next four year. You ladies might find a younger guy with much more stamina but I think the old saying of quality over quantity is something to think about. you also might keep in mind that as we all get older health reasons and certain meds can cause these issues your having with men your own age.

kurly_gurly Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 223	Wed 05/28/14 07:21 PM
I am not going to worry about all this. It's to be taken on a case by case basis from what I have experienced and heard so far. Age is just one factor. Test subjects are everywhere though!!

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Wed 05/28/14 07:31 PM
I don't go for younger men. But if I did, there are at least 3 who might be convincing

1j9b6c5 Joined Wed 11/05/08 Posts: 3954	Wed 05/28/14 08:08 PM
I'm not old, I just don't give a damn.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Wed 05/28/14 08:53 PM
1J, You're definitely not old.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33264	Thu 05/29/14 02:01 AM
We older men have spent decades perfecting the art of delaying ejaculation. I am perplexed by a woman who doesn't want that. Lol, it's a tad difficult to explain what I mean and stick to the forum's 13 year of age rating stuff. But there's a difference between being able to delay it, which is great, and having difficulty to come, even though being very aroused. And there really are men who have that 'problem'. Just like there is an increasing amount of men who aren't all that interested in sex. These days it's normal for the woman to want sex and the guy to have a headache. Also not so sure whether it's an "art" to be able to delay it, think it's more to do with aging and thus the above mentioned problem. Great to have a go at women with the lube thing. But I think if a woman would need lube and uses it, the issue is solved and doesn't stop a couple from having great sex. Different when a men's willy doesn't do the job like it used to.

hellsboy007 Joined Tue 04/29/14 Posts: 992	Thu 05/29/14 02:07 AM
Is it so..

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Thu 05/29/14 04:41 AM
I often wonder where you get all of these "facts" from Crystal. There's definetely an art to it but there are other factors that can make it take longer. The "art" to it is about being in control. It's about getting in tune with your partner with the sexual rhythms and finding out what she likes and what gives her pleasure. I don't mean asking her or being told what to do. I get them to go at my pace. I'm not worrying about my own orgasm. Sometimes I don't even want one and I will "delay" it until another time. I like sex and I'm not into quickies. It's just a fact that a man can do it for longer without it becoming uncomfortable, exhausting, or painful. I believe that if I'm doing it right I'm in control and I am bringing things out of a woman that she might not have thought that she was capable of experiencing. If you are always trying to take it to the next level and getting more passion out of them it never becomes stale or routine in my opinion and experience. Once a man gains control over himself it's the woman that's the limiting factor. I've never met a woman that has more stamina than I have but it took practice, experience and getting in tune with my own body to get to where I know what I'm doing and am just going to stop when the woman is satisfied or wants to stop for some reason. I think that that makes me a caring and generous lover. If I really want an orgasm I can have one. Delaying it does make it more powerful though and not doing so can not only leave me feeling unsatisfied but it can actually ruin the whole experience for me and have the opposite effect of making me feel closer to my lover and good about what we just did.

Marcel458 Joined Sun 07/21/13 Posts: 13	Thu 05/29/14 07:19 AM
Lol this is very scary thought for me. Being in my early 20's so ladies get in line I need to get as much in while I still can lol. The next 29 years will be bliss lol

lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Thu 05/29/14 07:24 AM
We older men have spent decades perfecting the art of delaying ejaculation. I am perplexed by a woman who doesn't want that. Lol, it's a tad difficult to explain what I mean and stick to the forum's 13 year of age rating stuff. But there's a difference between being able to delay it, which is great, and having difficulty to come, even though being very aroused. And there really are men who have that 'problem'. Just like there is an increasing amount of men who aren't all that interested in sex. These days it's normal for the woman to want sex and the guy to have a headache. Also not so sure whether it's an "art" to be able to delay it, think it's more to do with aging and thus the above mentioned problem. Great to have a go at women with the lube thing. But I think if a woman would need lube and uses it, the issue is solved and doesn't stop a couple from having great sex. Different when a men's willy doesn't do the job like it used to. But it's the same thing. She uses lube, he uses viagra (or whatever). They both are using an aid to compensate for the body's short coming.

kurly_gurly Joined Thu 05/15/14 Posts: 223	Thu 05/29/14 08:23 AM
Enhancements are just that unless a person gets excessive and changes it to a detriment. Like most all things in life balance is needed. I vote delaying is an art of sorts. It's definitely a plus to be a woman and not need to.

lonelyman3036 Joined Mon 08/05/13 Posts: 1590	Thu 05/29/14 01:10 PM
Enhancements are just that unless a person gets excessive and changes it to a detriment. Like most all things in life balance is needed. I vote delaying is an art of sorts. It's definitely a plus to be a woman and not need to. Exactly. By the way: I will volunteer as one of your test subjects.

justiceAsante Joined Sun 05/25/14 Posts: 8	Fri 05/30/14 01:32 AM
hi

michele63 Joined Sun 02/12/12 Posts: 3405	Fri 05/30/14 07:30 PM
We older men have spent decades perfecting the art of delaying ejaculation. I am perplexed by a woman who doesn't want that. Lol, it's a tad difficult to explain what I mean and stick to the forum's 13 year of age rating stuff. But there's a difference between being able to delay it, which is great, and having difficulty to come, even though being very aroused. And there really are men who have that 'problem'. Just like there is an increasing amount of men who aren't all that interested in sex. These days it's normal for the woman to want sex and the guy to have a headache. Also not so sure whether it's an "art" to be able to delay it, think it's more to do with aging and thus the above mentioned problem. Great to have a go at women with the lube thing. But I think if a woman would need lube and uses it, the issue is solved and doesn't stop a couple from having great sex. Different when a men's willy doesn't do the job like it used to. But it's the same thing. She uses lube, he uses viagra (or whatever). They both are using an aid to compensate for the body's short coming. Very smart insight for a lonelyman. i agree. if you hit it off together, what is the difference what and how you are enjoying each other as long as you are enjoying each other. isnt that what its about? if you love someone enough you work through things that "arent working" it shouldnt matter. pleasure comes in many different ways and forms. you shouldnt be shunned because of a physical problem. you can still have that love and warmth inside. its sad when people dont see past a "pic" of someone to their very soul. its hurts to be put to the side.