exactly...I'd want someone who could get it up with ME w/out viagra. your point is only clear in the sense that we all want someone who arouses us.

as far as attractiveness...men as they age are probably less attractive to some women...so if the shoe fits BOTH feet....personally I like a well preserved man about my own age

If your wife does not arouse you that is your problem for your bad choice.

Some adult discussion is on here.... Are kids allowed???

Pancho hit the nail on the head! I think some of your older gals are confused by the fact that a younger man is just is jyst happy with the fact that he's having sex.

if it wasn't for cougars,i wouldn't be the man i am today



so cheers to them

I'm older and I'm happy with the fact I'm having sex with a younger gal that still likes sex.

29, With an old soul, and an appreciation for older women... the blues got ahold of me.. that count for anything?

yes me

hi

any real women in va/nc/or wv? Lol

i can

Well said!!

Unreal how sore men's egos can get. Makes me wonder why the he(k they get so defensive? If yours still works the way it should, why get all stressed out?
Kind of interesting reactions though. Lots of bashing going on. Amusing.
At least JT raises a bluddy good issue: cougars! Why would there be cougars if men 45 and up could still satisfy them? I've never had an interest in younger men, still don't really. But I do want a satisfactory sex-life and it looks like you have to turn to younger men for that.
And I wasn't talking about Viagra cases BTW. But getting it up in itself doesn't mean it still functions the way it used to. There's issues like taking forever to climax, not being hard enough etc. And to YOU it might still feel the same, to a woman it doesn't.

I would like to say to all the men with hurt egos or who don't believe what us women are saying: try it yourself! But I guess that would be pushing it a bit, lol.

Here is my experience with older women:
they need a lubricant.

Mine still works well enough actually.

As far as taking forever to climax goes; I do that on purpose. It's not a medical problem and it's just that some women don't have much stamina, or they are unfit or have medical problems that make it difficult for them to perform long enough to satisfy me. It's to be expected when women get older.

Now, don't get me wrong. I don't really object to their boobs getting saggy and I can work around them not being able to stay in positions for more than a few minutes but it is extremely frustrating having a lady saying that she's too old for all of this swinging from the chandeliers business and that she wants you to stop just when you're starting to have a good time.

There is more to sex in a loving relationship than straight up intercourse. Lots of things you can do to keep each other happy.

I have noticed one thing in recent years, as I get older.
My tongue is getting longer.
Now there's food for thought.

I think the last three ladys nailed it.no pun.lol..thank you thank you thank you..I wish weman would quit talking about mr willy not working after 45# hell iam 50 . willy and i are doing fine!!!!!!

We older men have spent decades perfecting the art of delaying ejaculation. I am perplexed by a woman who doesn't want that.