Michele, what are you doing for the rest of my life?
You've got it!

I want to share here,Im inlove with a 50 yr old man here in mingle and lost,I cried the whole night.It means his not worth it anymore?My tears are useless because his 50?lol,thank you girls.

Here in mingle,I noticed 2 generation added me as their favorite,the 30yr old plus and the 60 yr old plus,I declined both,
Maybe I accept the younger one,lol...

So your saying that when you love someone you just have to accept that you will never get fulfilled anymore? I think that's quite a sacrifice to make. For one night, fair enough, but for 20+ years??

And I'm talking men approx 47 and up. I don't think women need lube at that age, I know I certainly don't and doubt I ever will to be honest. Plus, there is a MAJOR difference between a woman needing lube and a guy not being that hard anymore. Lube doesn't make the experience any less, if nothing else, it will enhance it. A guy not being that hard anymore does seriously effects the experience. For the woman that is, probably not for the guy.
Never being really satisfied in the sack to me is a big sacrifice to make.

Had another experience since I started my OP, same thing. It seems to start around age 45-46.
And yes, I find it VERY concerning. I am by no means over the 'sexual hill', the thought of getting a partner my age or slightly older, knowing that either it won't work properly anymore, or will seize to do so within 5, 6 years, is daunting. And I'm not joking here, I'm as serious as can be.
Maybe it's different if you as a woman are erm ... not so sexual and passionate. But I am, think it's a gene think, seen it in my parents and my own kids as well.
And sure there are other ways, but I do not want to make such a huge sacrifice and make do with 'other ways' while I crave that one thing.
I was satisfied in other ways last night, but it does NOT fulfill me, not even for one night, let alone the rest of my life.

One plus when it comes to men 45+: they do know how to please a woman in other ways (probably cos that one particular way doesn't work that well for them anymore, so they have to find other ways), they do take the time for it, enjoy doing so, and are in tune with you, sense what you need, how you feel etc.
That's a big plus and what's often missing in younger men.

Maybe men 38-42 are the perfect ones? Best of both worlds kind of thing.

And sorry if your a guy 45-47+, you can whinge and whine cos your ego is hurt, lash out with "lube" b0||0x, to YOU it may still feel as good as it always did, to a woman it simply doesn't. Period.

Doesn't bother me what you say about sex with other men Crystal. I'm forty five now and it still works the same as it did when I was thirty five and having women telling me that they were getting friction burns. That's what happens. They are usually knackered after about an hour and complaining that it's getting uncomfortable for them. That's with passionate women and there's only so much of a pounding that that thing can take.

I'm amazed that the mods are letting you post this stuff but now you're actually going as far as to say what works for a man as well and I'm telling you that I don't like dry sex. How it feels matters to me too and there's no problem if the woman that I'm with and I are both fully aroused. Sounds like you had a one night stand there and I'm not really surprised that guys get nervous with you and have erectile problems.

"They are usually knackered after about an hour and complaining that it's getting uncomfortable for them. "

you are not doing it right then

both should be able to go all day or night (w/e) without aids...even if a little older (barring a serious medical complication) but I aint sharin' me secrets lol

I am 48 and your words don't offend me. What DOES offend me is the fact that you are clumping all men over 45 or so into the flaccid group. Are you a research scientist? Do you have any documented studies that include a control group?
I used the "lube" statement purely as sarcasm but I guess it went right over your head.

There are 101 non penile ways to satisfy a woman sexually.
They will be in my upcoming best seller, being published as we speak.

I believe it should be titled one thousand and one ways.

Drats!! I guess I am simpler than that!!


Do carry on...

Well, they don't usually get sore down there that quickly and it's usually more that they get aches and pains in other parts of their bodies because they're maybe not that physically fit. But yeah, I've had women saying to me that it was starting to sting a bit after a few hours and a lot of it depends on how hard you go at it.

I think that I'm doing it right and when I was in a relationship we did it all night and I've had long sessions with other women but sometimes they like it a bit rough and I like to mix it up a bit and it's not always going to be slow lovemaking. At the end of the day, it's something that you work on together as a couple and it's about getting in tune with each other.

You have a point I think though about health problems because I was with someone not all that long ago that had them and I was surprised when she said that it was starting to get sore after about an hour. I don't know. I can only go by what they tell me and I've had them sometimes complaining about discomfort but a lot of the time what happens is that they don't want to do it for hours and I do and then I've got them trying to tell me to get on with it and then I've at least got to pretend a bit that I'm trying to do that.

That was the original plan.
But I got writer's block, and my illustrations were starting to suffer.
Example

All I'm getting from this is that it's a frustrated woman venting about her own sex life not being satisfactory. Personally, I think that she just needs a good seeing to.

Not particularly well-versed in art but I do enjoy the master pieces such as this. I enjoy viewing the entire complex interactions of all the subjects such as the interest shown by the other equines in the background.

Agreed.

Such modesty!
You sir, have a very keen eye for the subtle expressions,
in fine art.
Bravo!

Here's an idea Crystal. Next time you're going to hook up with somebody, insist that they show you it on webcam first.

Not being funny, but what makes younger men so special? It can feel pretty bad, dating some university student, who thinks he's hot stuff, just because he has a degree, and goes partying. Sometimes, some of those student types have a degree in being an arsehole. Not all younger men were bad to date, but some of their ego's were just pathetic, and fake. I keep wondering what all the fuss is about.