Topic: How do u feel, when u love someone and the person doesn't???
maylanie's photo
Tue 05/13/14 09:23 PM
I will be hurt... cry

craig_sez's photo
Mon 05/19/14 12:48 PM
Sence i was a very young man(12-15 ish)i have hada crush for a woman that im still friends with today..I didnt tell her but she knew and didnt let on that she knew..When i grew some ballz and told here,i didnt get the responce i had hoped for..We still are friend but not like we used to be..She has sence gotten married and now even to this day miss her..
She is on my fb friends and we hang a lil when i go back to my home town..Its hard when your emotional situation isnt returned but you will live..Sux when it erupts every time you see that person again,no matter if its a few weeks or a few yrs..

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Mon 05/19/14 12:51 PM

Sence i was a very young man(12-15 ish)i have hada crush for a woman that im still friends with today..I didnt tell her but she knew and didnt let on that she knew..When i grew some ballz and told here,i didnt get the responce i had hoped for..We still are friend but not like we used to be..She has sence gotten married and now even to this day miss her..
She is on my fb friends and we hang a lil when i go back to my home town..Its hard when your emotional situation isnt returned but you will live..Sux when it erupts every time you see that person again,no matter if its a few weeks or a few yrs..



Sounds like she does care for you though...thats love.

HoneyFly's photo
Mon 05/19/14 09:53 PM
Snort a line / laced it up into a rollie.

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Mon 05/19/14 10:00 PM
some things are never easy, but if there's a silver lining...
at least you know it and can move on to the right relationship for you.


good luck out there. flowerforyou

Stummpy's photo
Tue 05/20/14 06:34 PM
OT
It is called : unrequitted

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Tue 05/20/14 07:15 PM
I get locked in a room with padded walls, while wearing a straight jacket. Of course not ;). Not much I can do except move on.

enovianty's photo
Wed 05/21/14 08:59 AM
It hurts you and hurt more when she/he loves other person ( :

Ruth34611's photo
Wed 05/21/14 09:19 AM

love is a gift, not a possession, so you can't love someone unless they love you.

ie. to love someone who doesn't love you is to love being treated badly. That's not love, it's idolitry, narcissism, it's lots of things that aren't love. It's a pretty nasty lesson to put yourself through if you have to learn it the hard way.


I have to disagree. It is entirely possible to have feelings, even love, for someone who does not feel the same way about you. It happens all the time.

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Wed 05/21/14 09:46 AM

you love someone but he doesn't.... it hurts soo bad


Sometimes we must experience pain to realize gain...."No pain, no gain"...You would do better to focus on the fact that you are the type of person who does not have to receive love in order to give (feel) love:smile: ...A much more positive outlook....Keep your heart open and love will enter...flowerforyou ....

Beachfarmer's photo
Wed 05/21/14 09:56 AM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Wed 05/21/14 09:57 AM
Yes it does does hurt...and suck! Folks can throw platitudes at you all day, and that will remain the same.

The laws of attraction are so strange. There is solice though in NOT entering something you consider a union where the potential for being hurt worse and worse, over and over.

The cliches that are cliches because they are true, are those of time....and those that express how when you find a "real" union, your hurt now will be SO distant.flowerforyou

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Wed 05/21/14 10:58 AM

Yes it does does hurt...and suck! Folks can throw platitudes at you all day, and that will remain the same.

The laws of attraction are so strange. There is solice though in NOT entering something you consider a union where the potential for being hurt worse and worse, over and over.

The cliches that are cliches because they are true, are those of time....and those that express how when you find a "real" union, your hurt now will be SO distant.flowerforyou


This is such a good post Beach...And I hope I didn't come off sounding tritesad2 ...Furthest thing from my mind was to make light of your pain ((Maylanie))...And though, in time, your hurt will be distant, the wisdom gained from it will help to guide your future...flowerforyou

TBRich's photo
Wed 05/21/14 11:33 AM
ha, this is everyday for me. Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations

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Wed 05/21/14 11:37 AM

ha, this is everyday for me. Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations



:thumbsup:Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations

Vimal716's photo
Wed 05/21/14 11:51 AM
:'( Damn its really hurts like hell ... But its really makes you strong ... It give you the strength to face ... It gives you sleepless night ... It gives you the ultimate pain ... But its all need in our so called life ...
And best of luck for them who won't face yet ...

TBRich's photo
Wed 05/21/14 11:52 AM


ha, this is everyday for me. Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations



:thumbsup:Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations



When I love someone my heart can soar like the hawk; of course it would a like a Lear jet if they loved me back, but I will take what I get

Shy_Emo_chick's photo
Wed 05/21/14 11:53 AM
Hug a pet. That always cheers me up :)

Vimal716's photo
Wed 05/21/14 11:55 AM
Edited by Vimal716 on Wed 05/21/14 11:56 AM
@2kidsMom

Just enjoy feeling "love" with
no expectations

love this quote really :)

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Wed 05/21/14 11:57 AM



ha, this is everyday for me. Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations



:thumbsup:Just enjoy feeling "love" with no expectations



When I love someone my heart can soar like the hawk; of course it would a like a Lear jet if they loved me back, but I will take what I get


Agreed.shades

sasha50's photo
Thu 05/22/14 09:24 AM
The question is how can you love someone whom doesn't love you, know your self worth and the rest will follow you will always be the one hurting if you don't take your time and stop loving for all the wrong reasons