All my life I've never been able. To approach women my self confidence is down laying on the floor its so low plus. I got a little bit of a speech problem so that makes me not wanna talk very much because of all this I've stayed single most my life and women I did like I never tried to ask them out I just let them slip on by. I don't understand why its always gotta be the Guy to make first move? Why can't it be the women? ?

I don't think it's really that hard start with a simple hello. None of us are perfect we all have flaws don't let your speech hold you back. Just be true to yourself the rest will fall in place. Good luck

I would try to turn your liabilities into assets.

Think you are shy and tongue-tied around women?
Tell them so.
Women have many more sympathy/empathy genes than men do.

And, no point in trying to get women to make the first
move, some do, some don't, their choice.

You have to start just approaching them. Do it with the mind frame that you are just meeting them and not asking them out, in fact don't ask them out for a while until you are ready. Try to approach 10 women a week. Then you can assess yourself, did you die when someone didn't talk to you? What got positive responses? etc

Yea well I've tried but always they give me the old classic ( you seem to be really nice Guy but lets be friends) then u never see them agan? Some friends don't you think? Like

It honestly dosnt matter a lot now really I've always wanted A wife and kids. Never happened now I'm too old to start having kids now so I don't guess marriage matters much anymore ether lol so if marriage don't matter then I don't guess a relationship means much lol one big chain reaction lol anyway thanks for the tips I appreciate it

A guy doesn't always have to make the first move. I've had plenty of women aproaching me in my time. It's where you take it from there. If a woman was to do all of the running, how do you think that you would react to that? Even when I'm feeling crappy I can still chat with women because they don't make me nervous and I enjoy the attention.

Be careful what you wish for. If you are too afraid to approach them what will you be like if they approached you? Like Hitler said:- "Strength lies not in defense but in attack."

I was age 34 when I met my late wife, and I was age 36 when my son was born. So, no, you are not too old to start a family.

Lol ill rephrase my lost post about the marriage part obviously I made it sound like I wanted a women just to marry and have kids with lol that's not it at all I want a life with some one I wanna share what I have with someone special but I can't find it so oh well maybe I'm met to be alone idk as far as kids goes I really wanna know how people figures 33 is so young I would be almost 50 by the time he or she graduated. I don't.want.that I wanted to have a family then when they was grown we would've still been young enough to we're we could.still enjoy our life a little still feel like doing something but it never happened lol

WoW You make 50 sound like death!

I am 50 and certainly not dead and have many years of fun left in me.

Sorry mam didn't meen no disrespect

Because it is young.
As I said earlier, I was age 36 when my son was born, and I am enjoying being a dad.
Having a child at that age isn't a problem unless you turn it into one.

My personal opinion (remember MY OPINION everyone) and no disrespect intended here.

You come off down or depressed with a bad outlook on life in general. Just from the words spoken (typed) here. As a woman, that is a HUGE RED flag and a HUGE turn OFF. I think if you changed how you see life in general (just going by your own words here) you will be surprised at what lands in your lap.

Best of luck with what you are searching for.

Sorry to jump into this in the middle but my father said the same thing as you until he met my mom when he was 42 and I was born. He made a much better husband & father because of the age at which it started for him. It will happen. Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears
So speak from your heart & the right one will hear you!

Im.not depressed at all I enjoy my life very much except being alone part I got my house my land and so much other **** to share with someone but no one to share it with no one.to pass this on too anyway I appreciate it anyway thanks everyone

that would be great if I could speak good enough for them to understand what I'm saying? ?? Lol

what worked for me is approaching ones that i wasn't interested in. once you've built enough confidence speaking to women in general, the rest will fall into place.

lol ok