There was a guy on Millionaire Matchmaker the other day that got all nervous when he had to talk to a woman and she actually found that atractive. I think that they call it sexual tension.

I have the opposite problem. I'm totally at ease with women that I like but I find myself struggling to know what to say when they're not my type and I don't really feel the atraction.

I believe there is someone out there for you . You seem like a decent guy. Everyone has something they feeliinsecure about.Yours from your cconversation is speech difficulty. Trust me, there are a lot of women who look for a nice guy with a big heart.
Start by just saying hi.
You are definitely not too old to have a family.
Have faith and hang in there.

Good luck Man, maybe you should see it in women that you look interesting, build an interest with them and then create a the need at first as if you will be close friends.

The last time a guy wanted to date me, was weeks ago. I met him at where I was doing my intern thing. But no matter what, things can still go wrong. And they did. I just take dating with a pinch of salt, because if you let it get to you, it's like a trap. So what if a guy I take fancy to, ignores me? I can easily move onto a guy who will genuinely want me. It's all a numbers game. If a guy doesn't put effort in, I assume he's not interested. So I forget them after that. No point worrying about the why's.

This is my personal opinion, and no offense is meant... but...

It doesn't matter what material possessions you have, Simple.

As a result of the negative energy your solo position is emanating you are building walls to keep women away, not inviting them in to stay.

If you have never found anyone that can see past the way you speak to anything else you may have or want to offer then perhaps it's not how you say things, but what you say.

Women are pretty intuitive and can easily pick up on a man's intent after only a few words are spoken.

There is someone for everyone though, so I wish you luck in your search.