i know I have a Hard time asking girls out but what is weird is i can talk to them in the street about normal stuff and i am fine with it

yea lol well your doing better then me hell I've been turn down so much I just stop trying to even make friends let alone anything beyond friends lol I honestly believe that not ever one is met to be with someone. I think I'm one of the chosen few that's met to be alone I just wish I knew what my purpose was for being here lol

just hang in there it takes time and sometimes the right job to help with the focus

.. for every shoe there is a foot..
.. your lady may still be in the forest.. she just has not revealed herself yet... never surrender never give up hope.... and your confidence grows with every conversation you have on m2... Carrie that confidence forward with you in your real life.. we all value your opinion... why wouldn't you think anybody else wouldn't.....hmm... you have a lot to offer.. don't lay down your sword and shield quite yet...y.f.phD...

Its amazing how people don't understand why I have a hard time with this lol but I'm shutting up before it turns in to a big deal because its really not lol its just part of life

just go up to random women and ask the time. do that 25-50 times. then afterwards smile and say thank you. walk away. next go up to them and do you have the time and then say thank you, but afterwards compliment them on something small and walk away. do that 25-50 times. once you've achieved a comfort level engaging with women, you'll be surprised how much easier it gets. trust me it works

hard time or not its all in your attitude. don't complain if you're not willing to step outside the box. negative thinking only gets you negative results. think more positively and smile

ok lmao ill do that when I'm good and drunk which isn't very often

Start with this....
"Would you care to dance?"
Suggest activities with less talking until your confidence increases

it never works out when women make the first move, hasn't for me anyway... you just have to suck it up and jump out there... never know till you try

seriously start small and do it daily. don't ask for advice if you're not open to changing how you do things. it makes you look like an askhole yes i said askhole.

I've felt like you do mate and after I finished with my ex I thought that it was all over and that I was going to be alone for the rest of my life. I'm forty five now though and dating again. Some of the women that I go out with are even still young enough to have kids and I missed out on that when I was younger. That isn't a priority for me though and it's certainly not more important than just getting a girlfriend.

I mean, it seems to me that you have some idea in your head about what a relationship should be but I don't really think like that and I'm rather unconventional. Dating should be fun and that's your problem. You aren't comfortable with even asking women out. You may not be depressed but your posts are depressing. Use this issue about your age by all means but tell yourself that it's gone on for long enough and you need to do something different because what you're doing just now sure isn't getting you any.

We'll thanks bud I appreciate it

"Go around asking women for the time 25 to 50 times." haha! He'd get a reputation... "There goes that guy again, asking everybody what time it is. Why don't he just buy himself a watch if it means that much to him?"

lmao exactly thank you bud I meen who dose that???.lol

closed minds get nothing new. its a proven technique but hey do nothing get nothing. i've done it and it works. good. enjoy being single. you'll be there a while. while i'm out picking up what i want, ill be sure to think of you and feel sorry. lol. not

as far as I know , woman also wants a good guy to talk with them , be their friend , or be their boyfriend or life partner . yes its true , tounge gets stuck when you approach someone you like very much , but think what will happen if you talk to her properly ?? nothing bad . so just give a try buddy . let the fear go , because you get same what you give ...

This is so refreshing. To hear a man lamenting on why women dont want to make the first move. Very refreshing indeed. Having lived most of my life in a society where women are looked down upon for having made the first move, i find this post so refreshing, i feel like hugging people.

well everyone I wish you luck.thanks for all the tips. I hope everybody finds that special someone c ya

Same here bud. Dont think your alone on this one. My brain just completely switches off and goes for a wonder if I wanna talk to a girl I like. Something.. just overides commonsense for those important 2mins or so lol.