Topic: Am I being blind?
nvrsaynvr's photo
Fri 09/14/07 11:44 PM
^^^^^what gypsy and seahawks said

seahawks's photo
Sat 09/15/07 12:53 AM
yup yur bein blind hun sorry.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

s1owhand's photo
Sat 09/15/07 04:56 AM
time to start over and find someone real
sorry jayme brokenheart

it is not your fault. he was not honest with you babe.
but it is your decision now to move on to someone you
can actually trust. do it. and leave the trash for
the garbage women.

Jess642's photo
Sat 09/15/07 05:02 AM
Jayme.....do you 'hedge your bets?'....have an each way gamble, and the best horse wins?

Wins what? Is he the prize? pffft!!!! NOT!!!!

You are!!!


Buy the man a bus ticket and wish him well with his future children....

Good Lawd....


You have way more self esteem than that....it shines from your posts...

Fanta46's photo
Sat 09/15/07 05:22 AM
One question for the OP.

ARE YOU STUPID?
Just a question........drinker

no photo
Sat 09/15/07 05:27 AM
The guy is most definitely a bad bet... don't give him more time to mooch off you...send his buttocks down the road.

no photo
Sat 09/15/07 05:34 AM
i'll be bl8ant



DUMP HIM FAST!!!!!!!drinker

bigpappa4331's photo
Sat 09/15/07 05:45 AM
hiiiii alex !!!!!!!bigsmile happy

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 09/15/07 07:39 AM
"When people show you who they are ... believe them the first time." - Maya Angelou

....sooooo true!!!! flowerforyou

kidatheart70's photo
Sat 09/15/07 07:41 AM
I guess it's a good thing I don't growl often!laugh

Hi Sherrieflowerforyou

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 09/15/07 07:42 AM
(((((Harry)))))

oldsage's photo
Sat 09/15/07 07:53 AM
Thoughts from an old man,

This is a ticking time bomb, seems the guy is using you. You can turn your back on it only so long & then there WILL be an explosion, worry about how bad the damage will be & if the wounds can be kept to non-physical. I have watched you as a member of this family & think you are better than this. Do what you must, but protect yourself & admit the truth.

Ever need an old man, drop me a line.

MicheleNC's photo
Sat 09/15/07 08:06 AM
Ahhh, OldSage...such wise words.

JaymeGirl...run, run fast. You know in your heart what to do. We will all be here for you no matter what.

Hugs, M

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Sat 09/15/07 09:41 AM
Kick him to the curb...

(did I say that?)

bookworm's photo
Sat 09/15/07 09:43 AM
Either way.... can you ever trust him completely??

I say you're being cheated on. Sorry. :o(

texasrose9's photo
Sat 09/15/07 09:59 AM
Very clearly, he's cheating. I had this exact same thing happen to me, and you can't believe anything either one of them say to you. I made the mistake of not sticking to my guns when I threw mine out...and we were together for 4 years and engaged...when this happened. Wasn't 2 months later he was cheating again with someone else he met out of town on a business trip...in fact....I gave his ring back when I found out about it, and he put it on her finger 5 days later...... The whole time he made it out to be a one night stand he met out of town...YEAH right......... I'm still kicking myself.....
Dump him before it goes much further and you REALLY get hurt....

nurjoyce's photo
Sat 09/15/07 10:05 AM
you are too sweet for that BS

this was a 2 way conversation in TEXT!!!!
he is not worth it...before you invest
more than 2 months!!!!!!!!!!!

no photo
Sat 09/15/07 08:02 PM
I think he is cheating or very close, or he is planning to very soon.
I am sorry. I hope he changes his mind.

You should deal with HIM not her.

Keep being normally nice to him but OBVIOUSLY do not get pregnant now.

huh bigsmile Grrr rrrr uh



no photo
Sat 09/15/07 08:07 PM
cheater
give him the boot!

Lagniappe's photo
Sat 09/15/07 08:29 PM
There is a reason you felt compelled to check out his cell phone... it's called "red flags". Reg flags are our gut instincts based on all available information. Ignoring those red flags will only serve to make you an ongoing victim of cheaters, users, etc. As painful as it may be, you have to muster the courage to recognize those pesky red flags and act accordingly... you'll be glad you did in the end.